mdavid_1964
Experienced
- Joined
- Aug 16, 2006
- Posts
- 76
I've been a member of Lit for many years but stepped away for a couple of months this Summer after not being able to find the right submissive woman. For those who didn't read my previous post I tried to find a sub who would be willing and able to meet in person if we had the right kind of connection. I realize that it's VERY hard to find that type of match here on Lit but I had to try. I know only too well how hard it became, both physically and emotionally, in the past when my sub and I could not be together in person to share EVERYTHING that we wanted and needed to give each other.
While being able to meet in person would be great I must be realistic and explore all other options. Therefore I encourage any women who want to explore or exercise their submissive side to contact me so we can see if we have what it takes for a good connection.
During my time away I did a lot of soul searching. I tried to forget about my dominant thoughts and desires and be satisfied with my vanilla life, but found it impossible. That dominant ache to be wanted and needed by my sub, and hunger to take and use my sub for my pleasure is just too strong. I'm tired of feeling alone, unwanted as a man, and incomplete without my submissive partner so I'm back to try again.
I'm looking for a submissive woman or babygirl who is very giving, mature, emotionally stable, has a healthy interest in sex, is willing and able to take enough time to communicate on a regular basis, and enjoys experimenting and finding out more about herself as a person and as a woman. I'm NOT looking for submissive women who want to be a slave, need constant attention, are into receiving lot's of pain, want to be a little, and women who constantly need new tasks to keep them busy. My sub will also understand the importance of being discreet.
As a Dom I will require some time and attention but also understand that we both have lives in the everyday world. Together we will find that balance of time and attention that works for both of us. I will never ask more of my sub than she is able to give me. I work from home so I'm mainly available during the day.
As a strong dominant man I have a lot to offer the right submissive woman. I understand from experience that a woman's passion and desire begins by stimulating their minds. When I have the right connection with a woman I'm able to stimulate their minds in a way that makes their bodies respond in ways that they never dreamed could be possible. I'm very experienced, creative, and spontaneous. It doesn't matter to me whether you have years of experience or are just taking that first step to explore your innermost desires and feelings. I'm a very patient and appreciative Dom who understands the dynamics of a Dom/Sub type of relationship. I know that this kind of relationship takes two like minded people, trust, and time to develop. It also requires a good match of the partners sexual needs. I'm willing to make that commitment of time and energy to see if we are right for each other.
You can see from my profile that I'm a somewhat older Dom but I can assure you that the passion and need boiling within me are as hot and intense as a man of any age. I've been a Dom to much younger women in the past and the big age difference has never been a problem as long as they are mature and able to communicate effectively.
I will also make it clear that I'm married. I have my reasons for being here and seeking someone who can satisfy my dominant needs. My wife knows that I have online relationships to satisfy my needs. Once we get to know each other I will answer any questions you might have in an honest and open way. I'm not looking for a 24 X 7 relationship or a change in my marital status.
If after reading all of this you are still truly interested in getting to know me and seeing what I can give you in return for your time and attention then please contact me. Tell me a little about yourself, what part of my post reached out to you, and what you are looking for and we will take things from there.
I'm very sincere about my desire to find someone whose needs mesh well with mine so I will look forward to hearing from you. Please feel free to read my profile, look at some of my previous posts, and ask any questions you may have and I will answer them openly and honestly.
I know this post was long so thank you for taking the time to read it.
While being able to meet in person would be great I must be realistic and explore all other options. Therefore I encourage any women who want to explore or exercise their submissive side to contact me so we can see if we have what it takes for a good connection.
During my time away I did a lot of soul searching. I tried to forget about my dominant thoughts and desires and be satisfied with my vanilla life, but found it impossible. That dominant ache to be wanted and needed by my sub, and hunger to take and use my sub for my pleasure is just too strong. I'm tired of feeling alone, unwanted as a man, and incomplete without my submissive partner so I'm back to try again.
I'm looking for a submissive woman or babygirl who is very giving, mature, emotionally stable, has a healthy interest in sex, is willing and able to take enough time to communicate on a regular basis, and enjoys experimenting and finding out more about herself as a person and as a woman. I'm NOT looking for submissive women who want to be a slave, need constant attention, are into receiving lot's of pain, want to be a little, and women who constantly need new tasks to keep them busy. My sub will also understand the importance of being discreet.
As a Dom I will require some time and attention but also understand that we both have lives in the everyday world. Together we will find that balance of time and attention that works for both of us. I will never ask more of my sub than she is able to give me. I work from home so I'm mainly available during the day.
As a strong dominant man I have a lot to offer the right submissive woman. I understand from experience that a woman's passion and desire begins by stimulating their minds. When I have the right connection with a woman I'm able to stimulate their minds in a way that makes their bodies respond in ways that they never dreamed could be possible. I'm very experienced, creative, and spontaneous. It doesn't matter to me whether you have years of experience or are just taking that first step to explore your innermost desires and feelings. I'm a very patient and appreciative Dom who understands the dynamics of a Dom/Sub type of relationship. I know that this kind of relationship takes two like minded people, trust, and time to develop. It also requires a good match of the partners sexual needs. I'm willing to make that commitment of time and energy to see if we are right for each other.
You can see from my profile that I'm a somewhat older Dom but I can assure you that the passion and need boiling within me are as hot and intense as a man of any age. I've been a Dom to much younger women in the past and the big age difference has never been a problem as long as they are mature and able to communicate effectively.
I will also make it clear that I'm married. I have my reasons for being here and seeking someone who can satisfy my dominant needs. My wife knows that I have online relationships to satisfy my needs. Once we get to know each other I will answer any questions you might have in an honest and open way. I'm not looking for a 24 X 7 relationship or a change in my marital status.
If after reading all of this you are still truly interested in getting to know me and seeing what I can give you in return for your time and attention then please contact me. Tell me a little about yourself, what part of my post reached out to you, and what you are looking for and we will take things from there.
I'm very sincere about my desire to find someone whose needs mesh well with mine so I will look forward to hearing from you. Please feel free to read my profile, look at some of my previous posts, and ask any questions you may have and I will answer them openly and honestly.
I know this post was long so thank you for taking the time to read it.
