Sex with an Enemy?

[SEVERUSMAX]

Could you have sexual relations with someone whom you despise, simply for the sake of your own pleasure? Or would you just not want to give them the 'satisfaction"? Weird Harold's remark in the "Average In Bed" thread kind of prompted this question in my head.

 

[Guest]

A lot of times, hate and attraction are both passionate. Sometimes the line betsween hate and attraction is close.

I had a girlfriend once who totally went off on me over the phone. She made me her enemy, I guess you could say. Days later she apologized and coaxed me back to her place. When it became apparent she wanted sex, she got it, and yes, it was rougher than we'd had as I channeled my anger towards her. We both agreed later, it was the best night we'd had together.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Hmmm...interesting feedback. As the old woman in the movie "Vikings" said to Tony Curtis's character, "Love and hate are horns on the same goat."

 

[BlackSnake]

Could you have sexual relations with someone whom you despise, simply for the sake of your own pleasure? Or would you just not want to give them the 'satisfaction"? Weird Harold's remark in the "Average In Bed" thread kind of prompted this question in my head.

More out of spite. I found out that someone was trying to do some under handed things that could have been very embarrassing to me. I did her well, then broke confronted about the issue in front of the people she was aligning herself with. I really like saying "...you still are a nice piece of ass." Never meet a girl that liked being called a piece of ass.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

More out of spite. I found out that someone was trying to do some under handed things that could have been very embarrassing to me. I did her well, then broke confronted about the issue in front of the people she was aligning herself with. I really like saying "...you still are a nice piece of ass." Never meet a girl that liked being called a piece of ass.

I would have LOVED to have seen the look on her face just then!

 

[BlackSnake]

I would have LOVED to have seen the look on her face just then!

LOL...especially with the freshly fucked look she had.

 

[Colleen Thomas]

If I don't like someone, the last thing I would want to do is have sex with them. I'll add the caveat that in bed, I'm all about my partners pleasure. I don't think I could divorce myself from not liking them enough to go all out to make them feel good.

 

[Rumple Foreskin]

Could you have sexual relations with someone whom you despise, simply for the sake of your own pleasure? Or would you just not want to give them the 'satisfaction"? Weird Harold's remark in the "Average In Bed" thread kind of prompted this question in my head.

That would depend on whether or not I was holding the pistol.

Rumple Foreskin

 

[Lucifer_Carroll]

If I don't like someone, the last thing I would want to do is have sex with them. I'll add the caveat that in bed, I'm all about my partners pleasure. I don't think I could divorce myself from not liking them enough to go all out to make them feel good.

Ditto. Plus, I just can't have sex for self-pleasure alone, it isn't pleasurable.

Watching an enemy getting exactly the kind of sex they give out, however...that could be a different story.

 

[TheEarl]

I could possibly do it, but not for my own pleasure. I don't do sex just for my own pleasure.

If it were to happen, it would have to be an animalistic thing where we both wanted each other as the thin borders between hatred and lust dissolved.

The Earl

 

[impressive]

Enemy, no. Adversary, yes.

 

[Guest]

Enemy, no. Adversary, yes.

Sing to the tune of "Won't you be my neighbor?"




"Won't you be my adversary?"

 

[Boxlicker101]

I could enjoy sex with somebody I disliked, and I have done it. Sex with somebody I love is much better, of course. On the other hand, if I truly despised her, that might be a different matter. I think it would depend on the degree. My feelings against her would have to be extremely strong before I would refuse.

That's how I would have felt about thirty years ago. Now, the answer would be a straightforward "No."

 

[Liar]

Maybe a good romp in the hay could make a friend out of an enemy? Worth a shot, I say.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Well, I've certainly gotten a reaction! I would have to vote "yes", but it would be raw sex and probably a bit rough. Not necessarily bad, but they shouldn't expect a phone call from me. I guess that it is a matter of distinguishing between kinds of sex and partners. I tend to compartmentalize things, leading to a certain flexibility on matters like sex. Love and lust are two separate emotions that I have only combined a few times in my life. I have once or twice mixed lust with hate, with interesting consequences (including a couple of stories). Is it as good as making love? Of course not! But that's because I am giving pleasure as well as taking it, so she enjoys it too, not to mention the emotional intimacy that doesn't automatically follow sex in my life. However, there is a certain visceral, animalistic pleasure in LITERALLY screwing someone you despise.

 

[Guest]

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