Sex Dealbreakers

[naughtycakes]

So last night I went out and met this guy. He was attractive, a good conversationalist and a little brash (which I like). We talked for a couple of hours and I was actually considering hooking up with him. Then some song came on he didn't like and he started bitching about the music.

So I asked him what kind of music he liked, and he brought up a bunch of shit I didn't care for. Then he said The Beatles. Okay... some common ground. So I asked him for his favorite Beatles song. "Let it Be," eh... but, okay. So I brought up Abbey Road, and the fucker started singing Octopuss' Garden!!!!.

We were done. Octopuss' Garden for Christ Sake - the worst Beatles song of all time! The pimple on the the otherwise brilliant body of music that is Abbey Road. I had to walk away. Immediately. Any similar experiences? I'm curious. Do tell....

 

[OscarTheGrouch]

I cannot think of anything specific, however i would rather have sex with an overweight person that made me laugh and had a good attitude than a supermodel that was a completely boring self centered bitch.

 

[Darktan]

I never would have gotten myself into that situation. I'm glad I have a dislike for music and I'm good at changing topics.

I haven't really had any similar experiences.

 

[Guest]

i chatted with this guy online and when we were talking about movies, i told him how much i LOVED horror movies....he said he hated them. never talked to him again

 

[rimmy]

Los Fabulosos Cadillacs.

 

[Mr. Show]

I was clerking a video store while in college and this couple came in - clearly a second or third date kind of scenario. He was all N'Sync handsome as was the style then and she was very beautiful. They browsed the aisles for a long time, eventually picking out something along the lines of whatever the most recent 'Best Picture' winner was - safe and non-controversial.

They come up to the counter and I'm ringing his account through and he sees a used video for sale on the counter and picks it up. He grins and asks her if she's seen it - she says that she hasn't - and then he says, "I swear, this is like my favorite movie ever. Totally the best."

The movie was "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" starring Jim Carrey. As soon as he said that - I saw the relationship end in her eyes. She looked at me and I shared a sympathetic shrug, and then they left. He came in alone twice later that week.

 

[Silverlily]

Cheer for the wrong football team and it'll just be you and your hand, buddy. And unless you can pull and rebuild the motor, NASCAR is the kiss of death as well.

 

[rimmy]

Cheer for the wrong football team and it'll just be you and your hand, buddy. And unless you can pull and rebuild the motor, NASCAR is the kiss of death as well.

I don't mind her liking another team as long as she knows her stuff. No cosmetic fans allowed.

And Nascar is definitely a deal breaker.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Any similar experiences?

I went out with this man and he was nice and so forth ...

While we were talking I mentioned how I love going to bookstores and love to read - so naturally I asked him if he enjoyed reading and his reply was



"You mean .. books ?! ... The only think I read is Playboy..."


I am assuming he was trying to be funny - but that was not funny at all and he said he was not much into reading.

So that was that last I saw of him.

 

[naughtycakes]

I cannot think of anything specific, however i would rather have sex with an overweight person that made me laugh and had a good attitude than a supermodel that was a completely boring self centered bitch.

Agreed. Though to me overweight does not equal unatractive. Attraction goes beyond the physical, as far as I'm concerned, so this is a given. Plus I said this guy was attractive. He was no supermodel, though.

I never would have gotten myself into that situation. I'm glad I have a dislike for music and I'm good at changing topics.

I haven't really had any similar experiences.

I'm glad you're glad!

i chatted with this guy online and when we were talking about movies, i told him how much i LOVED horror movies....he said he hated them. never talked to him again

Hi pretty

Los Fabulosos Cadillacs.

Awww, rimmy! I love them! Especially that song, El Satanico Dr. somebody (you know the chorus goes te asienta bien el sol/ te asienta bien el mar/ te asienta bien ser cool)... I know they're beyond trite in Argentina, so I understand where you're coming from, but their music rocks.

 

[Silverlily]

I don't mind her liking another team as long as she knows her stuff. No cosmetic fans allowed.

No shit, that and if you haven't suffered through a losing season and are only along for the wins, move along. He doesn't have to like my team, but there are a few teams out there I cannot stand. Black/yellow or black/orange, we're done.

 

[coastal-boy]

I went out with a vegetarian once. Sad thing was we were getting along really well, laughing and just having general fun.

 

[SilkenGaze]

If I get a sense that he feels I'm damn lucky that he deigns to grace me with his company and I should show some gratitude, I'm outa here.
I always try to be nice and have a good time with a man I go out with, but the God's gift to womanhood routine is a big turn off.

 

[daylightwarrior]

i chatted with this guy online and when we were talking about movies, i told him how much i LOVED horror movies....he said he hated them. never talked to him again

How can somebody not like horror films? I mean really.

 

[Colonel Hogan]

Is it just me, or does anybody else think it's a bit strange that most women don't particularly care how big your cock is, but they'll refuse to fuck you because they don't like your shoes or your bath towels are the wrong color?

 

[naughtycakes]

I was clerking a video store while in college and this couple came in - clearly a second or third date kind of scenario. He was all N'Sync handsome as was the style then and she was very beautiful. They browsed the aisles for a long time, eventually picking out something along the lines of whatever the most recent 'Best Picture' winner was - safe and non-controversial.

They come up to the counter and I'm ringing his account through and he sees a used video for sale on the counter and picks it up. He grins and asks her if she's seen it - she says that she hasn't - and then he says, "I swear, this is like my favorite movie ever. Totally the best."

The movie was "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" starring Jim Carrey. As soon as he said that - I saw the relationship end in her eyes. She looked at me and I shared a sympathetic shrug, and then they left. He came in alone twice later that week.

Hah... this is great. Don't you love having insight into another human beings thoughts sometimes? Even if it's at somebody else's expense, and I'm sure she was glad to have somebody there to empathize.

This reminds me of a guy I dated last November. He had listed under favorite movies in his Myspace page Requim for a Dream. I assumed he was being fecetious. I asked him about it. He was totally serious. This was a red flag. I should have known he'd be a total psycho. Have you seen that movie? I could barely get through it. How in the name of all that is holy could this be among anybody's favorite movies?

Cheer for the wrong football team and it'll just be you and your hand, buddy. And unless you can pull and rebuild the motor, NASCAR is the kiss of death as well.

Agreed. NASCAR is a dealbreaker.

I went out with this man and he was nice and so forth ...

While we were talking I mentioned how I love going to bookstores and love to read - so naturally I asked him if he enjoyed reading and his reply was



"You mean .. books ?! ... The only think I read is Playboy..."


I am assuming he was trying to be funny - but that was not funny at all and he said he was not much into reading.

So that was that last I saw of him.

Yup... non-readers need not apply.

I went out with a vegetarian once. Sad thing was we were getting along really well, laughing and just having general fun.

I don't think I could ever date a vegetarian. I'm such a carnivour and I would just secretly crave to feed 'em meat (literallly, people, literally).

 

[Guest]

How can somebody not like horror films? I mean really.

i know, he lost out on getting seriously laid

 

[rimmy]

Agreed. Though to me overweight does not equal unatractive. Attraction goes beyond the physical, as far as I'm concerned, so this is a given. Plus I said this guy was attractive. He was no supermodel, though.



I'm glad you're glad!



Hi pretty



Awww, rimmy! I love them! Especially that song, El Satanico Dr. somebody (you know the chorus goes te asienta bien el sol/ te asienta bien el mar/ te asienta bien ser cool)... I know they're beyond trite in Argentina, so I understand where you're coming from, but their music rocks.

They are a national treasure.

I once dumped a girl because I didn't like her shoes. Ok, it wasn't the only reason but it didn't help her cause any.

 

[rimmy]

No shit, that and if you haven't suffered through a losing season and are only along for the wins, move along. He doesn't have to like my team, but there are a few teams out there I cannot stand. Black/yellow or black/orange, we're done.

Nothing I hate more than a fly-by fan. If you can't tell me your teams history then you don't count.

I went out with a vegetarian once. Sad thing was we were getting along really well, laughing and just having general fun.

The bean was a vegtablearian when I met her and now she's a full fledge flesh eater again. *GRUNT GRUNT*

 

[daylightwarrior]

i know, he lost out on getting seriously laid

Didn't realize what he was missing.

 

[bronzeage]

I have been watching this thread and combing my memory, but if you don't count the few times I said "I think we should start seeing other people," there never was a sex deal breaker.

 

[naughtycakes]

If I get a sense that he feels I'm damn lucky that he deigns to grace me with his company and I should show some gratitude, I'm outa here.
I always try to be nice and have a good time with a man I go out with, but the God's gift to womanhood routine is a big turn off.

Yeah, confidence is good but the level of arrogance you're describing is a definate dealbreaker.

Is it just me, or does anybody else think it's a bit strange that most women don't particularly care how big your cock is, but they'll refuse to fuck you because they don't like your shoes or your bath towels are the wrong color?

Hey man, we all have our quirks. And shoes are real important. When you look at what a guy is wearing, the shoes are something that he most likely bought/picked out for himself. Shoes say a lot about a guy. The rest of the clothes could be for work, bought by a (former) g.f. or even his mom eek. But shoes, he has to go to the store and try on, they require more thought.

They are a national treasure.

I once dumped a girl because I didn't like her shoes. Ok, it wasn't the only reason but it didn't help her cause any.

Oh, okay. I thought you were saying you didn't like them. I have "Vasos Vacios," which is like a greatest hits album and listen to it still quite a bit.

 

[JinXed]

Anytime someone takes me where they know, or at least suspect, an ex will be.

-- it's like being herded out to be shown off. To make someone jealous, perhaps with the intentions of creating drama. No thanks.

That should have been a big hint, but no, I stuck around for a bit longer.

oh! When I was in a store with a date and handed over a $100 bill (mine) and the guy said, "you just hand that $100 like it's nothing!"
What, was I suppose to tug of war with the cashier?

Whenever they spend over 15-20 minutes, accumulative time, discussing their past relationships. Though I give leeway if they are funny stories, not necessarily insulting or degrading their ex.

Another recent one - the bragger.
Don't get me wrong, confidence is a huge turn on, but when you continually toot your own horn it becomes painfully obvious that you lack true confidence.

 

[Mr. Show]

I have been watching this thread and combing my memory, but if you don't count the few times I said "I think we should start seeing other people," there never was a sex deal breaker.

Yeah - breaking up with a girl is a total deal breaker I find. Women and their principals. Curses.

 

[daylightwarrior]

I have been watching this thread and combing my memory, but if you don't count the few times I said "I think we should start seeing other people," there never was a sex deal breaker.

If you were combing your memory, where did you part it?