Seeking Submissive Woman for Online Ownership

[GGNow]

Hello. There is a woman out there ready to be trained to be fully submissive. She must be ready to start slow, but be prepared for all aspects of her discrete life to be controlled, changed, owned. Big / Small, Single / Married, Young / Old, these things matter little, your submission matters entirely. If you are ready to follow every command and let go, your first assignment is ready for you. You will PM one word to me when you have completed your assignment. Nothing more, and since you may me looking to be discrete, there is no need to reply or post in public.

Take a piece of paper and a pen, write the date at the top and the start time. You will write in print "I am ready to surrender control, be fully controlled, and obey" 25 times. When complete write the end time at the top, bring the paper, a hair brush and hair tie into the bathroom with you. Place the paper where you can see it, undress completely in front of the mirror. Brush out your hair with 100 strokes and draw it into into a ponytail or bun. No hair may touch your solders or be stray. When done look over every inch of your naked body in the mirror in close detail. Look from the bottom of your feet, to the top of your head. When done looking at every inch of your body in detail. Get dressed (if this is day, redress for the day leaving your hear up, if this is night time dress for bed) PM me one word, "Done". I will respond back.

I have high expectations, I look forward to seeing you rise to them.

 

[MiaBabe23]

You’re wanting to change all aspects of someone’s life who you haven’t even met, with no idea what their needs, likes and preferences are?
You have ‘expectations’ yet seem to bring nothing?
You wanna give a mindless order, for the sake of giving an order?
Fake dominant.
So many red flags…

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Why assign tasks to some random sub or multiple subs? You haven’t even had a conversation yet you’re assigning tasks and expectations? Ownership in this context? Yikes on bikes.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

We really need that eye roll reaction

 

[MiaBabe23]

We really need that eye roll reaction

Something like this?



Or this?

 

[GGNow]

First, It is nice to meet those in the PMs interested in starting a private conversation.

To the public responders, Thank you too. I appreciate the time you put into your responses. In different circumstances I would completely agree. To move beyond an intro there is a lot of work that goes into into a power exchange relationship, but being blunt and specific is a screening technique. It immediately eliminates those that are pedestrian, those that lack seriousness, or are unwilling / unable for any number or reasons. Perhaps you would say that only leaves you with the unstable and people that should not be in this forum, but based on the conversations I am having in PM that is not my experince in this forum, while I am new here, I can see the point you are wanting to make.

In a club if there were a Dom soliciting this way I would be the first to break things, up, that is not the right time or technique. The reality is this is a o/o forum, not an r/l, or Swing club, or BDSM dungeon. The risk of peril and injury in a screening assignment is nill. Additionally there is not the potential of 1,000 of people that are not a fit being involved can be a huge wast of time that is rightly spend on more productive avanues.

For any Dom/Sub dynamic to be mutually beneficial requires a level of honesty, care, communication, and understanding. If this was r/l we would be talking safe and sane over a glass of wine. By setting a screening tone and setting out the first specific rule/task combo, I screened out 100 of the 110 readers, 3 with public comments, that I respect, 100 with no replies. Thus my attention is focused on continuing a foundational conversation in PM. I will point our where the three of you are correct again, that her goals and life limitations absolutly have to play into moving forward. I would just say that if those limitations prevent participation in the first assignment the o/o I can offer would be extermely limited and thus, again not a good use of time.

In an o/o arrangement you are not exchanging intimacy, control, and pain in the same way as a r/l relationship. Contracts and boundaries do need to be discussed, but the relationship is built on a much easier online consent model where you can walk away at any time because of the anonymity often provided makes that much easier. As you know often Subs have life changes or achievement of their growth goals and the relationship is dissolved. That process is very easy in o/o, but the needs and boundires are very different.

That being said, I also recognize that blackmail and extortion with the o/o community can be highly abusive and is unacceptable. That is why without relationship or trust being built, asking for that king of material conversion phases is completely unacceptable. I see huge red flags in anyone asking for that kind of person material or information to be exchanged. I think your experience with this may be part of why you feel the red flags are warranted. I have clarified with my PMs that this is not my intention to ask for or use those types of informaiton and this that would create those situations are not acceptiblely risky.

Finally to the three public posters. Thank you. I know your hearts are in the right place and your experiences are different. Sharing those conserns and experiences make us all better. I hope this helps with your initial reaction, but respect to you just the same if it does not.

Everyone out there, I hope you are finding all that is fulfilling in your lives!

 

[MissMandy86]

All i see is A little boy pretending to be a dominant