Seems to me...

[PacificBlue]

I worry too much after reading some of your posts about sex.

Do you require paperwork proof of STD testing? or is just having the talk before any contact enough? I think I've watched too much Dateline.

Do you think about your past lovers? Do you feel any guilt over it? What would happen if you ran into them?

 

[Mensa]

Do you think about your past lovers? Do you feel any guilt over it? What would happen if you ran into them?

Depends entirely on what I'm driving at the time.

 

[koalabear]

Do you require paperwork proof of STD testing?
not a bad idea, in this day and age.
or is just having the talk before any contact enough? If you can be sure they are honest.....but STD's can happen to anyone.

Do you think about your past lovers? yes

Do you feel any guilt over it? no

What would happen if you ran into them? I would talk to them.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Protect yourself first and foremost. Use a rubber.

If you find someone you eventually want to dispense of the rubber with, go get tests together.

 

[MissTaken]

Yes. That about sums it up, Juspar.

 

[alltherage]

I don't feel guilt over past lovers thank god. I have not used people knowingly and I have tried to be honest. As for STD's, in this freaky world its best to be protected. If I am with someone for a longer period I would get tested with them. That would seem to be the fairest way to go.

I do see ex-lovers from time to time. Some are friends, others like my ex-husband, are not. What I know is this. There were reasons why they became ex's and I don't attach blame for relationships that fail. I cared for them once, I won't ignore them now.

 

[PacificBlue]

I've always protected myself. I pretty much deny myself of most opportunities because I'm scared.

Good advice...thank you all.

 

[Chuckus]

Do you require paperwork proof of STD testing? or is just having the talk before any contact enough? Paperwork is good.

Do you think about your past lovers? Sure, that is what a memory is for........

Do you feel any guilt over it? Not a bit

What would happen if you ran into them? Talk to them just like normal, it may be a bit *awkward* or whatever but no biggie.

 

[pabloback]

always practise safe sex
never give them your phone number

 

[KinkyKandy]

Nope, i just make my boyfriend wear a condom, when i wanna get rid of the condom i will worry about it.