Sexting another man's hot wife so exciting

[Seekingaspecialone]

I am happily married.
But having another man's hot wife as an online playmate is intoxicsting to me.
Is it because once a week, just is not enough?
Or is it some fetish , or carryover from the affair with the hot wife of a large farmer?

And why is it so appealing to the married wives?

I miss that.

 

[cuck72]

Years ago when my wife and I were in our mid 40's like, 20 years ago. There was this younger guy at her job, my wife said he was 33, and my wife and him became, should I say very friendly. I'm not sure if it really got physical, but it got to the point where he started calling her late at night. My wife said he was just calling to talk about work issues, but he was calling during the time I had to get to bed. I'm guessing my wife might have mentioned to him that my husband has to get to bed by 9pm because he gets up 4am for work. This guy always called her after I went to bed, sometimes I'd wake up to the phone ringing, sometimes I was just going to bed. Then I'd wake up to piss at times and she'd still be on the phone. So I know they talked for over a hour at times.

Now about me, I've always had fantasies about other guys we know fucking her, I even mentioned this guy at her job. She loved the fantasy about him and didn't hide it. But I was having so many mixed up feelings, a real rollercoaster ride. When he was calling, I was hurt and worried she didn't love me, that she was getting serious with him. But then like the next day after their call, I was masturbating thinking of her cheating. I was having these fantasies of my wife giving this guy blow jobs during their lunch. Sometimes she called because she was going to be like a hour late, to say she was stuck at work finishing up. I was masturbating picturing her in her back seat somewhere and him fucking her in her car.

 

[dz2681]

Years ago when my wife and I were in our mid 40's like, 20 years ago. There was this younger guy at her job, my wife said he was 33, and my wife and him became, should I say very friendly. I'm not sure if it really got physical, but it got to the point where he started calling her late at night. My wife said he was just calling to talk about work issues, but he was calling during the time I had to get to bed. I'm guessing my wife might have mentioned to him that my husband has to get to bed by 9pm because he gets up 4am for work. This guy always called her after I went to bed, sometimes I'd wake up to the phone ringing, sometimes I was just going to bed. Then I'd wake up to piss at times and she'd still be on the phone. So I know they talked for over a hour at times.

Now about me, I've always had fantasies about other guys we know fucking her, I even mentioned this guy at her job. She loved the fantasy about him and didn't hide it. But I was having so many mixed up feelings, a real rollercoaster ride. When he was calling, I was hurt and worried she didn't love me, that she was getting serious with him. But then like the next day after their call, I was masturbating thinking of her cheating. I was having these fantasies of my wife giving this guy blow jobs during their lunch. Sometimes she called because she was going to be like a hour late, to say she was stuck at work finishing up. I was masturbating picturing her in her back seat somewhere and him fucking her in her car.

Or on his desk or a empty office or conference room... my wife’s work flings started in much the same way but more texting... loved reading the messages and getting updates from her.

 

[kissedcherry]

Sex with other people's mates

I am not sure if guys like hotwives for the same reason that I am sometimes attracted to married men. But I think there must be an overlap in the reasons that sex with someone else's mate has appeal. I don't sleep with happily married guys unless I know they are in an open marriage or if they are sharing their wife.

But if a guy is in a miserable marriage and never getting sex then I don't feel bad about going to bed with them. The reason I think it is appealing is because I am not looking for a husband but I do enjoy having sex for the sake of sex with men that are not looking for a wife. I know that married guys are going to be discrete and some of them are less likely to have STD.

I think that for guys getting in bed with a hotwife must be similar. If it is ok with her husband then there is no reason to feel guilty and it is clearly just sex for the sake of sex.

 

[JGGiant]

I bet this happens all the time. Something about the risk / reward. Very hot.

 

[99Freedom]

I am not sure if guys like hotwives for the same reason that I am sometimes attracted to married men. But I think there must be an overlap in the reasons that sex with someone else's mate has appeal. I don't sleep with happily married guys unless I know they are in an open marriage or if they are sharing their wife.

But if a guy is in a miserable marriage and never getting sex then I don't feel bad about going to bed with them. The reason I think it is appealing is because I am not looking for a husband but I do enjoy having sex for the sake of sex with men that are not looking for a wife. I know that married guys are going to be discrete and some of them are less likely to have STD.

I think that for guys getting in bed with a hotwife must be similar. If it is ok with her husband then there is no reason to feel guilty and it is clearly just sex for the sake of sex.

Lots of insight here. Very helpful to me due to the wife saying “I needed to figure something out” as her sex drive dwindled to nonexistent.

 

[Mtnmike]

I am not sure if guys like hotwives for the same reason that I am sometimes attracted to married men. But I think there must be an overlap in the reasons that sex with someone else's mate has appeal. I don't sleep with happily married guys unless I know they are in an open marriage or if they are sharing their wife.

But if a guy is in a miserable marriage and never getting sex then I don't feel bad about going to bed with them. The reason I think it is appealing is because I am not looking for a husband but I do enjoy having sex for the sake of sex with men that are not looking for a wife. I know that married guys are going to be discrete and some of them are less likely to have STD.

I think that for guys getting in bed with a hotwife must be similar. If it is ok with her husband then there is no reason to feel guilty and it is clearly just sex for the sake of sex.

You are a very smart lady, the way you look at this is the way everyone should. God how I'd like to find a lady like you, as we've been sexless for over 11 years & she has no libido at all.

 

[screwher]

I am happily married.
But having another man's hot wife as an online playmate is intoxicsting to me.
Is it because once a week, just is not enough?
Or is it some fetish , or carryover from the affair with the hot wife of a large farmer?

And why is it so appealing to the married wives?

I miss that.

A number of times throughout this crisis I’ve had men on here suggesting my wife play in line. Trust me, I’d love to watch her get naked with another man on line. Unfortunately this just isn’t for her.

 

[carln3346]

Lots of insight here. Very helpful to me due to the wife saying “I needed to figure something out” as her sex drive dwindled to nonexistent.

lol - you're not alone!

 

[fullservice65]

I am not sure if guys like hotwives for the same reason that I am sometimes attracted to married men. But I think there must be an overlap in the reasons that sex with someone else's mate has appeal. I don't sleep with happily married guys unless I know they are in an open marriage or if they are sharing their wife.

But if a guy is in a miserable marriage and never getting sex then I don't feel bad about going to bed with them. The reason I think it is appealing is because I am not looking for a husband but I do enjoy having sex for the sake of sex with men that are not looking for a wife. I know that married guys are going to be discrete and some of them are less likely to have STD.

I think that for guys getting in bed with a hotwife must be similar. If it is ok with her husband then there is no reason to feel guilty and it is clearly just sex for the sake of sex.

Sex for the sake of sex is fine with me.

 

[screwher]

I am not sure if guys like hotwives for the same reason that I am sometimes attracted to married men. But I think there must be an overlap in the reasons that sex with someone else's mate has appeal. I don't sleep with happily married guys unless I know they are in an open marriage or if they are sharing their wife.

But if a guy is in a miserable marriage and never getting sex then I don't feel bad about going to bed with them. The reason I think it is appealing is because I am not looking for a husband but I do enjoy having sex for the sake of sex with men that are not looking for a wife. I know that married guys are going to be discrete and some of them are less likely to have STD.

I think that for guys getting in bed with a hotwife must be similar. If it is ok with her husband then there is no reason to feel guilty and it is clearly just sex for the sake of sex.

My wife and I are split on the idea of her playing with married men. It hasn’t happened yet but it’s a bridge we’ll cross at the time, especially if my wife is attracted to him. On one hand a married man will be discreet. And not looking to mess with our marriage and only be interested in the sex. But if it blows up on him, my wife doesn’t want to think of being a home wrecker. But I will say it’s really the person cheating that’s the homewrecker. Not the person they’re chearing with.

 

[Sassyunicorn]

My wife and I are split on the idea of her playing with married men. It hasn’t happened yet but it’s a bridge we’ll cross at the time, especially if my wife is attracted to him. On one hand a married man will be discreet. And not looking to mess with our marriage and only be interested in the sex. But if it blows up on him, my wife doesn’t want to think of being a home wrecker. But I will say it’s really the person cheating that’s the homewrecker. Not the person they’re chearing with.

it’s really the person cheating that’s the homewrecker. Not the person they’re chearing with. EXACTLY! Both people made a decision to have sex. You aren't responsible for anyone's decisions, actions, or consequences.