I wonder how many men would really be happy with a sex slave partner? Would you want a partner who when you show them your cock and say “Suck it”, they immediately suck you off swallowing every drop? Or if you are in the mood to fuck, they never say no and always allow you to fuck them bareback? Would such a partner really make you happy or not? Just wondering.
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Buttboy7869
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As a life partner no, probably not. Marriage is about much more than sex. Most sexual relationships I’ve had are more in line with your description. They pull their cock out, I suck. They want to fuck bareback? I’m on my knees. But when married it was about the emotion involved. Compromise was more the order of the day. My wife’s desires were just as important as mine.
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I get this... But then again, one partner's desires could be to be kept as a slave. And if partnered with a master, there may be true love. My understanding in many of these relationships, is emotion is very much driving the dynamic. Nonetheless... You are right. Compromise is always part of the package.
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I am a horny prick, and I’m also submissive. My wife and I have found out that being a full-time submissive for me business sexy and as gratifying as it sounds.
And if the roles were reversed, I don’t think I would love it full-time either. As @Buttboy7869 stated above, the key is open and honest communication.
Both are good to fantasize about and to you think about, but in real life it wouldn’t work for me.
And if the roles were reversed, I don’t think I would love it full-time either. As @Buttboy7869 stated above, the key is open and honest communication.
Both are good to fantasize about and to you think about, but in real life it wouldn’t work for me.
I have been wondering about this because I am completely sexually submissive to my girlfriend. I do suck her and let her fuck me whenever she wants. Yet there is a lot more to the relationship out of bed. The strange thing is I crave sex more than her even though she is the one who cums lol. Maybe as she approaches her forties (she is 36) sex is not as important as it used to be.
I was like this with my wife. I was sexually submissive with her. I told her I was hers and she could do anything she wanted with me or to me, any time, anywhere. I also told her I would do anything she wanted, when and where she wanted. We had some amazing experiences.
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My ex was a total sub and sex addict when we first married. She was 18, I was 27 and she was always willing to to ANYTHING I asked, bj's on demand, getting naked in the car or in an alley to have sex. It was great. But after a year of marriage I started to share her and as she became a sex slave for other men our dynamic swapped and I soon became the sub or cuckold as we came to know it. I spent the next 18 years of our 20 year marriage as the sexual sub doing almost anything she or her lovers wanted (which was mostly always what I wanted too)
Buttboy7869
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If you were doing what you wanted nobody looses, right.
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I wouldn't want a "slave". I wanted someone with the same sex drive that I had. Before she became pregnant, I thought I had that. Before going overseas, she and I fucked 4 times a day for 10 straight days. 13-months later, when I returned - she was a once or twice a week woman.
My Ex was a true submissive. I mean full service submissive in and out of the bedroom. She was not much in the romance department. She never got naked or had sex in the daytime or with the lights on before meeting me. I made her become an exhibitionist as well as a cock hungry slave. It was a great match-up. When I wanted sex, I got what I wanted. if she wasn't in the mood, she would still serve me because once she got into the headspace, she could really fuck or suck.
Did you like it? Do you miss it? Did she do EVERYTHING you wanted?
KatieDoes
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She’d just had a baby, then?
ParkerSteve66
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No, the fuckfest before going overseas occurred while she was 3-months pregnant and not showing at all. When I returned, our child was 8-months old.
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8 month old babies require a lot of a mother’s attention and energy.
super sorry about your neglected dick, though.
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shiiiiiiiiiiit, you had it easy... my wife and I were having sex everyday several times a day right until the last four weeks before my daughters birth. Then it was the weekend after my daughters 2nd birthday, my wife finally gave sex. That was it for the next 6 months.
And please don't no one [Katie] tell me how much care a baby needs--, I helped care for and raise two of my younger brothers and four of my sisters. All my wife had to do after my baby was born was breastfeed that baby and sleep. I was the one caring for that colic infested child. Walking the floor with my baby all hours of the night after getting home from hustling the pool tables and getting my homework for college done and working a part time job. It was during this time period I learned the HARD WAY what the hell
Post Partuum Depression was ALL about.
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KatieDoes
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I’m sorry that Post Partum Depression was so difficult. For you.
First of all, she was always nude in the house. That was my main rule so that all three holes were there for me to use. What I miss is her obedience. I have ADHD, so fucking her was when I wanted, Even if watching TV. Once I came, I was done. No after sex cuddling if I didn't want it. She would clean up and get me a drink. I miss THAT!
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Now that is the kind of female companion I want. Always nude in the house with a lubricated butt plug in her ass - unless my dick was in it. Keep that asshole lubricated at all times. All holes always available. In addition, she would be required to answer the door fully nude - FedEx, UPS, USPS, Amazon drivers would see her hairy bush. I would walk up behind her and say: "Hey, she gives blow jobs as a tip - if you're interested."
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Would love to use you and abuse you !
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In my experience, this is what men say that they want, but then once you're swallowing every drop, they're over it. A lot of them won't even let you get that far! It seems like they enjoy the idea or concept of it more than the reality. A perfect example of "Its the thought that counts"
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What you're describing is a woman who is drugged 24/7. Sexy.
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Wife and I have played this before - pretending to be sex slaves to each other, but actually having it be the daily reality? No.
Marriage/long-term relationships are about meaningful partnerships, fun, and connection. I would want her to say no if she's tired so I can rub her feet or back instead of getting my rocks off. Being there for her in this way gives me pleasure and makes me life so much more meaningful.
Marriage/long-term relationships are about meaningful partnerships, fun, and connection. I would want her to say no if she's tired so I can rub her feet or back instead of getting my rocks off. Being there for her in this way gives me pleasure and makes me life so much more meaningful.
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Consent issues aside - which, you know, basically means it can never happen - then sure. Why not?
You didn't really bound your hypothetical. There is no downside. The only reason to reject the arrangement is if the arrangement itself elicits a negative emotional reaction that outweighs the benefits.
There's no rule saying a sex slave can't be smart, funny, loving, well-educated, and/or emotionally engaged. There's no rule saying they can't top you, or pretend to be dominant.
You're asking people if they'd like free money, and they're freaking out and making assumptions about all the strings that must be attached, then rejecting your offer based on their own paranoia.
You didn't really bound your hypothetical. There is no downside. The only reason to reject the arrangement is if the arrangement itself elicits a negative emotional reaction that outweighs the benefits.
There's no rule saying a sex slave can't be smart, funny, loving, well-educated, and/or emotionally engaged. There's no rule saying they can't top you, or pretend to be dominant.
You're asking people if they'd like free money, and they're freaking out and making assumptions about all the strings that must be attached, then rejecting your offer based on their own paranoia.
