HARDKOREBJ
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women want love and men want sex all the time.most of them do.i though i wanted sex.but finding love is more important.
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<Jumping OUT of HK's generalization.>
I am a woman. Yes, I want love. (Yes, I currently have it at this time in my life.
) BUT, I also want sex. I need sex. I crave sex. Hell, I've been told that I have a higher sex drive than many men.
I am a woman. Yes, I want love. (Yes, I currently have it at this time in my life.
) BUT, I also want sex. I need sex. I crave sex. Hell, I've been told that I have a higher sex drive than many men.
unusuallyconfused
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Most times I think people have sex way too soon, myself included and never gave the relationship a chance to build before adding sex. I think that given time, holding some control of your passions, that if you really care about someone and feel that you love them, then you wouldn't mistake it for lust if you haven't had them in bed.
Hinesight is always 20/20. I don't know if I would of listened to my own advice back then, but I believe it is the best way for determination.
Hinesight is always 20/20. I don't know if I would of listened to my own advice back then, but I believe it is the best way for determination.
Morden, you're so very right in what you wrote about love and lust. Sometimes it's very hard to differentiate between the two. Yes, you can be in love and lust for that person, but you can lust for a person and not love them. That's just about having sex rather than making love.
Unusuallyconfused, I also agree with what you have to say. Sometimes we give ourselves much too freely before we have a chance to get to know another person. I guess when you do that it's only about having sex rather than making love.
We all learn what is important to us after we have lived for a bit. After years of trying to figure ourselves out, it's easy to admit that we would like to feel fulfilled in other ways such as getting to know someone before we take that final plunge (no pun intended). That's the beauty of growing up.
What it all boils down to is the individual and what they choose to do. That's why there are different flavors of ice cream. But, that was another thread. Sorry.
Have a great day, all.
WildHoney
Unusuallyconfused, I also agree with what you have to say. Sometimes we give ourselves much too freely before we have a chance to get to know another person. I guess when you do that it's only about having sex rather than making love.
We all learn what is important to us after we have lived for a bit. After years of trying to figure ourselves out, it's easy to admit that we would like to feel fulfilled in other ways such as getting to know someone before we take that final plunge (no pun intended). That's the beauty of growing up.
What it all boils down to is the individual and what they choose to do. That's why there are different flavors of ice cream. But, that was another thread. Sorry.
Have a great day, all.
WildHoney
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Morden said:
Especially for some people, women in particular, who equate love with sex. I've been there and have seen many friends go there too...thinking that by having sex with the object of their affection, they will also be granted his heart.
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