Sensitive soul in a submissive world

[Heart_beat]

Hi, and please forgive me if I am posting this message in the wrong place... I have two questions... as a sub male I am looking for domme females and fellow sub-males who share passion for female body worship, humiliation, cuckolding, rejection, teasing - fairly mild stuff - I like the psychological aspect, not the pain thing .... I'm not really a wimp, and I like to switch... I don't get this "master/mistress" thing (no offence to anyone - and I could probably be persuaded!), and I jack off to what I assume is standard safe porn like most other guys. Where could you suggest I find likeminded people to email me - maybe here or somewhere else?

Then the second question, and this might sound really weird... I have been emailing with this great girl - it's just an online thing you know but that's all I am looking for anyway.... but I think she likes her men to be "traditional" strong tough dominant men, I wish even online I didn't fell the pressure to be "the one in control" as I do in my everyday life...and so I am drawn... do I tell her what really gets me off, being submissive in various forms and risk losing her companionship (which I value), or do I not, and not be true to the reason I am here in the first place..... maybe I just answered my own question.... too often we compromise our desires to live up to what we perceive to be another's expectations... I'll try to tell her the truth.

Thank you for indulging me. Please post or preferably, PM with your email if you would like to chat some more - I would like to hear what you had to say. Thanks again – “just another horny male”.

 

[Chicklet]

If you want a strong, real relationship/friendship with a person, then honesty is going to be important. No matter how good an actor you are, or how well you play the part, eventually your real personality and emotions come through.

If you want to enjoy it online for a sort of away-from-life extra-experience, then I'd say play the part for her. Enjoy it, do the acting, give her a thrill for as long as you can keep the persona on.

Most people that know me know that I can't for the life of me sustain so much as a friendship through the computer, so I don't personally feel a lot of necessity in nurturing companionships on the computer. I mention this only because I want you to really understand that if you did lie to this girl, I, and people like myself, wouldn't think you'd done anything wrong.

If *YOU* think it's wrong, then you definitely need to do something about it and be honest. Take care of number one, buddy, and if that happens to please someone else, then GREAT = )

 

[Chicklet]

And, as for your first question, I honestly don't know how well the men do on this site. I hope one of them responds for you. I *Can* say that I know a lot of people that participate on the BDSM discussion board on here get a good following of friends, and I'm sure one or two of them exchange dirty emails. I might suggest that you try to participate in some of the conversations there, ask questions, and build yourself a reputation.

Other than that, I also know that craigslist sometimes has posts up for erotic email exchanges, and that when my friends put those posts up, they get good responses.

So, good luck = )

And don't be afraid to try more than one method to get what you desire.

 

[Colton_White]

I think she likes her men to be "traditional" strong tough dominant men,

why don't you ask her out?

and then tell her what you really are into?

do I tell her what really gets me off, being submissive in various forms and risk losing her companionship (which I value),

if your friendship is so fragile that she'll dump you the moment she hears what you're into then....
keep playing with her tones faking to be a "traditional" strong tough dominant men cause online ladies are hard to find

and in the meantime, Why don't you enjoy the story I wrote?

[size=+1] A 'Fake' Dom remembers[/size]

 

[NotForSale]

Not just another horny male. Be as honest as you want to be, but remember to remain true to yourself

xx

 

[mickyp123]

Firstly it's just an "online" thing,...never underestimate how close you can get to someone in an online relationship, you can get very close.

Without any shadow of a doubt just be "you" online intuition becomes very sharp and you will only end up fooling and hurting yourself, in the mean time be honest and tell her.

I wish you luck

 

[Heart_beat]

and in the meantime, Why don't you enjoy the story I wrote?

[size=+1] A 'Fake' Dom remembers[/size]

Not sure which I found more entertaining the Auto Chatbot program or the replies to the Fake Dom!