Sex on Vacation?

[fallenangel8356]

I'm going to Orlando soon for 2 days with my boyfriend and a few other friends. I've been dating my guy for about 2 weeks and I think I'm ready to have sex with him, but I would like to know some seduction ideas. I am still a virgin, and do not know much about sex. Can anyone help me out? What would turn him on? I know he probably wouldn't like anything too obvious, or smutty but I think he may have a bit of a kinky side to him. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

 

[SnowMedic]

Take things slow....

FallenAngel...
My suggestion is to take things slow with him...being your still inexperienced, its tought to just jump right in and "do it." Not that you will do that, but sometimes it's just good to go slow and do what feels good and what he responds to. Make sure you stay true to yourself and only do as much as YOU want to do. Some good ways that i've been approached is to some night, when it quiets down, to snuggle up and just let your hands explore and i'm sure he will reciprocate. Guys have a tendency to do that when provoked.
Above all else make sure you have fun and do what feels right. That's just my 2 cents worth. Take it for what its worth...Good Luck and Have fun!

-SnowMedic

 

[MidnightsANGEL]

My advice? Ask him...and tell him what feels good to you...communicating well helps not only in the real world but behind closed bedroom doors...

Hope this Helps and good luck!

 

[Weird Harold]

What would turn him on? I know he probably wouldn't like anything too obvious, or smutty but I think he may have a bit of a kinky side to him. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

There is a certain amount of truth to the old joke about, "show up naked with a six-pack of beer." That's probably a bit more blatant than you want if you take it literally.

You havn't said what the sleping arrangements are going to be -- will you be sharing a room with him or will he have a roommate?

If you're sharing a room, a sexxxy kiss at bedtime is all it's going to take.

If he's in a separate room with a roommate, it's going to be a bit more complicated. Still, if you show up at his door in a bikini and a kiss, if he's alone, things will progress from there without any real planning neded. If he does have a kinky streak, it may not matter if he's alone.

Being a grandfather, it does bother me that you're planning on giving up your virgintiy to a guy you've only dated two weeks. Make SURE that you want to give up your virginity -- it's not like you'll be able to take it back if you decide wrong.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Re: Re: Sex on Vacation?

Being a grandfather, it does bother me that you're planning on giving up your virgintiy to a guy you've only dated two weeks. Make SURE that you want to give up your virginity -- it's not like you'll be able to take it back if you decide wrong.

I'm not A GRANDPARENT...YET but I agree with what Harold is saying. First of all, you've only been going out with this guy for a couple of weeks and want to give a very precious part of yourself to this guy?? Will he appreciate it, hold it sacred?? Doubtful Fallenangel. Think very hard before commiting yourself to this idea. If you do decide to go for it, PLEASE use a condom! At least protect yourself from a variety of things, Motherhood for example!
Best wishes to you Fallenangel.

 

[millieteases]

Your first time should be special. Make sure you listen to these people who are telling you to think about this - a lot!

If you do decide to share yourself with this man, then remember this:

Birth Control, Birth Control, Birth Control

If you haven't thought about birth control yet you are not ready to share yourself with this man. A condom is a start, but don't rely on him to have one - especially in this situation. You have a responsibility too. Foam, a diaphragm, the pill, something! You don't want to be a mother before you're ready to raise a child - and the teenager the child will become.

Also be ready for him to turn you down. He may not be ready. The stereotype is most teenage males - most males for that part - will be ready to jump you at the least hint. He may not be. This might be disappointing, but it won't be a disaster.

With all this said and done, if you are ready, and he is the one, just find a nice, safe, private place and be a little aggressive. Rub his back, kiss him, touch him in all those interesting places. Then relax and enjoy the experience.

PS - If it's your first time a little lube may help - your body may not be ready to produce all the lubrication that you need to make things fun.

 

[Keyser711]

Hate to sound like a broken record but, you've been dating him for TWO WEEKS? and you "think" you're ready to have sex for the first time? As a guy myself, i can guarantee you that 99% of guys are truly only out for one thing and don't have much in the way of feelings. That may be the harsh truth, but i'd at least make this guy wait another few months MINIMUM, before you do something you're going to potentially regret.

 

[LadyOfTheMist]

Hmmmmmmmm..........

Fallen, you two haven't talked about this at all??? Talking should be the very first thing that you do. The surprise is nice and all but there are just some surprises later down the line that you won't want. Birth control AND condoms should be a must, even if you are both virgins. There are some STD's that can be passed orally and that there is no cure for. Unfortunately, in this day and age to protect yourself and the people that you love there is some prep work involved in having safe sex. That doesn't have to interfer with spontaneity or your enjoyment of each other. On the contrary, with a loving and responsible partner it will heighten the bond between you. Take your time, explore each other, be open about what you like and don't and things will naturally progress. I agree with the lube comments, that might be a must for you.

Best of luck to you!

Lady