Serious question for the Women.

[USSailorMike]

New to this place and I know the question I’m about to ask is going to be rude, but it has to be asked.

Why don’t you BBW who have pictures actually place BBW in your post titles?

Further why do you women -who SHOULD BE shopping at Lane Bryant INSIST on shopping at Victoria Secret???????

I may get called a jackass, or asshole but I’m going to continue and state why I asked those questions.

I saw a picture post and I’m not going to be an ass and tell her on her picture post that she needs a larger brassiere - but if your a larger woman (she was a bit chunky) quit trying to wear the stuff meant for women smaller than you!!! It is not appealing to see bulges when you can avoid them by wearing the right size.

The brassiere may look sexy but when you spill and bulge out you to loose sex appeal. There are many companies that make brassieres for larger women, theres nothing to be ashamed about wearing properly fitting lingerie. The same goes for your underclothing, it is not sexy seeing a larger woman wearing panities that she squeezed into. I could tell that she is a larger woman - again I did NOT have an issue that she is plus size/full figured - but wearing a thong that is too small is distasteful, not saying she should not wear a thong but wear one that is the right size for godsake!!!

What I do have an issue with is that the lingerie didn’t fit her, like her brassiere until she cradled it to cover her bosoms - it just wasn’t appealing. Now once the brassiere came off and I could see her ample bosoms and belly it was better.

I do adore women of all sizes but my fantasies and what I want to see changes day to day. Today it’s blonds - found some fortunately - special thanks to the blonds

 

[85bird]

...wow

 

[dreamcreature]

hmmm amatures here.. not professionals.. im sure u can find your idea of a "perfect pic" somewhere on the internet....they have airbrushing too

 

[ShyGuy68]

Man you're going to be popular here

 

[jenni7]

Being a BBW and I consider myself slightly chunky not overly large by any means, let me tell you even the bra's that fit there are still some bulges going on. It is just how it is. If you have extra padding and your wearing a bar is it not going to fit loosely or it wont do it's job hence some bulges. I'm sorry that you were caught off guard or upset by whatever am pic thread you viewed but please remember they are am pics and well if you dont like it you dont have to view it, just go to a different one.

On a side note if i ever get the balls to post some pics, as many of my lit buddies would like me to, I will be sure to include in the title "BBW with a slightly chunky ass wants to show off" that way youll know if it meets your current fantasy.

 

[ShyGuy68]

On a side note if i ever get the balls to post some pics, as many of my lit buddies would like me to, I will be sure to include in the title "BBW with a slightly chunky ass wants to show off" that way youll know if it meets your current fantasy.

I honestly think you shouldn't do that, just to piss him off

 

[jenni7]

I honestly think you shouldn't do that, just to piss him off

not post and save his sensitive eyes from my amazing cleavage or just not warn his picky ass?

 

[pwr2theblondes]

I think girls with larger chests have a harder time finding lingerie to fit and there is probably not the biggest selection to choose from if you're overweight. I weigh 100 pounds and sometimes take a medium in panties...Some lines run really small. This is called "amateur pic feedback" because we are amateurs. Don't expect perfection.

 

[USSailorMike]

Look I don't have an issue w/ women of varying sizes. I've dated a woman that was around 350 pounds and I wasn't ashamed to kiss her in public or introduce her to my friends.

Think about it this way - if you ARE a BBW (not a problem with that here) you MIGHT actually get MORE feedback from those who admire BBW.

Like I said my fantasy today is blondes. Tomorrow it might be a fantasy of a redhead, or a goth chick - hell I'm a man.

- Thank you to those who could see I wasn't trying to be a jackass. I understand that womens weight changes, I get that. I'm just saying it's NOT that difficult to measure yourself or have the sales clerk measure you to make sure that you're not wearing a bra that's 2-3 sizes too small.

 

[switchbitch]

Look I don't have an issue w/ women of varying sizes. I've dated a woman that was around 350 pounds and I wasn't ashamed to kiss her in public or introduce her to my friends.

Think about it this way - if you ARE a BBW (not a problem with that here) you MIGHT actually get MORE feedback from those who admire BBW.

Like I said my fantasy today is blondes. Tomorrow it might be a fantasy of a redhead, or a goth chick - hell I'm a man.

- Thank you to those who could see I wasn't trying to be a jackass. I understand that womens weight changes, I get that. I'm just saying it's NOT that difficult to measure yourself or have the sales clerk measure you to make sure that you're not wearing a bra that's 2-3 sizes too small.

While I understand you are not trying to be a jackass, I do have to let you know that sometimes it is very difficult to get bras that fit. Particularly if you are very large. The cup size can vary from brand to brand enormously. Mine ranges from a 38 J to a 44 M and when I do find one that fits well, in design it looks rather like an ugly length of tarpaulin. It forces me to shop expensively and often to have my lingerie custom-made. And Sweetie that is expensive. Often I will simply buy the closest size I can manage to stuff myself into, for everyday wear so that I can save the good ones for special occasions.
Bra sizing is imperfect to say the least, with far too few shapes and designs for different shaped and sized boobs.some girls boobs ride close on their rib cage and some are wide apart, some have a cleavage that could rip the skin off your cock, and some have a distinctly bony midsection. Some girls need an under wire and some girls dare not use one.
It would be wonderful if the industry could cater to the endless variety of titflesh but the truth is they do not. Boobs come in even more varieties than feetand we all know how hard it is to get a really comfortable pair of shoes in a style that we like.
Honestly girls with big tits like pretty lingerie too, and if we have to stuff ourselves into something that's a little too small we often will.
Do us all a favour and send your post to every lingerie manufacturer you can find.you never know they may listen to a man rather than all of those women who have been complaining about it for years.

 

[USSailorMike]

While I understand you are not trying to be a jackass, I do have to let you know that sometimes it is very difficult to get bras that fit. Particularly if you are very large. The cup size can vary from brand to brand enormously. Mine ranges from a 38 J to a 44 M and when I do find one that fits well, in design it looks rather like an ugly length of tarpaulin. It forces me to shop expensively and often to have my lingerie custom-made. And Sweetie that is expensive. Often I will simply buy the closest size I can manage to stuff myself into, for everyday wear so that I can save the good ones for special occasions.
Bra sizing is imperfect to say the least, with far too few shapes and designs for different shaped and sized boobs.some girls boobs ride close on their rib cage and some are wide apart, some have a cleavage that could rip the skin off your cock, and some have a distinctly bony midsection. Some girls need an under wire and some girls dare not use one.
It would be wonderful if the industry could cater to the endless variety of titflesh but the truth is they do not. Boobs come in even more varieties than feetand we all know how hard it is to get a really comfortable pair of shoes in a style that we like.
Honestly girls with big tits like pretty lingerie too, and if we have to stuff ourselves into something that's a little too small we often will.
Do us all a favour and send your post to every lingerie manufacturer you can find.you never know they may listen to a man rather than all of those women who have been complaining about it for years.

Haha okay - I can understand that women -no matter their size want sexy lingerie, I get that. The picture that set me to post this was NOT horribly large, she might be a few pounds overweight but not to the extent of needing a custom made brassier.

What I'm trying to say is simply she is in NO way SO huge that she couldn't find a pretty bra in the right size. What is it w/ women, so vain that they want that "Victoria Secret" tag in their brassiere and they'll knowingly squeeze their bodies into something that might be pretty but then makes them uncomfortable.

Haha and maybe I should write those companies

There's no excuse for a woman who CAN find a pretty brassiere but chooses NOT to all b/c she wants some tag that says "Victoria Secret"

See this is just not sexy - she's a normal looking woman but bulging, and the bra size is wrong - this issue COULD be resolved.
http://x49.xanga.com/8bef610b20333270445035/m215697677.Png


The woman here is more attractive b/c her lingerie fits her.
http://images.figleaves.com/uk/images/eng-gbr/fitting_room/01-01-09/bra_fitting_back.jpg

 

[hosedragger]

I love bulges (female ones). I see beyond the bulge at what the person was actually trying to show me.
If she is trying to be sexy, then it is the attitude that I find sexy far more-so than picking at a flaw

 

[SweetNatasha]

Haha okay - I can understand that women -no matter their size want sexy lingerie, I get that. The picture that set me to post this was NOT horribly large, she might be a few pounds overweight but not to the extent of needing a custom made brassier.

What I'm trying to say is simply she is in NO way SO huge that she couldn't find a pretty bra in the right size. What is it w/ women, so vain that they want that "Victoria Secret" tag in their brassiere and they'll knowingly squeeze their bodies into something that might be pretty but then makes them uncomfortable.

Haha and maybe I should write those companies

There's no excuse for a woman who CAN find a pretty brassiere but chooses NOT to all b/c she wants some tag that says "Victoria Secret"

See this is just not sexy - she's a normal looking woman but bulging, and the bra size is wrong - this issue COULD be resolved.
http://x49.xanga.com/8bef610b20333270445035/m215697677.Png


The woman here is more attractive b/c her lingerie fits her.
http://images.figleaves.com/uk/images/eng-gbr/fitting_room/01-01-09/bra_fitting_back.jpg

Who the fuck elected you arbiter of what is and what is not sexy? And who the fuck elected you arbiter of what women should and should not choose to wear?

I see guys in ill-fitted t-shirts day in day out, in shirts that are too big or too small - and DON'T EVEN START ME ON FAT DUDES IN TIGHT CLOTHES. I don't go round telling these people that I don't find their dress sense sexy. I just don't look.

Pull the stick out of your arse and let other people enjoy what they like enjoying.

 

[hosedragger]

Man for "SweetNatasha" you can kick some ASS!

 

[downerbeautiful]

For starters, VS has larger sizes that accommodate many BBWs, so I think that analogy is irrelevant.

I am not a BBW, but I certainly have bras that are too small for me for a variety of reasons. I have ones that fit well, too. Some small ones I keep because I am comfortable in them, but I spill out badly. I do, however, really like the colors/styles of the small ones I keep. Maybe the woman gained weight but is particularly fond of the bra itself.

Also, maybe she gained weight and simply cannot afford to purchase newer, better fitting underpinnings. It happens; I know many people in that exact situation. Also, as someone who actually has bra sizes 34B, 32DD, and 38DD (among several other sizes!) in her closet, they all each fit very differently. I do what I can. Same with knickers. And with bulge, every woman has it, even Vickies ladies. If you want examples, I will find links. I wear a 32DD best (according to the fitting lady) measure a 34B, and STILL have budge on 38DD (which hardly even stretches to fit around me).

Moreover, regarding identifying threads as BBW, seriously you want to play that game? Should we ALL then identify our sizes in our threads? What about the women and men who have very long and old threads. What if they have a great weight fluctuation from the start of their threads to now? Should they scrap and get a new one? Thread titles are whatever people want them to be. Mine identify neither size nor gender nor sex. People can look at a picture and decide from there. If you want BBWs to identify, then you should also want people to say whether they are male or female, young or old, fat or thin, masculine or feminine, and so on. BBWs shouldn't have to segregate themselves in thread titles!

 

[USSailorMike]

Who the fuck elected you arbiter of what is and what is not sexy? And who the fuck elected you arbiter of what women should and should not choose to wear?

I see guys in ill-fitted t-shirts day in day out, in shirts that are too big or too small - and DON'T EVEN START ME ON FAT DUDES IN TIGHT CLOTHES. I don't go round telling these people that I don't find their dress sense sexy. I just don't look.

Pull the stick out of your arse and let other people enjoy what they like enjoying.

Hey calm down. Didn't mean to ruffle your panties. In order for you to see "FAT DUDES IN TIGHT CLOTHES" - you would have to look in order to know they're fat.

 

[USSailorMike]

For starters, VS has larger sizes that accommodate many BBWs, so I think that analogy is irrelevant.

I am not a BBW, but I certainly have bras that are too small for me for a variety of reasons. I have ones that fit well, too. Some small ones I keep because I am comfortable in them, but I spill out badly. I do, however, really like the colors/styles of the small ones I keep. Maybe the woman gained weight but is particularly fond of the bra itself.

Also, maybe she gained weight and simply cannot afford to purchase newer, better fitting underpinnings. It happens; I know many people in that exact situation. Also, as someone who actually has bra sizes 34B, 32DD, and 38DD (among several other sizes!) in her closet, they all each fit very differently. I do what I can. Same with knickers. And with bulge, every woman has it, even Vickies ladies. If you want examples, I will find links. I wear a 32DD best (according to the fitting lady) measure a 34B, and STILL have budge on 38DD (which hardly even stretches to fit around me).

Moreover, regarding identifying threads as BBW, seriously you want to play that game? Should we ALL then identify our sizes in our threads? What about the women and men who have very long and old threads. What if they have a great weight fluctuation from the start of their threads to now? Should they scrap and get a new one? Thread titles are whatever people want them to be. Mine identify neither size nor gender nor sex. People can look at a picture and decide from there. If you want BBWs to identify, then you should also want people to say whether they are male or female, young or old, fat or thin, masculine or feminine, and so on. BBWs shouldn't have to segregate themselves in thread titles!

Okay see some of what you said makes sense. Perhaps these women need to have their man step up to the plate and give them some money to by new lingerie or take them shopping. Shopping trips are always fun

I can see the point on the thread title to a degree. Just saying some men want to know if a woman is BBW want to admire BBW it's only fuckin retards who want to avoid BBW -each his own.

 

[switchbitch]

Haha okay - I can understand that women -no matter their size want sexy lingerie, I get that. The picture that set me to post this was NOT horribly large, she might be a few pounds overweight but not to the extent of needing a custom made brassier.

What I'm trying to say is simply she is in NO way SO huge that she couldn't find a pretty bra in the right size. What is it w/ women, so vain that they want that "Victoria Secret" tag in their brassiere and they'll knowingly squeeze their bodies into something that might be pretty but then makes them uncomfortable.

Haha and maybe I should write those companies

There's no excuse for a woman who CAN find a pretty brassiere but chooses NOT to all b/c she wants some tag that says "Victoria Secret"

See this is just not sexy - she's a normal looking woman but bulging, and the bra size is wrong - this issue COULD be resolved.
http://x49.xanga.com/8bef610b20333270445035/m215697677.Png


The woman here is more attractive b/c her lingerie fits her.
http://images.figleaves.com/uk/images/eng-gbr/fitting_room/01-01-09/bra_fitting_back.jpg

the first bra is an under wire bra, in order for an under wire bra to give proper uplift, the strap beneath the breast has to be extremely tight, as this is where all of the lift comes from. If you have any soft flesh at all it is going to look like a rubber band around your finger. If it doesn't the under wires don't work. The second bra is a combination, under wire/contour cup that requires a broader base across the back for support, obviously there is going to be less pullon the surrounding flesh.
Hmmm too much information perhaps? If you're not going to contact all of the companies perhaps you could get work as a bra fitter? Not only would you have fun but you might be sufficiently motivated to do a really good job.

 

[ms_intrigue]

......

 

[USSailorMike]

the first bra is an under wire bra, in order for an under wire bra to give proper uplift, the strap beneath the breast has to be extremely tight, as this is where all of the lift comes from. If you have any soft flesh at all it is going to look like a rubber band around your finger. If it doesn't the under wires don't work. The second bra is a combination, under wire/contour cup that requires a broader base across the back for support, obviously there is going to be less pullon the surrounding flesh.
Hmmm too much information perhaps? If you're not going to contact all of the companies perhaps you could get work as a bra fitter? Not only would you have fun but you might be sufficiently motivated to do a really good job.

Haha that's amazing that you knew that from the back what the front would be like

I wouldn't mind being a bra fitter, I'm good with my hands & numbers

 

[SweetNatasha]

Hey calm down. Didn't mean to ruffle your panties. In order for you to see "FAT DUDES IN TIGHT CLOTHES" - you would have to look in order to know they're fat.

And now you're patronising me? Sorry will suffice.

 

[switchbitch]

Haha that's amazing that you knew that from the back what the front would be like

I wouldn't mind being a bra fitter, I'm good with my hands & numbers

why so surprised that someone who has unusually difficult bra issues would recognize every aspect of them, after all I have to deal with them every day.
And you only have to count to two you know unless someone has genetic issues. Laughing...one for this hand and one for this hand...

 

[danigrl84]

I do believe he was fed to the wolves...lol. Props girls

 

[Cleardiamond]

For the record.. I know that you are referring to me.. you should know that while I might be "chunky" to you.. I am not in the group of supposed BBW not that I wouldn't welcome that title.. but im PREGNANT you dickwad. of course things are a little larger than necessary right now..

 

[Sensualdreamer]

New to this place and I know the question I’m about to ask is going to be rude, but it has to be asked.

Why don’t you BBW who have pictures actually place BBW in your post titles?

Further why do you women -who SHOULD BE shopping at Lane Bryant INSIST on shopping at Victoria Secret???????

I may get called a jackass, or asshole but I’m going to continue and state why I asked those questions.

I saw a picture post and I’m not going to be an ass and tell her on her picture post that she needs a larger brassiere - but if your a larger woman (she was a bit chunky) quit trying to wear the stuff meant for women smaller than you!!! It is not appealing to see bulges when you can avoid them by wearing the right size.

The brassiere may look sexy but when you spill and bulge out you to loose sex appeal. There are many companies that make brassieres for larger women, theres nothing to be ashamed about wearing properly fitting lingerie. The same goes for your underclothing, it is not sexy seeing a larger woman wearing panities that she squeezed into. I could tell that she is a larger woman - again I did NOT have an issue that she is plus size/full figured - but wearing a thong that is too small is distasteful, not saying she should not wear a thong but wear one that is the right size for godsake!!!

What I do have an issue with is that the lingerie didn’t fit her, like her brassiere until she cradled it to cover her bosoms - it just wasn’t appealing. Now once the brassiere came off and I could see her ample bosoms and belly it was better.

I do adore women of all sizes but my fantasies and what I want to see changes day to day. Today it’s blonds - found some fortunately - special thanks to the blonds

Who are you to say what store a woman should shop at?!
Some stores like Lane Bryant carry small sizes, and VS does carry extended sizes!

You're creating waves already youch!!!