messedupkitten
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Sexual arousal confusion?
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Funinkilts
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I have come to the Ve where I just hold no cares for most things society. I too have no filters, nor hold any inhibitions. Unfortunately, most are scared off, because I don’t hide my thoughts. Now mind you, I don’t ask nor implore you to think the same, just be yourself. Without the labels forced upon you. Better to know me as who I am, not by any label I’ve been given.
AlexBailey
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Hi MUK,
What is it you like about older men vs. younger men? I've heard some say they like the way older people with more experience can be more confident and focused on what is important to them and the ones they are concerned with while younger people tend to be less practical and have less experience and wisdom about what is really important.
Your older neighbor may simply have come to an understanding of herself that modesty and privacy do not bring her closer to what she wants in life.
You seem confused by your body's own reactions. This is an example of your own youth and lack of experience and how it affects you own feelings and actions. Twenty years from now you will probably have a much better understanding of yourself and you will probably project that to other people.
As you get to know yourself you may embrace your feelings of arousal and be more open with your passions, or perhaps you may discover that you are more of a private person and do not want to be open about intimacy. There is no one-size-fits-all wrong or right way, you get to determine that for yourself.
In my personal experience and as a father of young adults I see great differences between how open or modest different people can be even when raised within similar situations. The most important thing for healthy emotional development seems to be honesty with one's self. It's trying to be or present as something your are not that creates problems.
Enjoy the adventure and be true to yourself whoever that turns out to be.
What is it you like about older men vs. younger men? I've heard some say they like the way older people with more experience can be more confident and focused on what is important to them and the ones they are concerned with while younger people tend to be less practical and have less experience and wisdom about what is really important.
Your older neighbor may simply have come to an understanding of herself that modesty and privacy do not bring her closer to what she wants in life.
You seem confused by your body's own reactions. This is an example of your own youth and lack of experience and how it affects you own feelings and actions. Twenty years from now you will probably have a much better understanding of yourself and you will probably project that to other people.
As you get to know yourself you may embrace your feelings of arousal and be more open with your passions, or perhaps you may discover that you are more of a private person and do not want to be open about intimacy. There is no one-size-fits-all wrong or right way, you get to determine that for yourself.
In my personal experience and as a father of young adults I see great differences between how open or modest different people can be even when raised within similar situations. The most important thing for healthy emotional development seems to be honesty with one's self. It's trying to be or present as something your are not that creates problems.
Enjoy the adventure and be true to yourself whoever that turns out to be.
