sex toy recommendations for couples

[liz3030]

I am sure this has been discussed previously but I am fairly new to this forum.

My husband and I have experimented a bit with sex toys. After almost 12 years of marriage (and 4 children) he was the first to introduce them to our sex life. I have to admit, at first I was very reluctant but have since really come to enjoy them.

He has purchased a few that I really like, the best thus far was a small finger vibe (fukuoko 9000 or something like that). I can always orgasm when he has that right on my clitoris, In fact I often request that he uses that on me when we start fooling around. Just thinking about that one actually starts the juices flowing!

He also went out and purchased a butterfly vibrator. That did not work well as I disliked the elastic cord around my thighs and waist, too distracting and the buzzing was a bit too intense.

He purchased something called a clit buster (or equally foolish name) where he wore a jelly ring around his penis that had a bullet inside. Outside were several jelly nubs that was supposed to send me into a frenzy. Instead, we tossed it out as neither of us enjoyed it.

Last week, he ordered up a Pearl Rabbit. I love the buz on my clitoris (feels just right) and he loves to watch the rotation inside (although, truth be told, that feature really doesn't do too much for me).

What other suggestions for our play. As you can deduce, I prefer direct clitoral stimulation as G-spot or vaginal stimulation does little for me.

As for my husband, he is driven crazy by just watching the process, (I think most men require more visual stimulation than females in general)
I have watched Sex in the City and Kim Catrall's character is a big fan of the massagers from Sharper image or Brookstone. Anyone try those.

I or rather WE appreciate your experience so we can further enhance ours.

 

[millieteases]

We too, have tried some of the toys you have. The one you two threw out is languishing at the bottom of our toy box - at least the ring bit is. The bullet part is nice because it does fit nicely between us, especially when I'm on top.

We want to try a Hitachi Magic Wand, which I have heard many recommendations for. We do have a smaller Sumbeam massager I originally bought to relieve an ache in my shoulder. As long as we don't turn the heat on it's pretty nice.

My spouse is also very anally erotic. We have an anal t and a g-spot massager that we use sometimes. It feels good to feel him vibrating from inside - although it is a very muted feeling. (I've also used a strap-on dildo with him. He loved it, it didn't do much for me orgasm wise, but it is fascinating to change roles a bit.)

I also like a nice, phallic-shaped but smallish vibrator inside me when he goes down on me. It gives me something to squeeze down on.

Good luck with your search.

 

[MR.GGG]

Hi. I'm just wondering if you have read the TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK thread? A lot of couple play around, find the GSpot but don't know how to stimulate it properly, give up on it and assume it "doesn't do much for me."

I've heard that line SOOOO many times from people Emailing me after I posted that thread. I think with all the hoopla about the Gspot MOST couples have found it (the GSpot, I mean) but as the experts aren't even sure it even exists, they have never done it right.

In my experience you do not need any toys if you can make the GSpot sing. Toys can be fun but mostly as variety. Sue and I were together for 21 years. We'd walk around this HUGE sex store in downtown Toronto sometimes and look at all the toys. Anytime I'd pick something up and wave it at her she'd just squeeze my THUMB, smile and say, "...waste of money..."

Sure save a ton of $$$'s too. No batteries required!