Sex and writing

hmmnmm said:
the two are so akin and fit so perfect together.
think of an aspect of sex and you can also think of a beautiful way it entwines with writing.

example: yesterday I released a slew of paragraphs and they came out pretty nice, and in pretty much one sitting. Got pretty excited about that, but today nothing. Like it finally filled to the point of no return, blew, and now its drained, but I feel a deep peace.

Maybe that's why it's so hard to find a better place.
Sites focused strictly on writing or strictly sex just seem to be missing something.
But sex and writing - perfect.

Just wanted to express that.
thanks. :)


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This could be a delicious thread, I hope it turns out that way.

I think anyone who ever feels the desire to write fiction of any kind, eventually discovers they must deal with human relationships, after all, plot, plot, plot, leaves something to be desired.

Then, depending on a lot of things, the writer's libido being one of them, and of course one's comprehension of Freudian interpretations of human nature and drives, sexual encounters are a part of life and fiction indeed.

And there are infinite combinations and permutations of people meeting each other and loving or not, flirting or not, teasing or not, abusive or not; and on and on.

Yes, one can love this site for the diversity and the 'almost without rules' limitations on posting work. But to each his own, I would like to find a similar site, but Romantica, with perhaps not so much alternative and kinky, Bohemian emphasis. But then, that is me, others prefer it as it is.

Amicus...
 
The central paradox of love is that we're always try as hard as we can to to get as close to our beloved as possible, but if we ever succeed we destroy her by becoming her.

And in writing as in sex, we start with something beautiful and blank, too perfect to be of any use, and by degrading it we turn it into something human, dirty, and beautiful.
 
dr_mabeuse said:
The central paradox of love is that we're always try as hard as we can to to get as close to our beloved as possible, but if we ever succeed we destroy her by becoming her.
Truest words I've read all day.
 
lucky-E-leven said:
Truest words I've read all day.

The same thing happens in chemistry, you know, in diatomic molecules - molecules consisting of two identical atoms like H2 or O2 or Cl2.

If the 2 atoms get too far apart, no bond and they split. If they get to close, they annihilate each other. So what they do is they vibrate around an ideal distance, sometimes coming closer and sometimes moving. It's called a dynamic equilibrium, and it's the same thing human couples and many other stable systems do. You don't stay static, you oscillate around an average mean...
 
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