Seeking my submissive One for LTR

Gamelover221

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The Thanksgiving celebration has ended. The temperature has been dropping and now it's pouring rain outside. I'm not in my comfortable apartment back in Texas, but rather sitting alone in a strange house my parents are renting while they build their retirement home in Mississippi. This is the first time I've been alone since I arrived here and all I can think about is the empty chair next to me.

All the e-mails, instant messages, and forum posts in the world won't fill that chair. Dealing with people online is like a drug. It might be a quick fix, but at the end of the day, I'm still left sleeping with a pillow and not a person.

Good idea: Pillow talk
Bad idea: Talking to a pillow

I need someone real.

I'm making this thread to reach out to the girl that suffers a little bit each day when she hasn't contributed to someone else's life. The woman that needs to feel love as much as she needs to be needed. The lock that takes not only a key, but a strong hand to turn it. The angel that has fallen to earth to be the other half a man.

My name is Michael and I'm 27 years old. I'm looking for my partner in life and am very serious about commitment with the right person. I've been flirting around with the various aspects of BDSM for about 5 years now. I'm pretty confident in what my needs and desires are. I have a profile on collarme.com, but haven't found the right person from that avenue, so I'm coming home to my friends at Lit. I haven't been an active poster in quite a while, but I've been treated well in the past, so I'll be glad to meet some new faces.

My Domming style seems to fit the "daddy" type in that I am very sweet, loving, and respectful of you unless we are specifically doing a scene otherwise. Unless you consider yourself a slave, there's no D without the s and no one should ever take away your freedoms without earning the gift of your service.

As for what I'm looking for, I don't appreciate brats at all. I expect you to be on your best behavior at all times. There's no point in training you if you purposefully ignore the effort I spend on you. If you get too good and want me to punish you, just ask, I'll be happy to ;)

Communication is very important to me. I'll want to know all of your likes and dislikes. Knowledge is power and I need to know if that spanking is letting the lesson sink in, or just turning you on :D

One of the things I really look for is a good writer. I think it's great for you to have a diary to write thoughts, feelings, and ideas that you want me to know, but aren't comfortable speaking to my face. Not that I'm expecting you to be uncomfortable speaking to me, but I like to be in control of any humiliation you experience and I can always have you read from your diary at a later date if I want to do that. :devil:

I hope I've managed to get your attention with this ad. Again, I'm only looking for someone serious and that would likely mean relocation for one of us at some point, so please consider that. I'm pretty flexible as far as age and race go, but I do tend to prefer more petite girls.

I'm 5'11 and am attaching some pics I just took below. Feel free to ask me any questions in PM or on this thread and I'll get back to you ASAP.
 
FurryFury said:
I like your ad.

Good luck in your search.

:rose:

I second that. I especially like the genuine ones. :) Also have to admit, it is very nice to read about someone who is seriously looking for LTR.

I certainly don't qualify as petite but hope that you can find whom you are looking for.

I am definitely cheering for you. :)
 
It's always nice to see genuine ads. Unfortunately, I am neither petite or in the US, but I wish you well :rose:
 
Good morning everyone! Thank you very much for your kind encouragement. I haven't heard from anyone just yet, but from the sound of it, I'm on the right track ;)

I plan on getting a hair-cut very soon. I'll post some new pictures when I do and you can let me know which look you prefer.

I had a discussion with a friend of mine once that said many single men tend to prefer the shorter spiky hair look as a means of drawing attention to themselves. Sort of like a peacock displaying it's feathers. I think there might be some truth to that, but in the end only the ladies know what the ladies like :rose:
 
Post haircut pictures as promised! The first two are just as I got home, the second two are after a shower and a shave. Enjoy :kiss:
 
sereneone4u said:
Great haircut, good personal. Best Wishes! :)

Thank you very much :) I'm really not sure what to add at this point. I haven't heard from anyone. Are there any requests from the curious that I could respond to?
 
Bumping for that special someone.

For content, my special recipe is Coke Chicken. Get a Pyrex dish and put in as many chicken breasts as desired. Salt and pepper as desired and pour in Teriyaki sauce until about half the chicken is covered. Leave for 15 minutes. Then pour coke over the chicken until it's submerged and leave for 30 minutes. Then Have the oven on 350 and bake for 45-60 minutes depending on your oven. Eat and enjoy :nana:
 
Good luck in your search. ^_^ The new haircut looks great. I wish you the best. :cathappy:
 
Friendly bump for the weekend folks. It's now Sunday evening and I hope you all had a fantastic weekend :) Christmas is coming...are you ready?
 
I must admit, I'm curious: are you looking for a 24/7 sub, or just in the bedroom? I've found, for myself specifically, that I can be a fantastic sub in a sexual standpoint, and I'm a loving and affectionate girlfriend, but I don't know if, outside of the bedroom, I could necessarily be categorized as a sub. What are you thoughts on this?
 
While I do think I could be 24/7 with the right person, my past experience and general tendencies are for typical relationship activities. The old saying, "a lady in the streets and a freak under the sheets" seems to apply pretty well. I am a very kind, loving, laid-back guy, and I'm looking for a partner that will let me balance those aspects of myself by sharing in my desire for rules, responsibility and order by submitting in a sexual standpoint.

I'm really excited to find someone that wants to share in household responsibilities without argument. Some nights I really want to cook, if I cook, you should clean, if you cook, I'll clean. No argument, just an understanding. I'll wash and dry clothes, you fold. I take out all the trash, you vacuum. If you want to do more than your share to please me, fantastic. That's where going above and beyond earns you points. I expect to carry my weight, but you'll see that silly grin of mine if you ask to make me popcorn before a movie. If you get me a glass of milk when you see me snacking on cookies or something chocolate.

When I'm in a relationship, I give my all. I'm just looking for someone that wants to give back so that we balance each other out.
 
Sounds like you might have a winner there, GL. Good luck!!
 
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Thanks Gigi. I'll keep my fingers crossed that she gets on yahoo messenger tonight so I can chat her up a bit!
 
It's been a few days and still no reply. I've sent a PM and a yahoo request with no response and I've seen she has logged in several times, so I guess I scared her off :(

Still seeking...
 
bump for you!! ;):rose: I hope you find exactly what you're looking for. That is a wonderfully written ad!
 
I need to vent

I apologize to my friends that I've made and have been negligent to lately. Those that know me personally, know my life has been complicated for a while, and I've been strangely quiet for a month or two. Considering I'm posting this in a "seeking" ad, I'm sure you can all guess the reason. It seems age brings wisdom to all areas except the heart.

4 days away from my birthday, I find out why the slave that's been serving me had suddenly vanished for almost 2 weeks. I place multiple calls, worried about her condition, and get no response. Eventually, I turn back to the place we met...a phone chat line...and find I have a message from her. Apparently, She has cared about me a lot, but knows it will never work out since I'm allergic to her cat. She loves us both, but feels I could make it without her, but her cat couldn't.

I don't know if this is the lamest cop-out I've ever heard, or if someone would truly choose a pet that will die in a few years over a partner that would be there for the long-haul. I feel that if she was serious about the cat, she could have told me to my face...I'd never complained and always taken allergy pills to accommodate.

I'm really at wit's end. Am I doing something wrong, or finding the wrong partners? I always make it my mission to better those that serve me, but when someone leaves me without informing/complaining about something wrong with me...I really don't know what to do.

Why can't there even be a discussion? Why are people so damn eager to leave at the first sign of difficulty? Is there no one that that can serve a non-abusive, open-minded, caring, loyal, Dom without having a hidden checklist that pops-up a month or two after service begins?

Ok...rant over...I guess I'm in the market again.
 
I'm really at wit's end. Am I doing something wrong, or finding the wrong partners? I always make it my mission to better those that serve me, but when someone leaves me without informing/complaining about something wrong with me...I really don't know what to do.

Why can't there even be a discussion? Why are people so damn eager to leave at the first sign of difficulty? Is there no one that that can serve a non-abusive, open-minded, caring, loyal, Dom without having a hidden checklist that pops-up a month or two after service begins?

I can't comment on the second part of that (it would be extremely hypocritical of me!)- mainly because a while back I got scared and ran out on something that I should have worked through. But as you said, with age comes wisdom. *smiles*

However, I don't believe you are doing anything wrong, you cannot blame yourself for the actions of other people.

I do hope you find what you are looking for soon.
 
searching

Gamelover you words are as deep as your eyes, and the haircut mattered very little!

You have sent out a very strong and clear message and you should be confident you will draw a match that fits to a T!
Waiting is the most difficult thing to do when you have a very strong need. Live One day at a time, regroup with your friends and the things you most enjoy.
Serendipity is around every corner. Be very happy you know what you want- most of the people around you, don't have a clue.

missdesiree :)
 
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