Sexless Marriage

[bailadora]

i hear you. and you're all right, i put it badly the first post and acknowledged that with my reply to erika..

moreover, i'm sorry to have disrupted this thread.

Meh. No harm, no foul. Victorious has made his decision and seems to be satisfied with it.

Your join date seems to suggest you've been around awhile, but just in case you're unaware - we're an opinionated bunch and we're not shy about sharing them! For the most part, we try to keep it civil, but if you've the guts to put an opinion out on open forum, there's a good chance it's likely to be discussed and possibly even challenged. In that spirit, IMHO, I don't think you've disrupted the thread at all. It's all normal MO for HT.

 

[Lord Pmann]

i hear you. and you're all right, i put it badly the first post and acknowledged that with my reply to erika..

moreover, i'm sorry to have disrupted this thread.

The thread is pretty much dead, so no worries. The forum is all about opinions. And people post a lot of different opinions here. Hell, people hate my opinions on here on a daily basis!

 

[SweetErika]

Newgentleguy, Bailadora and Pmann did a great job explaining what I said.

I spent the first 10 years of my life watching my dad control, walk all over and cheat on my mom. That screwed me up, even though I got counseling at the time of the divorce and later on. Bad marriages impact children to an extreme degree, and affect their relationships later in life in one way or another.

Now I'm going through the roughest time ever in my own marriage of almost 10 years. I certainly have grounds to leave, but I've decided to stick it out and see if we can heal ourselves and our relationship with therapy and hard work. I'm committed to that, partly because I think it's what's best for our toddler at this point. At the same time, I recognize that there may be a point when we need to go separate ways so I can be a healthy role model for our son (my husband does, too, of course, but what he doesn't isn't in my sphere of control).

 

[subwannabe]

This thread was dead quite a while ago. Did I miss something? What was the miracle?

 

[newgentleguy]

Newgentleguy, Bailadora and Pmann did a great job explaining what I said.

I spent the first 10 years of my life watching my dad control, walk all over and cheat on my mom. That screwed me up, even though I got counseling at the time of the divorce and later on. Bad marriages impact children to an extreme degree, and affect their relationships later in life in one way or another.

Now I'm going through the roughest time ever in my own marriage of almost 10 years. I certainly have grounds to leave, but I've decided to stick it out and see if we can heal ourselves and our relationship with therapy and hard work. I'm committed to that, partly because I think it's what's best for our toddler at this point. At the same time, I recognize that there may be a point when we need to go separate ways so I can be a healthy role model for our son (my husband does, too, of course, but what he doesn't isn't in my sphere of control).

sorry for not thanking you sooner for your response... i hope that things work out for you all. i know there were times that the only thing holding our marriage together were our children.. take care erica