Sex With Friends?

ok not qualified to answer this one since i have only had sex with one man.. but he is my friend as well as my hubby so I guess it is sex with friends
 
Sex with freinds is never a good idea. Most often it leads to the distruction of the friendship. :(






P.S.
Ladies, never
deflower a male
virgin! Not
worth it. :(
 
CSBF- Casual Sex Between Freinds

Is rarely Casual
can be great Sex
often comes Between you
traditionaly ends Freindships

Only did it once and lost one of my best freinds in the world. A woman who I could share anything with now causes me to stare at my shoes when I meet her on the street.
 
Sex with friends

Been there, done that. And like Exp said. It ended the friendship and I can't look her into the eyes, even today.

Dont go there, unless both parties have stronger feelings than friendship towards one another.
 
I guess I must just have different friends....I have had friends I slept with and we're still friends. I even had sex with my best friend....and I love her more today then before.



Tiggs said:

P.S.
Ladies, never
deflower a male
virgin! Not
worth it. :(

and I have to disagree here. Like anything else, if you get a bad one first, it tends to discolor all the rest. I deflowered one virgin and it was a pleasantly memorable experience. Of course, that was 14 years ago and my standards were MUCH lower then :)
 
Expertise said:

Only did it once and lost one of my best freinds in the world. A woman who I could share anything with now causes me to stare at my shoes when I meet her on the street.
But why is that?
 
Countess DeWinter said:
...Of course, that was 14 years ago and my standards were MUCH lower then


Perhaps that's it? I've deflowered 4 males in the past. I didn't like any of those experiences. To this day, one of them still looks me up from time to time on here. He always asks things like "Why did we break up?", "Do you ever think about our relationship?" Arrrrrrrgh! lol It gets on my nerves fast!
 
Cheyenne said:
Expertise said:

Only did it once and lost one of my best freinds in the world. A woman who I could share anything with now causes me to stare at my shoes when I meet her on the street.
But why is that?

Because I fell hard. She didn't. I was young and stupid and decided that we couldn't "just be freinds" anymore. Said some hurtful things that I have regretted ever since.
 
Expertise said:
Said some hurtful things that I have regretted ever since.

It's never too late to set something right. next time you meet, maybe an apology could help fix things up. And even if she does not accept it, it couldn't hurt to try. A friendship renewed might be worth a little pain and embarrassment.
 
Tiggs

Why did we break up? Do you ever think about our relationship?
 
Ambro...

We broke up? According to your wife I am your girlfriend! :D Hee hee hee... Of course I think of our relationship a lot Sire! You are my Lord...my Master!
 
Unfortunately too much time had passed when I attempted that Skibum. That and the fact that she had decided that by my actions and words I had hurt her worse "than anyone else could have". And that "if I had ever truly been her freind..." I couldn't have acted the way I did.

I can still quote chapter and verse from the letter, and its been 14 years.
 
Countess DeWinter said:
I guess I must just have different friends....I have had friends I slept with and we're still friends. I even had sex with my best friend....and I love her more today then before.


I agree. I've had sex with friends and have remained friends. It all depends on how things are approached A.S. (after sex)

If you want something more from them then you have to admit it and things *could* get a little weird, but if you don't and feel that he/she doesn't.. what's the problem?

You have to talk about it and the weirdness goes away.
 
Sex with my best friend...

...led to chaos in my life, complete disruption in my routine, caused me to sell everything I owned, made me move to the opposite side of the world, provided the most exciting sex I've EVER had, led to marriage, and the greatest happiness I've ever known.
 
~With a little help from my friends~

What would you do if I sang out of tune?
Would you stand up and walk out on me?
Lend me your ears and I'll sing you a song
I will try not to sing out of key!
 
Expertise said:


I can still quote chapter and verse from the letter, and its been 14 years.


Because it has been that long my be why it would work. The next time you see her ask her if you can buy her a drink so y'all can talk.

Tell her what you said about falling hard and being young and stupid and you miss her friendship. The worse thing that could happen is the friendship is still over but you never know she may want to be friends again.
 
re:sex w/ friends

I've only crossed that line once and I have to admit that the results were incredible. We are still the best of friends and the sex is still good.

We ended up married w/ children and are still the best of friends.
 
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