Sex & Marriage

[sarongpartygal]

xxx

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[BabblingBrooke]

This forum is not what one would call non-judgemfntal. You may or may not get flaming posts here along with a few supportive ones. You might want to try this again, but scroll up to the How To forum.

 

[sarongpartygal]

Thank you. I've just posted and realised I can't delete this one!

 

[BabblingBrooke]

Thank you. I've just posted and realised I can't delete this one!

You can edit your post and just leave behind five characters, even ".....".

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

So here I am, in my 40's, female, married (happily), not your typical beauty but with sufficient makeup and grooming - pretty. Busty - range between 42DD and 40E but they now hang a little lower than they ought to mainly due to gravity and stretch marks which doesn't bother me until I wear something low cut. Women still compliment me on my bosom and babies fall asleep on them when I hold them. I have never worn a bikini and I have always been reluctant to wear short or sleeveless tops due to flabby arms. I am a big girl but very curvy and have a very filled out hour glass figure from certain angles. I think my bum is too chunky but its supposedly the rage at the moment however I am at a disadvantage as I can't twerk.

Despite being a big girl for most of my life, I've probably had the best sex life out of all my friends with more dates you can imagine. I always thought being voluptuous in a world where we are overwhelmed with skinny models and celebs, would mean girls like me would be unpopular. I guess I can hold a conversation and fun to be with as well as being attractive.

I was a wild cat. I truly love(d) sex and the encounters. I wanted to be desired and loved being chased. I have some pleasant memories including a guy I used to see whenever he flew in from the states. We'd go to a nice restaurant for dinner and then for drinks at a bar for a nightcap. I remember once how I was standing at the big window with a view of the city spread out in front of me, little lights twinkling away in the darkness, when he returned with our drinks. He had put the drinks on the table and stood very close behind me. Just enough for me to feel his hardon. Desire shot through me and I remember getting wet straight away. The rest as you can imagine it was hot and dirty. He always wanted me to stay the night so that he could wake me up with his cock in my pussy. I barely remember his name but boy do I remember the sex.

Then there is the private school principal who wanted met to fuck him with a bottle of Dom Perignon. I finished off a bottle before I gathered up the courage to do it but I did and even punished him by making him crawl around for a bit. He had a pretty big cock and, a raging hard on and really knew how to fuck hard.

Attended one orgy but didn't want to be penetrated. Had a crazy woman suck on my tits and everyone wanted to lick me but I wasn't that keen. The thought of the police raiding the hotel was too scary! I liked threesomes but wasn't so sure of MMF ones as they tended to verge on porn style sex which meant they wanted me on my knees for most of it. I prefer the Mills & Boons version of porn where they pamper and adore the lady before giving it to her.

Then I met my husband. A wonderful loving man but we have vanilla sex. He can count how many women he has had sex with, two of whom he had long term relationships with. I guess he really liked my fiery personality and life experience/travel but he doesn't know half of what I have got into. I have tried telling him some and he cringes and says he is not interested.

My early menopause kicked in and I lost interest in sex. The girl who masturbated everyday, sometimes twice and loved sex at least three times a go, forgot about sex. Can you believe that?
I lost my desire, we got too comfortable with each other and maybe lazy. I also hated my breasts being touched and although I love my husband, I don't really desire him that way.

I recently started hormone therapy and OMG. Its like someone pushed the ON button again! I am so horny, can't stop thinking of sex, day dreaming of sexual encounters, masturbating and have written some stuff about it. I nearly came on the table a few days ago when I went to have an vaginal scan with a probe. I could just feel my pussy throbbing away as the lady moved the penis like probe, lubricated and sleek all around my pussy.

I've been a Literotica reader for years but this is the first time I started an account and sharing my story. Don't ask me why and please be kind but I need to release my thoughts in what I hope, is an non judgemental and like-minded place.

Too late.

I decided that it might be fun to feed the troll brigade...

 

[Debbie]

Too late.

I decided that it might be fun to feed the troll brigade...

You could choose to edit out what you've quoted that she posted.


Welcome, sarongpartygal.

This place is nuɔʞinǫ ʇuƚƨ but we do have some interesting conversations. Hope to hear more fom you.

 

[sarongpartygal]

Thank you Debbie x

 

[BabblingBrooke]

Too late.

I decided that it might be fun to feed the troll brigade...

4est!

I was hoping she was going to be able to skate out of here before anybody quoted her! Come on…

There are nice people here, sarongpartygal; there really are. There are just some vicious folks, as well. If you have a thick skin, you may just love this forum.

 

[sarongpartygal]

You proved to be one of them Babbling, thank you! Doesn't matter and if it makes him happy so be it

 

[Disgustipated]

4est!

I was hoping she was going to be able to skate out of here before anybody quoted her! Come on…

There are nice people here, sarongpartygal; there really are. There are just some vicious folks, as well. If you have a thick skin, you may just love this forum.

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

HA!

 

[yossi]

Have things changed sexually with your husband since you started the hormone therapy?

I notice you said that you don't, "desire him that way," but his sexual appetites and desires can have changed after years of marriage too. Just opening up a line of communication could be good for both of you. Maybe he's hiding desires/wants/needs as well.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[BabblingBrooke]

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

HA!

Whatever.

 

[Greypowerful]

You proved to be one of them Babbling, thank you! Doesn't matter and if it makes him happy so be it

That's a wise & healthy attitude hereabouts, SPG.

Welcome.

 

[KingOrfeo]

Sex and marriage
Sex and marriage
Go together
Like a fish and bicycle . . .

 

[ronmcc2448]

Welcome Sarongpartygal. I know the feeling from the male perspective.

 

[rocket_surgery]

People have sex when they're married?

I need to have a talk with the wife.

 

[sarongpartygal]

Sex and marriage
Sex and marriage
Go together
Like a fish and bicycle . . .

Actually love the song!

 

[sarongpartygal]

Welcome Sarongpartygal. I know the feeling from the male perspective.

*high five*

 

[zukethecuke]

People have sex when they're married?

I need to have a talk with the wife.

Not with your wife, silly!

 

[DragonflySong]

Personally, I think there's something about being in your 40's...most of my 40-something girl friends (I usually call them "Mommy friends" since we're all moms) are crazy horny. Even without additional hormones, it's like some switch gets turned on.

Just saying - I can relate!

 

[Debbie]

Thank you Debbie x

You're very welcome. Sometimes this place can be a tough crowd but we do have some lovely, very interesting people too