Sex Tips!

[Geranium63]

Hello,
I need to get as many sex tips as I can. I have been searching everywhere for some good ones but somehow I come up with the same old boring crap all the time. I am trying to find some of the best ways to please my fiance. Any good ideas? Thank you!

 

[Samuari]

Geranium, hon, focus on him! All the weird and wonderful methods in the world don't do anything if you and he are not focused on each other. Loving each other has to be not only the most important thing that you are doing; it needs to be the only thing that you are doing. See Michael Valentine Smith in "Stranger in a Strange Land" by Robert H. Heinland.

 

[Gingersnap]

You would have to give a bit more information. I think letting your inhibitions go is the sexiest most pleasing thing you could do for him. THe thing is everyone has different moods when they are aroused. One time you might like oral sex or slow lazy love and another time you want to rip off your clothes and his and get right to it. Hope that helps a little.

 

[Gingersnap]

I just thought of another suggestion. You could go to the role playing section and explore your inclinations. A lot of guys have the two woman and themselves fantasy. I still think the role playing section is your best bet.

 

[Geranium63]

Well I guess that for me it's like buying a book on new positions to try, I just like to hear new ideas that could help me surprise him. Well, we are both into bondage and he especially likes it when I am on top. It's just that he has to masturbate after we have sex because he is afraid of getting me pregnant. That's another story though. I am just hoping I could find something to get him to cum without masturbating. I'm not good with hand jobs, so I could use a little advice on that. We are both open to new ideas too. Any suggestions?

 

[Bare]

Do you have anything against blow jobs? My husband claims one of the best orgasms he had involved a peach and me.

For a hand job you could try this...have your fiance lay down on a towel on the edge of the bed. Position yourself on the floor (on your knees) near his groin. Make yourself comfortable because this is going to take more than five minutes. Take some baby oil and warm it up in your hands. Now stroke his cock in a continuous hand over hand milking motion, gently and slowly. Work your way down to his balls, rolling them in your hands against each. Then take your finger and rub up and down his perineum, applying just a little bit of pressure. Start back at his cock and repeat. If you feel your hands drying up add more baby oil. The key to this massage is that it be done slowly, don't rush. Also vary the amount of pressure and time you spend on each part. The build up is slower this way, which makes for a more intense orgasm.

The above was taught to me by a masseuse and is more of a "Honey I've had a hard day stress reliever" but you can use it anyway you like.

 

[Geranium63]

Oh no, I have nothing against blow jobs. In fact that's probably the only thing I can really brag about. Thank you for the tip, I will certainly try that out with him. Would you mind me asking what you guys did with the peach? You don't have to tell me, it just caught my interest. I'm going to do a couple of things I read in the bondage stories. Thanks again!

 

[Skibum]

Geranium, here is a link to a site that might have what you are looking for.

http://very-koi.net/projects.htm

It is a sex-tutorial site with specific instructions on a lot of different topics. Good luck!

 

[Skitten]

Everyone here gave you some wonderful advice already. But the most important thing is be open to new things don't be scared to show him that you are with him on his fantasies and he is with you on yours.

Try being immaginative do some new tricks while giving him a blow job and relax and don't worry so much. You will do fine it takes some time to totally be in sync with each other.

Love him and please him as you would want he is your guy and you always want him to have as much pleasure as you can give.