Seeking Love

[DaddyJames]

Today has been a tough day for me so I’m very emotional as I compose this. So I may regret this tomorrow. But I am feeling desperately unloved. Now, you may wonder why I would seek love on a sex forum. That is because physical touch is the way I most feel love. And I am desperate for it.

If you haven’t already stopped reading because you think I’m crazy or overly needy, then let me tell you about myself. I’m in a mostly sexless marriage of nearly 20 years. I haven’t left for reasons that I don’t want to go into here. But the feelings of loneliness and of being unloved have greatly increased of late. But I digress. I’m 45, a professional, with interests in reading, music, and sports. I love trivia. I have a beard and a bit of a dad bod.

I’m looking for a woman. Age doesn’t matter. Marital status doesn’t matter. I want someone willing to message me at least once a day (preferably more). And I want someone who wants to get to know me as much as I want to get to know her. And ultimately I hope to fall in love. If that sounds like something you want, message me. If you think I’m a nutcase, keep it to yourself. Blessings to you all!

 

[theeonanist]

I know how you feel to an extent. My wife and I haven’t had any form of intimacy for about 10 years. Our situations differ because I’ve no intention of leaving her and I certainly don’t feel unloved. She’s just not interested in sex.

There are plenty of threads discussing the dead bedroom. You’ll be surprised how many women have the same problem. Take a look around the lit boards, read some of the sexless marriage threads and see if you can’t find some ideas or even candidates.

I’d be wary of looking for love in the first instance. That connection needs to be there either you’re online or in the real world.


Best of luck fella

 

[DaddyJames]

Thank you! I don’t know if I’ll find what I’m looking for here or not. But I thought I’d try.

 

[DaddyJames]

Today has been a tough day for me so I’m very emotional as I compose this. So I may regret this tomorrow. But I am feeling desperately unloved. Now, you may wonder why I would seek love on a sex forum. That is because physical touch is the way I most feel love. And I am desperate for it.

If you haven’t already stopped reading because you think I’m crazy or overly needy, then let me tell you about myself. I’m in a mostly sexless marriage of nearly 20 years. I haven’t left for reasons that I don’t want to go into here. But the feelings of loneliness and of being unloved have greatly increased of late. But I digress. I’m 45, a professional, with interests in reading, music, and sports. I love trivia. I have a beard and a bit of a dad bod.

I’m looking for a woman. Age doesn’t matter. Marital status doesn’t matter. I want someone willing to message me at least once a day (preferably more). And I want someone who wants to get to know me as much as I want to get to know her. And ultimately I hope to fall in love. If that sounds like something you want, message me. If you think I’m a nutcase, keep it to yourself. Blessings to you all!

I'm still looking for this. I thought I'd found it, but I got ghosted. And I'm feeling deeply hurt by it. But I still need this love. I'm probably barking up the wrong tree by looking here, but I'm not really sure where to turn. Ladies, message me if you'd like to know more. Please.