mf1438
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- Sep 2, 2016
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One day I woke up and found myself in a sexless marriage. The last time we had intercourse was October 2017. After that, she said, “I’m just not interested anymore.” We are still affectionate and loving, but I accepted that physical sex would never happen again.
At first, I said no sex outside marriage. I had found and lost my great love—no one could follow that. I had a social life: writing erotic fiction, making walking and dinner dates with friends, both male and female. I was still interested in sex, but more as a writer and sex educator than in my personal life.
I do engage in solo sex, occasionally. I decided that as long as I consider it to be a visit with my wife and visualize her with me, it is a good thing.
Then I met you...

At first, I said no sex outside marriage. I had found and lost my great love—no one could follow that. I had a social life: writing erotic fiction, making walking and dinner dates with friends, both male and female. I was still interested in sex, but more as a writer and sex educator than in my personal life.
I do engage in solo sex, occasionally. I decided that as long as I consider it to be a visit with my wife and visualize her with me, it is a good thing.
Then I met you...
