selling a threesome

[Mike Mc]

Hi, I have long fantasized about having a threesome with my gf. Recently I got the balls to bring it up seriously, and she actually showed interest!! That is the good news, the bad news is that finding a third partner is usually very tricky.

Does anyone have any advice on how to go about finding that special someone to join us? I know I can probably find people on the internet, but sometimes that just leads to dead ends. I am wondering if anyone one out there has had experiences with threesomes, and if so, how did you find a healthy, drug/disease free person to join you.

Appreciate any feedback.

P.S.-- we are 22 yrs old, and live in Wisconsin, if anyone wants to pitch their case

 

[SweetErika]

Are you looking for a male or female? That makes a huge difference, especially since a lot of bi-curious women are not looking for their first experience to be part of a threesome.

 

[Mike Mc]

We would be open to either sex, although I have a feeling that she would prefer a female. I have also told her that I would be ok with her fooling around with another girl without me, just not another guy without me. I would preferrably like to be included, but I know that many bi-curious girls are not interested in hooking up with the guys too.

Thanks for your response,
Mike

 

[ReadyOne]

I've found that being on friendly terms with a ex can really help. You know what each other likes, your SO knows that you aren't likely to change allengence back to your ex, and if something bad happens, well they probably really weren't part of your day to day life.

 

[sdcharley2004]

re selling a threesome

I'm glad I stumbled on this thread. My fiance and I are looking for a woman to join us as well. We've had one before at a party and everything was great. No hard feelings, nothing. Just didn't happen again due to the lady moving out of town for work. She was a casual friend to both of us, and all of us just hit it off.

So we're looking for that illustrious 2nd woman as well. I agree about searching the net. But it might be better than going to a bar.

Has anyone tried those "party lines" I see advertised on TV?

Charley

 

[Xerxes82]

Hey, what do you know, another WI resident.

When my latest ex and I were an item we tried using some of those swinger sites on the 'net to find other couples and women. We never had any luck, most of the people we tried to chat with were just playing games. But you could give one of those a try...

 

[sugamomma]

Too bad you guys weren't a bit older, I have quite a thing for older woman.

 

[bigsky_87]

Threesome

Mike, my wife an I recently fulfilled our threesome fantasy, and it was pretty incredible. Here is some advice. First, you will NEVER meet a single woman in any online personal site. Almost every ad listed under "women seeking couples" is fake, they are usually posted by porn sites. Good looking women don't post personal ads. My wife (age 27) is genuinely bi-sexual, and incredibly outgoing and flirtatious. She picked up on the fact that one of her good friends was bi-curious and made the first move. Her openness made her friend comfortable with expressing her own sexual fantasies (which included being with a married couple). We are not swingers or anything, that was the only time we have ever done anything like that. There were no hurt feelings, and we had a great time. It will most likely have to be your girl who arranges a threesome with another girl.
You want to look online, you should consider other couples. They are more likely to be real people, and you would not have to worry as much about bad feelings aftewords. We had an amazing night when we shared her friend, the fantasy does not come close to the reality. It is really hard to find someone thought. Email if you want to know anythin else.