Sexy and nice?

[Guest]

Though I abhor labels, I have been pondering whether a person can be sexy and nice?

I realize definitions for each may be subjective. What do you think?

 

[isuguy99]

I personally think its very possible to be sexy and nice at the same time.

 

[RisiaSkye]

Absolutely, raindancer. As you are living evidence to indicate.

How ya been, sweetheart?

 

[Ice Cold]

I think they can be one in the same... I find that the nicer people are the more attractive I find them... and I have met some extremely sexy ultra nice people. They are not hung up on their own looks and it comes through in their personality.

 

[cybergirly]

The better question would be:
Can a person know they are sexy and still be nice?

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Can a person who think's they're nice, still be sexy?

 

[Guest]

Absolutely, raindancer. As you are living evidence to indicate.

How ya been, sweetheart?

You are too kind, love. Thank you.

I am doing ok. I feel as though one side of my brain is underfunctioning though. Ever had one of those days when you can't remember anything?

Eep. I can't type well, either. I am all clumsy tonight, too.

 

[Guest]

Can a person know they are sexy and still be nice?

Yikes. I think so. I hope so.

 

[april-wine]

Hmmmmm I am nice mostly........

But sexy.......I have never thought that......

 

[Guest]

Can a person who think's they're nice, still be sexy?

Ugh. What if you think you may be nice and may be sexy but you just can not be sure?

Nice and sexy...do they coincide often, ya think?



April, April. You are one sexy AND nice lady.

 

[cybergirly]

Personally I think that the nicest and sexiest people, don't realize that they are either. It's just part of them, something they never consider.

 

[ScarlettRose]

The better question would be:
Can a person know they are sexy and still be nice?

well i think part of being sexy is believing you are sexy, so i'd have to say yes

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Ugh. What if you think you may be nice and may be sexy but you just can not be sure?

What if . . . you're me?

I get told it's possible. And by people who mean a lot to me too, I'll take them at their word.

 

[cybergirly]

What if . . . you're me?

I get told it's possible. And by people who mean a lot to me too, I'll take them at their word.

It's the people who mean alot to you whos opinions matter.

 

[Guest]

I agree cybergirly. I've always felt that way.

Scarlett, you bring up a good point.
There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Confidence is sexy and vice versa.

Juspar, being told by loved ones, does it sink in?

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Juspar, being told by loved ones, does it sink in?

Does being told nice things ever sink in? It's easier to believe the years of put downs. The good things don't, or at least haven't, sunk in - but htey make me happy when I hear them.

 

[Dillinger]

I agree with Risia - you are indeed proof that a person can be sexy AND nice!

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Though I abhor labels, I have been pondering whether a person can be sexy and nice?

I realize definitions for each may be subjective. What do you think?

Yes, Raindancer... I know firsthand that men can be both sexy AND nice (along with nice and sexy!).

LIT Proof: omahaman2!

 

[Private Vasquez]

I'm perfectly nice.

 

[Dillinger]

And, in fact, quite sexy in that barbie like way you have about you.

 

[Private Vasquez]

nuh uh...I'm plastic.

 

[Guest]

Does being told nice things ever sink in? It's easier to believe the years of put downs. The good things don't, or at least haven't, sunk in - but htey make me happy when I hear them.

Yes. It does seem that bad things stick easily.

I could discuss that all night.

 

[Guest]

Thank you, Dillinger.

Jenny- I'm so happy for you!

PV, you can be nice, sexy, AND plastic. I think so, anyways.

 

[april-wine]

Yes. It does seem that bad things easily.

I could discuss that all night.

Hugs raindancer.......

 

[Private Vasquez]

PV, you can be nice, sexy, AND plastic. I think so, anyways.

that must be one of those oxymoron-type-things.