Serious and Searching...in Virginia Beach

[MischievousGntlman]

For once...an honest-to-God "personal ad" in the personals section.

If you're a female between the ages of 20 and 50, live in the Hampton Roads area of southeast Virginia, and would like to meet someone who's kind, considerate, interested in the stuff you find at Literotica, educated, financially stable, an established white collar professional, a romantic, and not looking to just meet someone to have sex with, I'd love to communicate with you and see if we are interesting enough to each other to someday meet (a blind date in public where we're VERY comfortable and safe to explore a POSSIBLE relationship or get the hell out quickly and conveniently).

I'm serious!

While casual sex has its place, which I'm cool with and open to, I prefer to connect with someone body AND soul. That's the difference between "having sex" and "making love." I prefer making love...and haven't done so for quite some time. I believe the mind and the spirit are the best sexual organs we have and I'd love to find someone of like mind to "blend" or "merge" with: an intertwining of our entire beings.

If you're interested, e-mail me at MischievousGntlman@literotica.com. Beforehand, you might want to read my two "A Family Adventure" stories. While I don't condone incest in ANY manner, way, shape, or form, I think you'll get a "feel" for how I think by reading them--I appreciate a subtle blend of innocent idealism (the mind and spirit) and stark realism (our bodily cravings). That's what the stories are REALLY about. It's not incest that turns me on (which is actually quite repulsive in my opinion). Rather, it's an erotic story that captures that sense of "innocence" you felt when you were a teenager doing it for the first time--crossing that line and feeling the adrenaline rush that goes with it.

You might also want to check out my profile. After all of that, if you're still interested, I'd absolutely love to hear from you. In fact, I crave it. And don't be afraid! While looks are a factor, they are not a primary factor for me. The "realist" in me is cool with a woman who likes to eat, be comfortable in her own skin, and generally ignore the mass media culture's definition of what is "beautiful." The "idealist" in me, however, is looking for that special INNER beauty that comes from openness, honesty, a HIGH regard for communication and expressiveness, and a sense of adventure that's tempered by realistic common-sense, safety, and politeness.

Am I touching all of your hot buttons? If so, don't pass this up. E-mail me or PM me now. While most of you that read this probably won't even get this far into the text 'cause it doesn't apply to you, that's fine. I'm simply looking for that one person who fits...and that's like finding a jackpot. So consider this thread my "fishing line." I'm just waiting for a bite. And I'm patient.

Hopefully, you can understand. I don't mean this to be some pathetic plea for companionship. I've got plenty of friends and companions. I can also be alone and not lonely quite easily. It's just not preferable. Know what I mean?

MG

 

[MischievousGntlman]

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[Missingmeds]

Funny, I know where you are, and that is so far away.

 

[MischievousGntlman]

LOL Kinda like "small world," but too big for our purposes, eh?

MG

 

[deepstare]

Good luck man, I completely understand where you're coming from. Hopefully some decent women out there have PMed you. I think everyone needs that deep connection at some point. Again, good luck in your search.

 

[Missingmeds]

LOL Kinda like "small world," but too big for our purposes, eh?

MG

Exactly....

 

[MischievousGntlman]

Thanks deepstare! No bites yet, but I'm patient. This is worth waiting for if it works.

MG

 

[Angelofsex]

Good luck in Your search...........there is someone out there for you.

 

[MischievousGntlman]

THX I'll keep the faith Angel. Sure no hurry, though.

MG

 

[MischievousGntlman]

^ (...as many times as it takes, ya know?)

 

[MischievousGntlman]

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[MischievousGntlman]

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[MissIntrigue]

You have a well written ad and I hope you find yours. I have thought about doing this too- but you know it is almost hopeless for me. My track record in R/L hasn't been worthy enough to risk it here. Keep being patient, I'll bump you when I see it too, too bad I am so far you sound interesting enough more especially on the 'serious' stuff. lol

 

[MischievousGntlman]

You have a well written ad and I hope you find yours. I have thought about doing this too- but you know it is almost hopeless for me. My track record in R/L hasn't been worthy enough to risk it here. Keep being patient, I'll bump you when I see it too, too bad I am so far you sound interesting enough more especially on the 'serious' stuff. lol

Yeah, I hear ya. I think we're "on the same page." Thanks for the support, but don't give up hope on yourself either. I think we are ALL looking for this. That's what it really comes down to, right: a "soul" mate? I just figured if I look here, then whoever it is won't be dissappointed in me 'cause they'll already know my "seediest" side. Know what I mean? And, if they can deal w/ that, then they'll probably be able to see the best in me, instead of being shocked at the worst.

Think about that. It might help you too.

Of course, it's idealistic to think I might find someone who sees the worst in me and thinks nothing of it while admiring the best in me. Then again, that's really what we ALL hope for, isn't it?

I'm ready to "see" that in someone else...IF they're ready to "see" that in me..and, hopefully, they can sense that from reading this thread. I think if we could all find that there'd be a lot less posts here.

Ya think?

MG