Seeking redemption

I have been a happily married man, into my 30s. I work in the financial industry am able provide a decent living for the family. My wife and I are currently living separately as her ambitions to pursue her own career has taken her to a different city. This is not the first time we have been apart, she was away for more than a year earlier for her post grad. We speak as often as the time zones and work conflicts allow which is about once a day for abt 10 -15 mins. Literotica has been my friend before marriage and ever more so now. however, I'm still a red blooded male and my needs are not necessarily met through masturbation always. A couple colleagues of mine has been warming up to me recently but I did not want to be unfair to my wife, I do still love her. Recently, I started going to massage parlors where i've had my needs met through happy endings which are sometimes offered by the masseuse. I went every few weeks, and each time felt like shit afterwards, and promised myself not to go again. However I did go again and the last time had a body to body massage done to me which I guess is as close u can get to sex without penetration. I didn't plan on this and i'm guessing the masseuse didn't fall in love with me suddenly, she probably did it as i'm a generous paying customer. While its easy to laugh off a quick handjob from a masseuse amongst men, I do feel really bad doing this behind my wife's back. I have promised myself again I wont go back but I have broken that promise before. While I wait for my wife to make her decision to move back with me (eventually I do hope she will although it doesn't seem like anytime soon), what are my choices? Distraction? works for a few days only. Cybersex with wife? Timezones don't work and I don't think its practical to ask her to take time off work to do this. And truthfully its a poor substitute when you've had the real thing from the lady, we tried it once and none of us got into it.

So back to literotica it is, please do voice any unbiased opinions no matter how harsh they are..always good to reflect. thx

Always quote.
 
I think he is genuine. He doesn't come across as the typical Lit misogynystic a-hle who's trying to bait & make fun of women.

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And I think you should delete your quote, Ann. Keep that sort of thing for the real a-hles
 
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I think he is genuine. He doesn't come across as the typical Lit misogynystic a-hle who's trying to bait & make fun of women.

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And I think you should delete your quote, Ann. Keep that sort of thing for the real a-hles

Oh echy thump, now you got me trying to find out what misogynystic means or should it be misogynistic, will I ever know it annoys me so Im just a simple dirty old man ;)
 
Oh echy thump, now you got me trying to find out what misogynystic means or should it be misogynistic, will I ever know it annoys me so Im just a simple dirty old man ;)

I was venting, in a roundabout way, about a couple of my personal experiences in the GB forum
sorry, I shouldn't have used generalizations
(ps - english is my 2nd language re grammar error)
 
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I think he is genuine. He doesn't come across as the typical Lit misogynystic a-hle who's trying to bait & make fun of women.

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And I think you should delete your quote, Ann. Keep that sort of thing for the real a-hles

thanks v m, although I do not know what misogyny has anything even remotely to do with my post..
 
hi - tried to delete but I haven't used this forum for posting in a while, how do u mean "use quotes"?

I think Ann means always quote the OP is case of an amusing backfire.

What I would say to you is post potentially embarrassing comments like this so that they must c&p you instead of quoting you because it won't show up. Then you might have a shot at a second thought.
 
I think he is genuine. He doesn't come across as the typical Lit misogynystic a-hle who's trying to bait & make fun of women.

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And I think you should delete your quote, Ann. Keep that sort of thing for the real a-hles

really? you thought that would work?
 
Hey. Don"t make this about me. There are no undo's in RL.

no worries Ann, you've actually done me a favor.. I immediately regretted posting this as I thought it may offend certain married women, but as a couple of members pm'ed me and confirmed, this board is used to much worse. cheers
 
no worries Ann, you've actually done me a favor.. I immediately regretted posting this as I thought it may offend certain married women, but as a couple of members pm'ed me and confirmed, this board is used to much worse. cheers

Your masseuses are married women from Lit? Or, do you think women here are oblivious to the fact that a married man would exhibit such behavior?
 
no worries Ann, you've actually done me a favor.. I immediately regretted posting this as I thought it may offend certain married women, but as a couple of members pm'ed me and confirmed, this board is used to much worse. cheers

You want redemption? Say 10 Hail Marys and cut your dick off.
 
You want redemption? Say 10 Hail Marys and cut your dick off.

the confession was the redemption but u r entitled to your opinion. If u have a partner, I hope for your sake he/she shares ur extremist views surrounding redemption
 
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