SweetDommes
Spoiling our pets
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- Nov 9, 2003
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Taking a break from looking again - We don't want to get anyone's hopes up at this point, as we are looking at 2 or 3 that are very good potentials, and we are hoping that one of them will work out.
as always, the list stays up in case we need it again, but we are hoping not to need it anymore .....
Read the ENTIRE list of criteria as if your life depends upon it, because we will not be amused by females, married males, people from other countries, or people significantly outside of our age range contacting us.
We have posted in many places, and are still searching for the final addition(s) to our household.
We have narrowed our search criteria for convenience purposes, so here is the new list:
We want to get to know anyone first, so don't message thinking that we will cyber during the first conversation - or ever, really ... we don't do online. We want to get to know you and your personality to see if you will fit into our family, and we can't do that if the conversations all revolve around sex and/or scening ... so don't even bother if that's all you can/will talk about.
Yes, we are picky, but we have been burned multiple times before, to the point of a few broken hearts ... and we aren't ready to go through that again.
I also want to be clear that while we are service oriented, we do not want slaves - as we define the term anyway ... we want pets. Boys to be cherished, loved and cared for as they serve us. We want boys that have personalities of their own, boys with minds of their own, boys who are comptatable with us in D/s and "vanilla" interests. We don't do contracts - we want boys who serve us out of love and the desire to see us happy ... not because some silly piece of paper says they have to. We do negotiate with our boys so that they know what they can expect, but no contracts. We are looking for a full time, long term relationship, that will eventually lead to Collaring/Marriage. We already have one boy that we are approaching that point with, and now we are looking for a second to make our family complete.
If you contact us, you need to include the following:
1- What drew you to our profile?
2- If you proclaim yourself to be a slave, explain why .. tell us how you define a slave and what you expect from slavery.
3- If you are compatable with us (and vice verce, of course), how soon are you available for relocation?
4- If you do not meet any of our requirements, explain why AND why you feel that we should consider you anyway.
If you message us and we do not reply, then we are not interested in you, move on.
Miss Karen
Miss Holly
as always, the list stays up in case we need it again, but we are hoping not to need it anymore .....
Read the ENTIRE list of criteria as if your life depends upon it, because we will not be amused by females, married males, people from other countries, or people significantly outside of our age range contacting us.
We have posted in many places, and are still searching for the final addition(s) to our household.
We have narrowed our search criteria for convenience purposes, so here is the new list:
- submissive nature (of course) - included in this is the ability to follow instructions!
- the ability to contact us with a message that shows that you read the profile and thought about it, and DOES NOT include a scene (this means that we do not want to know about any of your previous experiences or what you fantasize about most)
- compatability in D/s interests and nilla interests (you'll have to contact us to see if you qualify on this one)
- the ability to get along with others
- the ability to live with multiple species of animals (one of us is a wildlife major - if you have animal issues, don't bother - we currently live with cats, rats, mice, a frog, a fish, a hamster and a dog - and in reference to the dog, if you have pitbull issues, move on. she's a pitbull/sharpei mix, she's incredibly sweet, and we don't want anyone who will be afraid of her and won't tollerate anyone being mean to her or lecturing us on how she will turn on us. Oh yeah, and yes, the cats and the dog get spoiled and treated like little people)
- NO SMOKING
- between 24 and 34 years old
- males only - F/F couple or not, we are not interested in femsubs - this includes males who advertize themselves as female, boys who want/need forced fem, and boys who only want to be sissy-subs. It does nothing for us, so move on.
- homophobes beware - you will not be welcome here, ever
- we do prefer our boys to be bi, but it is not required, just make sure that you read the qualification above
- single
- relocatable (but of course, we aren't expecting this to happen overnight) - included in this is another point ... no one from outside the US, and we prefer them to come from the midwest, simply because of campatibility issues (same culture = greater likelyhood of being able to get along)
- for reasons of safety (for our boys), we must insist on caucations only - both of our fathers own guns, and are very very against anything resembling an inter-racial relationship
- we are not interested in switches who may forget who is in charge - we definately are not interested in anyone who has a femsub already. That will not work at all into what we are wanting this relationship to be.
- you must be honest with us at all times, even if it's something that you don't want to say and/or that you know we don't want to hear. If we EVER catch you in a lie, you will be given one and only one chance to explain yourself (misunderstandings do happen, especially online - so we don't just ignore you outright), but if you cannot explain yourself to OUR satisfaction, you are gone, no further questions, no further explinations, you will be off of our list for good.
- you must be willing and able to make a commitment, and to prove that by remaining in contact with us regularly - this does not mean every day right off the bat, but it does mean at least two times per week, we must get an e-mail or chat on messenger. As things progress, you will be expected to maintain a higher level of contact. We cannot get to know someone that we never talk to. If you fail to maintain contact on a regular basis, you will be removed from the list of potentials.
- be aware that this list is subject to change at any moment
We want to get to know anyone first, so don't message thinking that we will cyber during the first conversation - or ever, really ... we don't do online. We want to get to know you and your personality to see if you will fit into our family, and we can't do that if the conversations all revolve around sex and/or scening ... so don't even bother if that's all you can/will talk about.
Yes, we are picky, but we have been burned multiple times before, to the point of a few broken hearts ... and we aren't ready to go through that again.
I also want to be clear that while we are service oriented, we do not want slaves - as we define the term anyway ... we want pets. Boys to be cherished, loved and cared for as they serve us. We want boys that have personalities of their own, boys with minds of their own, boys who are comptatable with us in D/s and "vanilla" interests. We don't do contracts - we want boys who serve us out of love and the desire to see us happy ... not because some silly piece of paper says they have to. We do negotiate with our boys so that they know what they can expect, but no contracts. We are looking for a full time, long term relationship, that will eventually lead to Collaring/Marriage. We already have one boy that we are approaching that point with, and now we are looking for a second to make our family complete.
If you contact us, you need to include the following:
1- What drew you to our profile?
2- If you proclaim yourself to be a slave, explain why .. tell us how you define a slave and what you expect from slavery.
3- If you are compatable with us (and vice verce, of course), how soon are you available for relocation?
4- If you do not meet any of our requirements, explain why AND why you feel that we should consider you anyway.
If you message us and we do not reply, then we are not interested in you, move on.
Miss Karen
Miss Holly
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