sex

[Guest]

My wife & I have been mattied for several years and she is a very sexy lady & I am average with a nine incher. We use to have a very exciting sexual relations. she came to bed in veryb sexy wear, no bra or panies and we sometime slept in nude. Of lately she has gone off sex, now she comes to bed fully cloth and I have to coax her to sexually touch me. I don't know what to do and please don't advise me to look some where else because I love her very much.

 

[girl]

Have you talked to her (outside the bedroom) about it?
It's important that you don't sound whiny or as if you're putting her down. There's tons of reasons why a woman might do this, from physical, to psychological, to esteem issues. Your best bet is probably just to be the concerned hubby and ask her.

Good luck,
girl

 

[SexyChele]

I find it very interesting that when you described yourself, you stated you were average with a nine incher. I don't know you, but perhaps your wife might be more open to various expressions of sex that involve other things besides your "nine incher"?

As I said....I don't know you, and you really haven't given a lot of detail with this. (besides, who are we?) It's just been my experience that when guys describe themselves first with the size of their dicks, that's all that sex entails for them.

If I've read this wrong, my apologies.

 

[Bindii]

Let me let you in on a secret - Foreplay starts out of the bedroom.
If your wife is showing signs that she is not as interested in sex as she once was then perhaps you could try and talk to her about her wants and needs. A lot of men fall into the trap of ignoring their wives throughout the day (taking them for granted) and then expecting them to be turn into sensual nypho's when bedtime comes. Have you told her lately that she is a sexy beautiful woman, without expecting sex in return? Have you hugged her, without expecting sex? Do you still hold her hand, and spend time necking on the couch, without expecting sex?
I am not privvy to your situation so am only making guesses here, but if you have been taking her for granted then take the time to make her feel like a woman, you never know she might start wanting sex more often.

 

[sport]

I say you need to talk things over with her now!!!!!!!! You are having problem you don't know about.

 

[Aaron26]

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