Mrswargamer9dash1
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For 50 years, I simply wasn't aware. No idea what transgender was.
During that part of my life to say I had an active sex life is a massive understatement.
I was married at 25 and was a virgin on my wedding night.
In 27 years of marriage, I likely had the same amount of ordinary hetero sex as a dozen humans.
Poof, separated in 2014, full stop. In about 4 months hormones turned 'it' off and I wasn't even touching it myself
I have had sort of sex during my marriage of the last 7 years. But, I have not orgasmed in any fashion since 2014.
I smile I laugh I have 'fun'. But my wife is the only one cumming.
I am not sure there is even a need for a term to describe my sexual preference. Without my wife, I would probably be totally inactive in any manner. Otherwise, I think the word is demisexual. But without her, I'd likely be assexual. Probably because at 63 I've seen enough, had enough and just don't need it much.
I'm just as likely to say "that man looks hot, or that woman looks hot" but in the end, not really care either way.
Anyone living a life like mine?
If I had a choice of an evening of incredible sex, or you buying me a good book, I want the book.
During that part of my life to say I had an active sex life is a massive understatement.
I was married at 25 and was a virgin on my wedding night.
In 27 years of marriage, I likely had the same amount of ordinary hetero sex as a dozen humans.
Poof, separated in 2014, full stop. In about 4 months hormones turned 'it' off and I wasn't even touching it myself
I have had sort of sex during my marriage of the last 7 years. But, I have not orgasmed in any fashion since 2014.
I smile I laugh I have 'fun'. But my wife is the only one cumming.
I am not sure there is even a need for a term to describe my sexual preference. Without my wife, I would probably be totally inactive in any manner. Otherwise, I think the word is demisexual. But without her, I'd likely be assexual. Probably because at 63 I've seen enough, had enough and just don't need it much.
I'm just as likely to say "that man looks hot, or that woman looks hot" but in the end, not really care either way.
Anyone living a life like mine?
If I had a choice of an evening of incredible sex, or you buying me a good book, I want the book.