Sexual regrets?

[eroticone_44]

Everyone has to have at least a few things in their sexual life that they did, and later regretted it. And also I'll bet there are things that you did not do sexually, and now regret passing up on the opportunity. What would be YOUR most regrettable experience in each catagory; of having done and of having not done?

 

[Gamelover221]

Unfortunately my first time was really unfufilling. I would sooo like to redo that one, but not much can happen for it now. I love to please and all, but the first girl I was with literally just kinda lay there on the bed. Ever since then I've been pretty turned off of younger women (talking teens to early 20's). They are (in most cases I've seen) just too withdrawn. Someone with a little more time is generally more open to experimentation and exploration (23+ seems good).

The only missed opportunity I've had was when I was dating my first g/f. I wanted to go down on her, but she told me not to. She told me later when I asked about it that she thought guys didn't like to do that, so she didn't want me to have to suffer. No suffering here...just a lost opportinuty!

 

[VeryBadGirl]

Threesome averted

I was a waitress in my early 20's and was friends with this girl. Being hetero, I never really looked at her as anything but a "friend" and we both talked about our boyfriends, sex, etc. We talked about MFF 3-somes once, and I said that I probably would do it. Well, I was just talking shit - actually, I was repressed as hell, but just said I would do it to be cool. I NEVER thought she would discuss it with her boyfriend and then invite me to join them for real!

They were both hot and cute, but I said NO!!!!!!! WHAT THE HELL WAS I THINKING!!! something stupid, obviously.

Now I'm in my late 30's, married w/children, have a great sex life with hub, but I really doubt we would experiment with other people at this point in our lives. Missed opportunity of a LIFETIME!!!

 

[darkbeast]

My Regret

is based on what I DIDN'T do.

I was 15 and my cousin, a year older than me, had her birthday party at my house. My parents lived on a lake so she could have a fire on the beach and she and her friends could have fun without disrupting anyone.

One of her friends started coming on to me, but I was/am socially inept and didn't know how to respond. I was certain she was setting me up to humiliate me so I ignored her flirtatious behavior. I was down on the beach with them at the fire listening to music when she announced she was going to take a walk up to the beach. She then turned to me and directly asked, "Want to come with me and keep me company?" My answer still echoes through my mind... "Nah, that's okay."

My cousin teased me for quite some time after that and my next opportunity to lose my virginity wouldn't come along until I was 19.