Sexless Marriage

[OldTennisGuy]

Love coming to Lit for help-the ladies here are great! I’m a visual kind of guy and would love pics to help me out. Love being teased!

 

[OldTennisGuy]

Would love some “ass”istance

 

[OldTennisGuy]

Any ladies ever helped out someone in a sexless marriage?

 

[lifeis2short2b]

If you love coming on Lit, You would know there are hundreds of "guys in sexless marriages".
Get on line

 

[ukfdivorced]

Any ladies ever helped out someone in a sexless marriage?

Professionaly and also recreationaly

 

[ShooterMcGavin001]

Professionaly and also recreationaly

I wish we were neighbors

 

[Terrylm]

5 years now.

 

[Mittering]

Went for 2 or 3 years before 2016. That year it was once and was told not to be fancy and no marathon either. Nothing since. Noone since.

 

[Britva415]

was told not to be fancy and no marathon either

I wouldn't have even done it.

There's nothing unsexier than one-sided pity sex or duty sex.

I told my wife she's off the hook. And if she were to want it with me, she would have to seduce me into it. If I don't feel her excitement, I'm not excited either.

The good news is I don't have to be sexually exclusive with her, so, I get my needs met extramaritally with her blessing.

It would be nice to be married to someone I have sex with, but no marriage is perfect. Other than this one thing, we're doing great.

It's sad to see when the sexless marriage has more issues than just the sex. I mean, that's sad too but in most of these stories the sex isn't even the sad part.

Communication breakdowns and dismissive, un-empathetic behavior are MUCH bigger problems than just an incompatibility of sexualities.