Sensual words for female genetalia?

[Whathou]

Hello Literotica, I've been a long time reader but decided to join the forums for help with this issue. (because who else would know better than all of you!?)

I have been having RP/text sex with a girl recently and it's been going really well other than when I want to talk about her pussy.
Now being a guy talking to guys I feel fine with the word pussy but I can't help but feel it really breaks the mood when I use it in RP/text sex.

She really enjoys sensual and romantic sex scenes, and for the life of me I can't think of a word I can use that works, I had thought about "sex" as in "I slowly rub against your sex" as it's a word I have seen used in fiction throughout the site. However she is not a native English speaker so that could be somewhat confusing.

Thanks for any help in advance and I'm sure I will facepalm when someone comes up with an easy answer.

P.S any tips on things I could do to improve what we're doing would be great as well (I'm still new to it)

 

[Saxon Stonedyke]

Try a google search for The Vagina Monologues there are hundreds.....

 

[Pervertedhub]

While sitting with my wife, her co-worker and her daughter at a nice restruant, who was 19 at the time, the daughter called it a 'critter'. Thought I would roll out of my chair I was laughing so hard. It was unexpected and out of the blue.

I know this is not what you are looking for, but I thought I would share.

 

[amofiga]

Whathou

It seems like there you have a fine line between things like pussy and good old fashion gutter language. Me personally, I like wome who have no problem with words like cunt and snatch, twat, etc, but many don't feel comfortable with them. I liked the "critter" above and Kathy Griffin often uses "peach". "Figa" (fig) is often used in Italy. There was a woman I worked with that used to refer to her "sweet thing". I've heard "squiggy" used on occassion along with "honey pot", "soup bowl", "pelt", "cunny", "hair pie", "honey dumpling", "peek-a-chew", "sausage grinder" or whatever name you two may come up with between yourselves.

 

[SweetErika]

Hello Literotica, I've been a long time reader but decided to join the forums for help with this issue. (because who else would know better than all of you!?)

I have been having RP/text sex with a girl recently and it's been going really well other than when I want to talk about her pussy.
Now being a guy talking to guys I feel fine with the word pussy but I can't help but feel it really breaks the mood when I use it in RP/text sex.

Why do you think "pussy" breaks the mood? It seems like it's one of the most commonly used, least offensive words. "Snatch" or "beaver" or a similar term that only men typically use, often in a crude or offensive way, wouldn't be a good choice, but "pussy" is pretty gentle.

Do you know it bothers your partner, or are you just assuming it does?

Which words does she generally use to describe her vagina and vulva?

She really enjoys sensual and romantic sex scenes, and for the life of me I can't think of a word I can use that works, I had thought about "sex" as in "I slowly rub against your sex" as it's a word I have seen used in fiction throughout the site. However she is not a native English speaker so that could be somewhat confusing.

Remember that words are often interpreted differently in the heat of the moment vs. general conversation. For instance, I'm usually not a fan of "cunt," but in the moment with a caring partner, it wouldn't bother me at all. It might even be hotter because it's a more "taboo" word. Just because your partner enjoys sensual and romantic scenes doesn't mean she's opposed to less flowery terms. Her likes and dislikes are definitely things you should find out straight from her, though.

Have you considered it might be enough to mix it up by using [something akin to] "pussy" sometimes, and even words like clit, labia and vulva at others? For example, instead of saying, "I'm licking your pussy," you could say, "While my tongue flicks across your clit rapidly, I probe into your wetness, finding a spot that makes you go wild."

 

[RockHardKP]

How about ...... "I slowly rub against your womanhood"

 

[deehere]

Well...

Well, I'm no expert but if pussy is too harsh of a word, maybe kitty or that equivalent in her language. Anything but the horrible c word that I strongly object to.

 

[nudieman]

Your little monkey...

 

[pandapompom]

I call mine a poochie

 

[NippleMuncher]

If it were this thread, we'd call it the Grand Canyon.

In all seriousness, I find myself in a similar situation of needing erotic descriptions of a woman's charms.

IMHO, the technical names give a cold, clinical feel to the writing. While vulva, vagina, et.al. may be accurate it's not overly erotic. Conversely, the "C" word is frequently found offensive, even in the heat of passion one must tread lightly with it's use. If you are writing a story for the masses, then the "C" word is probably a good one to omit.

 

[LadyVer]

FWIW, pussy is pretty generic and isn't offensive to me with a partner. I've had a couple of partners use "nether lips" and I about died laughing. It made me wonder what they had been reading.

 

[kaciemay]

when my grls were growing up i used to called it cochie, i like cunt myself, or kat

 

[nakdsub]

A little slice of heaven, or...

Heaven on earth, the pearly gates, the love tunnel,

 

[JasonDaniel]

While sitting with my wife, her co-worker and her daughter at a nice restruant, who was 19 at the time, the daughter called it a 'critter'. Thought I would roll out of my chair I was laughing so hard. It was unexpected and out of the blue. QUOTE]

LOL, I think we have all seen a few of those critters in the past.

 

[amofiga]

I wonder why so many women have a tough time with the "horrible c word" i.e.cunt. There I said the horrible word. Just a word like the other six you can't say on television. I'll admit that calling a woman a cunt in the context of being a whore or a slut or in a context of anger can be offensive and hurtful. However, while having sex with someone you like/love and telling her that you adore the taste of her sweet cunt and worship having your face in it or sliding your cock into it, can be quite erotic. Or having her say how much she loves the smell and taste of her cunt on your lips after she's cum on your face. It's just a word like any other. Consider the context. As far as my personal preferences, the "dirtier and sluttier" you can make sex while in the "heat of battle" the better. Personally I hate "medical" sterile words like vagina and penis unless I'm talking to a doctor or my mother. They carry zero erotic punch. But that's just me.

 

[Lord Pmann]

This is the best thread on Lit.

I hate when people refer to it as "her sex". I don't know why, and it's just my opinion. But that annoys me shitless.

 

[craiger58]

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[geronimo_appleby]

I wonder why so many women have a tough time with the "horrible c word" i.e.cunt. There I said the horrible word. Just a word like the other six you can't say on television. I'll admit that calling a woman a cunt in the context of being a whore or a slut or in a context of anger can be offensive and hurtful. However, while having sex with someone you like/love and telling her that you adore the taste of her sweet cunt and worship having your face in it or sliding your cock into it, can be quite erotic. Or having her say how much she loves the smell and taste of her cunt on your lips after she's cum on your face. It's just a word like any other. Consider the context. As far as my personal preferences, the "dirtier and sluttier" you can make sex while in the "heat of battle" the better. Personally I hate "medical" sterile words like vagina and penis unless I'm talking to a doctor or my mother. They carry zero erotic punch. But that's just me.

it'd be interesting to know what the response would be if you used cunt in front of your mother.

 

[HappyAlone]

lol i actually had a guy call my cunt Pookie. He found out after i stopped laughing that my house cat is named Pookie. I doubt this helps but it was all to hilarious not to share lol

 

[geronimo_appleby]

lol i actually had a guy call my cunt Pookie. He found out after i stopped laughing that my house cat is named Pookie. I doubt this helps but it was all to hilarious not to share lol

i used to call the cats that came to shit in my garden cunts ...

 

[HappyAlone]

i used to call the cats that came to shit in my garden cunts ...

filthy cunts get off my lawn! lol

 

[geronimo_appleby]

filthy cunts get off my lawn! lol

something approaching those words, yep.

 

[analgirl69]

I have the same problem!

I don't need dirty talk to enjoy myself by any means but I usually need it to orgasm.. and I hate the worse pussy. Hence why I am more likely to orgasm though anal, even though I like the feel of regular sex best. Because I can say "fuck my ass hard" and get turned on but "fuck my pussy"? No. No, no and no. Doesn't do it for me. It's unfortunate. But I don't particularly like any other words better. Cunt is probably not so bad either normally but not during dirty talk- it's going to make me go over the edge.. it just sounds weird.

 

[bigjohnk]

Your hubby is a lucky man

Sorry didn't mean to post cheers

 

[amofiga]

it'd be interesting to know what the response would be if you used cunt in front of your mother.

If my mother were still alive, I wouldn't use "cunt" in her presence for obvious reasons. I never used to use any such language even in the presence of my father out of basic respect. I come from a different generation in that regard. Not like young people today who use gutter language sitting in the movies or the local fast food place. As I mentioned earlier, words with high erotic/dirty horsepower are reserved for those with whom you are having sex, either at the present moment, as part of foreplay, or with those you are having sex on a regular basis. Plain old general propriety dictates that one doesn't use that sort of language in general social circles. Time and place for everything.

The OP is looking for words to use with his girlfriend while "sexting" or in intimate discussions. My comments were directed to that sort of intimate relationship which also implies that they are in the process of teasing or trying to turn each other on. I use terms like sucking cock or licking cunt with my wife regularly while having sex, but wouldn't in a public restaurant. Just common sense.

As for my mom again, I remember an incident when I was about 15 and said something in her presence (slip of the tongue), that was sort of, "I don't give a fuck what so-and-so thinks about such-and-such." There was a moment of silence and then she slapped me so hard I saw stars. Never piss off an Italian momma if you want to keep your teeth. Then again, better to get it from momma than pappa who could indeed knock your teeth out.