sex and sub dom

[skindiver84]

Hay just been thinking today about how lots of people confuse the sub and dom relationship as something sexual. When I was younger I use to assume it was but as I mature I can see how different it is. Firstly domination is not about sex, I know se people don't belive that, control rape and forced sex is not domination. Domination is to gain control not have to physical controle someone or restrain them.Likewise submission is not someone who is bound or just likes to be tied and spank. To have someone truly submit to you is the ultimate stage of trust. We don't realise this but many of use have already had this with out parents.My Mother was a very strong woman. Time and time again she would tell me not to do something so I would not. I respected and trusted what she did wad in my interest not hears. As we get older we forget this as we start to thinl we know what's best better than out parents but as these sites show some people do still crave that kind of care. Care is the most important thing care and trust.So no sub dom is nothing to do with sex for me. I just like hearing you moan.

Anyway I hope this sums up my views so ill say is any sub out there looking for a caring dom to talk to and see if we click.