Sexless hubby seeks!!

[Texasman136]

This is pretty straight forward. It’s been like 8 months. It’s always been a bit rough. She just has never been into sex. On the rare occasion she is always like we should do this more.then try as I might nada. So here I am looking for some one to have some fun with.

Looking for voice or message on Skype or here. 48, articulate, funny, and plenty kinky. Just looking to have some fun. Love women of all ages, shapes, colors, and kinks. Most of all find confidence to be the sexiest thing.

Finally, before you start to reply with bullshit about what I should do or how I must not be turning her on, this isn’t a me problem. There are a number of issues for her that just always have been. Amazing in so many other ways, just not this one. So kindly fuck off before replying with that shit.

 

[Texasman136]

Seeing if I can get back on top

 

[Texasman136]

Gotta be someone out there

 

[Texasman136]

Maybe someone is out there looking to keep warm today

 

[Slut_4_U]

This is pretty straight forward. It’s been like 8 months. It’s always been a bit rough. She just has never been into sex. On the rare occasion she is always like we should do this more.then try as I might nada. So here I am looking for some one to have some fun with.

Looking for voice or message on Skype or here. 48, articulate, funny, and plenty kinky. Just looking to have some fun. Love women of all ages, shapes, colors, and kinks. Most of all find confidence to be the sexiest thing.

Finally, before you start to reply with bullshit about what I should do or how I must not be turning her on, this isn’t a me problem. There are a number of issues for her that just always have been. Amazing in so many other ways, just not this one. So kindly fuck off before replying with that shit.

Send me a message

 

[Cobalt_Leo]

I am in the same spot except that it has just been 2 years for us and we are only 35. None of her body parts are erogenous and she hardly cuddles. Although she is a very very devoted and loving wife but doesn't have a drive to initiate anything remotely sexual on her own. All my attempts (atleast 4 times a day) are met with rejection and denial. She has apologized multiple times and has promised multiple times to work on fixing herself, only to return to her selfish self the very next day and turning blind eye to my needs. Its not about me not turning her on. We had a great sext life while we dated before the marriage but now she seems to be anxious and worried all the time about the future. I dont know whats wrong with her but she just doesn't enjoy her life and the present. If I am lucky, I get sex once a month and that too hushed hushed because she would always have something to get back to immediately afterwards. It seems her life is full and she doesn't miss sex, like being sexless doesn't bother her at all. FYI, its not about my performance too because I don't cum quickly and fairly attractive too. I don't want a marriage wherein I can't enjoy such moments with a partner and have to seek fun outside instead. I just can't seem to fix my current situation. I read all these comments at such forums and it gives me shivers to think that 20 years hence I would only be full of regrets, to not get out of the marriage while I could.

 

[CatTheGreat]

Maybe someone is out there looking to keep warm today

Message me sometime

 

[2ServeWoman]

Send me a message

Try 16 YEARS!!

 

[NotWhoYouWant]

I am in the same spot except that it has just been 2 years for us and we are only 35. None of her body parts are erogenous and she hardly cuddles. Although she is a very very devoted and loving wife but doesn't have a drive to initiate anything remotely sexual on her own. All my attempts (atleast 4 times a day) are met with rejection and denial. She has apologized multiple times and has promised multiple times to work on fixing herself, only to return to her selfish self the very next day and turning blind eye to my needs. Its not about me not turning her on. We had a great sext life while we dated before the marriage but now she seems to be anxious and worried all the time about the future. I dont know whats wrong with her but she just doesn't enjoy her life and the present. If I am lucky, I get sex once a month and that too hushed hushed because she would always have something to get back to immediately afterwards. It seems her life is full and she doesn't miss sex, like being sexless doesn't bother her at all. FYI, its not about my performance too because I don't cum quickly and fairly attractive too. I don't want a marriage wherein I can't enjoy such moments with a partner and have to seek fun outside instead. I just can't seem to fix my current situation. I read all these comments at such forums and it gives me shivers to think that 20 years hence I would only be full of regrets, to not get out of the marriage while I could.

Divorce? Let her enjoy her life, and you go enjoy yours

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I have met a few guys like you IRL.
I would meet more.
Sucked their cocks until their balls were empty.

I only get fucked 8 to 10 times a year.
I am single.

Need someone to save you from your sexless hell?

 

[ericalauren]

This is pretty straight forward. It’s been like 8 months. It’s always been a bit rough. She just has never been into sex. On the rare occasion she is always like we should do this more.then try as I might nada. So here I am looking for some one to have some fun with.

Looking for voice or message on Skype or here. 48, articulate, funny, and plenty kinky. Just looking to have some fun. Love women of all ages, shapes, colors, and kinks. Most of all find confidence to be the sexiest thing.

Finally, before you start to reply with bullshit about what I should do or how I must not be turning her on, this isn’t a me problem. There are a number of issues for her that just always have been. Amazing in so many other ways, just not this one. So kindly fuck off before replying with that shit.

Does your wife know that you’re here? Are you two polyamorous?

 

[ericalauren]

Wtf difference does that make? Her libido is on the fritz. He’s NOT the problem - my wife going on 16 “Years” I bet he’s gonna ask me sumpin stoopid, Too! It’s her AND she knows but doesn’t fucking care!

Yes, of course, I’m looking & obviously I’m extremely selective as my needs are a tad more demanding & I must be careful & ya know -16 + years, I’ll be pretty open to ANY physical interaction, ya think?

The OP should be open about whether they are cheating on their spouse or if they are polyamorous. That’s why I asked.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

WHY, wtf business is that if yours - all you judgmental holier than thou opionated creeps analyzing others - when there IS a definite issue & like mine, she says crap like, I’ve got hands? REALLY?

Asking someone who posts a personal ad if they are polyamorous, consensually non-monogamous, or cheating is a perfectly reasonable question. People are allowed to know what type of situation they could be entering. It’s a 100% reasonable question, and not creepy. Your response here? Not reasonable at all.

 

[Texasman136]

Does your wife know that you’re here? Are you two polyamorous?

No, she does not. She just isn't sexual. Lovely, just not sexual. So trying to get her to understand has been impossible. I suspect that she suspects, but we aren't talking about it if that makes some sense. We arent polyamorous, hell she is not amourous! Kidding aside. This isn't about love it is about need. The question is valid though. She does not know.

 

[Texasman136]

The OP should be open about whether they are cheating on their spouse or if they are polyamorous. That’s why I asked.

Sorry that you felt I was not forth coming. The intent was not to hide. I simply just didn't think about it in the context of what felt like an already long post.

 

[Texasman136]

Asking someone who posts a personal ad if they are polyamorous, consensually non-monogamous, or cheating is a perfectly reasonable question. People are allowed to know what type of situation they could be entering. It’s a 100% reasonable question, and not creepy. Your response here? Not reasonable at all.

It was a fair question. I wasn't upset by it at all. I think the response you were seeing from 2servewomen is more indicative of personal hurt and frustration. Having posted this ad before and gotten a lot of responses about it being my fault, not being a good lover, how selfish I was, and what I should be doing different it does gets old. Comments like that, which I didn't take yours as, add to a frustration that is already being felt and I can see easily how it can come out sideways.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I get it, I really do. When I found this forum, I was in a really unhappy and lonely marriage. I will say this, and please know that I say it with no judgment, I would highly recommend leaving before cheating. I didn’t. I cheated and I caused a lot of hurt. We ended up divorcing anyway. He didn’t know about my affair until we had already decided to separate, but it didn’t lessen the hurt he felt.

I have wondered what could have been if I had put the effort I gave to a couple of guys here into my marriage instead, but I do know that we are both much happier now and both with people with whom we are much more compatible.

 

[Bry1313]

Bumping this one

 

[Southernscot21]

I have met a few guys like you IRL.
I would meet more.
Sucked their cocks until their balls were empty.

I only get fucked 8 to 10 times a year.
I am single.

Need someone to save you from your sexless hell?

PLEASE