Sensual comments from the same sex.

T.H. Oughts

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If you are hetro. When someone of the same sex makes sexual comments to you about how sexy you are or how they would like to kiss or what ever you... how to you feel about it???

Do you take it as a compliment or do you think. "You fucking queer" or along those lines...

Even though you might not wanna get sexual with someone of the same sex as you, how do you feel about their comments????
 
Ok I am not hetro...but here is the way I see it...basicly you are talking about someone you are not attracted to (whether it is gender related or not)

I find it a compliment. I politly make my opinion known and enjoy that someone finds me arousing.
 
I think of it as a compliment. Maybe I'm more accepting because I'm bi-curious ;)
 
I think it's a great compliment. It gives me a rush sometimes, like it's something forbidden... Sometimes I just want to kiss her, but then rememer she doesn't have the equipment I need.... :rolleyes:

Bel
 
A quick answer would be uncomfortable.

Provided it was no more than a comment,nothing further.
 
While I do find some women attractive I am mainly heterosexual. I think the circumstances and surroundings would affect my feelings. If we were in a dance club and it was a beautiful woman I would be aroused. If it was a butch girl on the subway I would be uncomfortable. Yeah, yeah. I'm shallow. Either way I would be flattered, but the way I would react would be different. It's the same with men, really.

Online I would flirt back, nothing really matters much to me here. It's about entertainment most of the time.
 
Unregistered said:
While I do find some women attractive I am mainly heterosexual. I think the circumstances and surroundings would affect my feelings. If we were in a dance club and it was a beautiful woman I would be aroused. If it was a butch girl on the subway I would be uncomfortable. Yeah, yeah. I'm shallow. Either way I would be flattered, but the way I would react would be different. It's the same with men, really.

Online I would flirt back, nothing really matters much to me here. It's about entertainment most of the time.

shite, that was me. :eek:
 
Alas, I fail to meet the criteria of hetero but I find sincere compliments about being sexy fun no matter which gender offers them. The ones from females definately cause a perk to happen within me.
 
T.H. Oughts said:
If you are hetro. When someone of the same sex makes sexual comments to you about how sexy you are or how they would like to kiss or what ever you... how to you feel about it???

Do you take it as a compliment or do you think. "You fucking queer" or along those lines...

Even though you might not wanna get sexual with someone of the same sex as you, how do you feel about their comments????

I take em where I can get em. Of course, never having gotten one at all from either gender, this is conjecture on my part.
 
depends how it's said. if they are doing it playing around I play back.

Kissed a guy at work the other day... he said I looked sexy in my tight pants :D
(ON THE CHEEK :p)

if they are sencere I take it as a complement but usualy don't replay
 
it would make more sense for me to answer this question another way


i find that i find it easier to accept compliments from men on here then from men i see face to face sometimes i must admit it makes me feel a little uncomfortable but on here i just accept it as a compliment i dont know why there is a difference but there is


would like to add though im not that great at accepting compliments anyway though no matter what they always make me feel slightly embarrassed :)
 
That is why it is so fun to compliment you S-G

sexy-girl said:
it would make more sense for me to answer this question another way


i find that i find it easier to accept compliments from men on here then from men i see face to face sometimes i must admit it makes me feel a little uncomfortable but on here i just accept it as a compliment i dont know why there is a difference but there is


would like to add though im not that great at accepting compliments anyway though no matter what they always make me feel slightly embarrassed :)


I can actually see you blushing a bit. *wink* Good to see you, I haven't posted with you in ages.........That's too long *smiles*

((HUGS))



kgboot
aka "Mr. Bootie"
 
hi kg yes i know i've only seen you in bits on here its nice to see you again :)

you have one of the funniest av's on lit at the moment :)
 
I don't have an "ewwwww get away!!" reaction, but it's not always a compliment, either.

It depends on the source. When I tease Siren or Eumenides on here, both know that I'm revoltingly and pathetically hetero but from them I find it flattering (although Sirenita doesn't luv me anymore *sniffles*). From someone who's unaware of my sexual orientation, I find it uncomfortable because then I dred being in the position of saying, "wow, you're a really nice girl but you don't have a dick, a Y chromosome and a case of raging stupidity."
 
T.H. Oughts said:
If you are hetro. When someone of the same sex makes sexual comments to you about how sexy you are or how they would like to kiss or what ever you... how to you feel about it???

Do you take it as a compliment or do you think. "You fucking queer" or along those lines...

Even though you might not wanna get sexual with someone of the same sex as you, how do you feel about their comments????


It does feel a bit weird,but I do take it as a comment. I react the same way as when a guy says it. I just blush and feel lost! :eek:

/LP
 
Re: Re: Sensual comments from the same sex.

*bratcat* said:


Do you find it uncomfortable when I flirt with you?? I know that I don't mind at all when you flirt with me.
No I don't mind at all. :)
 
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