Sex therapist suggests cuckolding/open marriage

[somewhatvanilla]

Hello All!

I'm looking for some advice and or tips/possible plot points I could add to the story I'm working on, any feedback at all is appreciated.

I'm writing a story about a couple that visits a sex therapist, after the wife in the relationship finds that her husband is having trouble getting an erection. The wife is loving and isn't looking to rub her husband's nose in it, and neither is the husband a pushover - hence this isn't your run-of-the-mill cuckold/wittol/humiliation story.

The story develops and at a believable point in their session (I'm working on developing it up well so it doesn't look forced or silly) the therapist brings up the idea of an open relationship, and the idea of 'hot-wifing' to keep the wife satisfied.

The story's developing decently well and I'm not looking to include much sex in the first chapter, besides the couple watching an adult video in the therapist's office (the therapist is a woman, by the way.)

Do you guys have any interesting ideas to add some flavour to the story? The dialogue between the therapist and the wife is what's meant to get the excitement going here - her description of the possibilities of an open marriage, and the benefits it will have on their stagnant relationship.

I'm more than open to any of your suggestions, although I'm not looking to include any bi-male and/or cross-dressing themes in the development of this piece.

 

[mathuranjali1983]

Sounds really interesting! Perhaps the therapist suggests ways to bring some excitement into their sex life one of which is the wife going out alone dancing, maybe with some single girlfriends. The wife only does it to keep up her end of the therapy but ends up having a great time. The husband even manages an erecting after hearing of her being hit on. So the therapist suggests they build on that but the wife gets increasingly excited playing a single girl!

 

[thesexyoverlord]

maybe you can have another couple with similar conditions and have a swingers orgy as per therapists orders

 

[sirhugs]

which gender is the therapist? Because he/she needs some action too

 

[somewhatvanilla]

which gender is the therapist? Because he/she needs some action too

(the therapist is a woman, by the way.)

Think you missed this bit of the earlier post!

 

[hpycpl]

What a fresh approach! I see it start out as the therapist orders all kinds of tests for the husband to rule out any physical problems. then she (the therapist) can have them watch all types of porno to see if there is anything special that would excite the husband. They seem to have a little success with the hotwife or wife sharing videos so the therapist starts out with role play and then some mild exhibitionism and slowly progress to more and more daring activities each one pushing the envelope a little more!

I think this has many many possibilities!!!

 

[somewhatvanilla]

Some interesting ideas here, but I'm looking for ideas pertaining mainly to the first part of the story, to get it up and running! Anyone else that'd like to share?

 

[blin18]

Not sure what you're after. Background?

She's thirty, he's approaching forty. They tried for four years to have a baby until the act of sex between them became not one if love and excitement, but one of mechanics followed by disappointment of not being pregnant.

They put off medical intervention, but it turned out he is infertile and now they are reconciled to the fact they will not become patents, but cannot recapture the spark, and his 40yo libido isn't helping.

The therapist tells them they have denied their inner cave-man. Men's evolution drives them the spread their seed, and women are drawn to virile, fertile men. So the current monigomous arrangement is poisoning both of them. FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR MARRIAGE, GO FORTH AND FUCK OTHER PEOPLE!

If she gets a bit on the side, she will satisfy her cavewoman Ned for a virile man. If he gets a bit, his wife will look less vanilla and become exotic again

 

[Sammael Bard]

Almost a similar story has been written, but it's in the Inter-Racial Category. Goes under the name "A Swinging Odyssey". Same concept of bringing vigour to the marriage, but they decide and discuss it amongst themselves instead paying a visit to a sex-therapist.

Also, there wan't any added plot of wife-not-having-a-baby.

 

[HeyAll]

I've always been a big fan of these therapist type stories. I've written one before, and others where a woman guides another woman to do sexual things.

But I'm not sure what else needs to be said here. The set-up speaks for itself. But if you're looking for some extra suggestions, here are a few quick thoughts:

- the therapist schedules a meeting with a wife, alone.
- the therapist explains the whole situation, including facts and research which supports her suggestions
- the wife, of course, is shocked, but she's interested because the therapist is highly regarded
- the next week, the therapists sits down with the husband and wife and explains how everything would work- all of the ground rules and everything
- after the couple agrees, the therapists give them a phone number of someone to call

hope that helps at all

 

[somewhatvanilla]

Thanks for all the ideas guys. I scrapped the original story and re-wrote it with some of your ideas in mine. It's still a work in progress but it's coming along nicely. I'll post a link here when it's up.

 

[ender27]

Perhaps the therapist doesn't suggest an open marriage. Perhaps the problem is that they take each other for granted and don't get turned on like they used to when they were dating. So... the therapist suggests they "date" again just like they did when they met.

They both take off their wedding rings and get ready for a night out with the guys and the girls... ideally getting ready at two different locations. Then they are to go out to the local bars where they originally found each other... and find each other again.

So... out they go, to the area of the city with a bunch of bars they used to like. They each go bar to bar looking for each other with the intention of pretending they are just meeting for the first time and flirting.

But, while looking for her husband to flirt with, other guys hit on her and her friends and buy them drinks and dance with them. By the time the husband and his friends find the right bar, she's spent half the night being hit on... and has liked the attention... it makes her feel attractive. The husband arrives while a guy is chatting her up and then dancing with her.

He's impressed with how hot she looks. He watches them dance (and is surprised how hard he gets). He has to woo her away from this other guy who doesn't give up without a fight since he was really attracted.

They get home and sex is much better. The therapist thinks things are going great and instructs them to do more of the same.

So, back to the bars. After a week or two while there's a set of 3-4 other guys who she keeps seeing there and who keep hitting on her.

The therapist points out that it's exciting because, just like when they were originally dating, he was trying to win her away from other suitors... and the outcome was uncertain. She encourages them to role play that more.

But, before long, it's not entirely role playing. These other guys courting her really want to date this hot single woman. She doesn't simply let her husband swoop in and take her away at the bar if she's busy with one of the other men.

Their "dating" at the bars gets more real. She's really attracted to them. Her husband really is going to have to win her over again.

Of course, the story could be chapter by chapter beginning and/or ending with a therapist session where she approves of how it's working and encourages them to keep going... and it slowly gets out of hand until she's really dating 1 or more of the other men.

They begin texting her during the day wanting more. They start asking her to dinner and movies.

The husband is working hard to win her over, only this time, in each therapy session, he hears about the dates she's having with other men, which are progressing quickly.

 

[mathuranjali1983]

@ender27 excellent idea! Would love to read something like this scenario.

 

[Hypoxia]

I am unfamiliar with current ethics rules so I must ask: Would a legitimate, licensed sex therapist actually suggest open relationships, cheating, cuckolding (real or simulated), and other breakup-inducing scenarios? Do the ethics rules vary between countries? Might a Danish therapist suggest something a Texan would not?

 

[somewhatvanilla]

I am unfamiliar with current ethics rules so I must ask: Would a legitimate, licensed sex therapist actually suggest open relationships, cheating, cuckolding (real or simulated), and other breakup-inducing scenarios? Do the ethics rules vary between countries? Might a Danish therapist suggest something a Texan would not?

I did some reading up, it seems that some couple therapists are open to the idea of swinging which surprised me as well. Country-wise I couldn't find anything. To be completely honest I'm appalled. It's kinky to write about and all, but I didn't think a therapist would offer such horrible advice haha.

 

[Hypoxia]

To be completely honest I'm appalled. It's kinky to write about and all, but I didn't think a therapist would offer such horrible advice haha.

I forgot to mention that in a LIT universe, anything goes (within certain limits) so bad therapeutic advice is not a story-breaker. The therapist may be sincere and/or incompetent and/or nutz and/or inhabit a parallel world so common on LIT, a world with vastly different consequences than the paltry reality we sex machines inhabit.

 

[onastar20]

I really like the initial idea. The surreal element of a chat between the therapist and the couple about the pros of swinging or cuckolding...even passing on leaflets, normalising the process. The wife and husband sitting there, almost like they're being sold a holiday! X

 

[jazm49]

Some thoughts

I was a swinger for a number of years. Even went to a couple of therapists about it during my first (and only) marriage. The first therapist (a guy) suggested we go to a nudist camp. The second (yup, a woman) wasn't quite sure what to think about it, but wasn't negative. Had us go to a SAR (Sexual Attitude Reassessment) workshop. Didn't help, but was worth doing.

The thing about swinging is that you do it as a couple. It's an experience you share. But it does take an adjustment in the way a couple looks at their marriage. Jealousy will happen. But if both partners are motivated it can be dealt with. Takes being up front and honest about what you want and what your boundaries are.

One of the most fun things about doing group sex together is talking about it afterwards. He might say, "Man, I loved watching his cock going in and out of your pussy," and she's going, "let me tell you it felt wonderful too." He gets hard remembering and she gets wet from the memories and before you know it they're recreating the scene.

Hope this helps. Drop me a line if you want more insight

 

[kinkminded]

I like this idea. Hot that the therapist, another woman would know he is being cuckolded. She could ask him question about how it felt afterward.

 

[mathuranjali1983]

Anyone writing this?

 

[EquinoxRising]

Anyone writing this?

Are you?

 

[Hypoxia]

I like this idea. Hot that the therapist, another woman would know he is being cuckolded. She could ask him question about how it felt afterward.

Just to be pedantic: IF he knows and approves of his wife screwing around, he's a wittol, not a cuckold. The cuckold does not know of his mate's cheating and is an object of scorn by those who do. The OP explicitly said that cuckolding / humiliation are not in the scenario.

Following ender's idea, both wife and hubby are 'dating'. Do they really try to win each other back? Is either excited by the prospect of their mate screwing another? That would certainly be worth discussing with the therapist. If both are not excited, the marriage may be doomed. If both ARE excited, they could proceed to double-dates and foursomes. Hey, invite the therapist and their friend(s) too!