This post is perhaps a bit longer than most, so let me toss out two items that could be immediate deal-breakers: I’m of retirement age and I’m married. If neither fact in itself would dissuade you from considering me as an online partner, then I suppose you can read on.
I’m one of those in the not uncommon situation of being married to a thoroughly vanilla spouse while possessing a libido that is laced with a bit of kink. For me, D/s is an element that simply adds to the cathartic, electric experience of sex, and I like to experience that added jolt now and then. My kinks include many of the usual suspects: Obedience training, discipline, orgasm control, objectification, verbal degradation and name-calling—all in the context of role play and not ends in themselves, just means for experiencing more mind-blowing erotic release than usual. I’m not a lifestyle person; D/s is a fantasy into which I enjoy stepping now and then, and I definitely am seeking a partner who enjoys getting to know one another as a person, albeit anonymously, with D/s as a special form of intimate, recreational sharing that has its own emotional value distinct from any form of clinging romantic love.
I enjoy exchanging fantasy scenes and engaging in direct command/obey/report play, as well as chatting as equals. I’d be okay with text only, though I will admit that I love to share voice via skype audio and/or recordings, and I’m not opposed to exchanging faceless photos or videos, or using the latter as proof of complying with orders. I can email most times of day, but my opportunities for live chat are limited to weekdays on an irregular basis, and for reference, I’m in the U.S. Pacific time zone.
I value intelligence, education, literacy, creativity, and imagination, as well as an appreciation for elegant but perverse porn and erotica. Age and race don’t particularly matter; I’ve had lengthy online relationships with college students, young professionals and mature married women, all of varying ethnicities. If, like me, you are married to a vanilla person, that fact might serve as an extra bond of understanding between us, but marital status doesn’t matter to me, either.
If you are seeking a long-term online only D/s relationship that includes long-distance friendship and you see bdsm as recreational fantasy rather than a way of life, and if you think we might be a worthwhile match, then by all means write me, of course.
I’m one of those in the not uncommon situation of being married to a thoroughly vanilla spouse while possessing a libido that is laced with a bit of kink. For me, D/s is an element that simply adds to the cathartic, electric experience of sex, and I like to experience that added jolt now and then. My kinks include many of the usual suspects: Obedience training, discipline, orgasm control, objectification, verbal degradation and name-calling—all in the context of role play and not ends in themselves, just means for experiencing more mind-blowing erotic release than usual. I’m not a lifestyle person; D/s is a fantasy into which I enjoy stepping now and then, and I definitely am seeking a partner who enjoys getting to know one another as a person, albeit anonymously, with D/s as a special form of intimate, recreational sharing that has its own emotional value distinct from any form of clinging romantic love.
I enjoy exchanging fantasy scenes and engaging in direct command/obey/report play, as well as chatting as equals. I’d be okay with text only, though I will admit that I love to share voice via skype audio and/or recordings, and I’m not opposed to exchanging faceless photos or videos, or using the latter as proof of complying with orders. I can email most times of day, but my opportunities for live chat are limited to weekdays on an irregular basis, and for reference, I’m in the U.S. Pacific time zone.
I value intelligence, education, literacy, creativity, and imagination, as well as an appreciation for elegant but perverse porn and erotica. Age and race don’t particularly matter; I’ve had lengthy online relationships with college students, young professionals and mature married women, all of varying ethnicities. If, like me, you are married to a vanilla person, that fact might serve as an extra bond of understanding between us, but marital status doesn’t matter to me, either.
If you are seeking a long-term online only D/s relationship that includes long-distance friendship and you see bdsm as recreational fantasy rather than a way of life, and if you think we might be a worthwhile match, then by all means write me, of course.
