seeking female domination advice

[Guest]

does any one have any stories that they could share regarding female domination. my wife recently started dominating me and we are interested in what some other couples have done. what works, what doesn't, etc.

We are particularly interested in forced oral servicing, humilation in front of other women/men, forced bi-sex, chastity, eating own cum, strap-on play and any other ideas that you might have

 

[lilfrk]

search is a lovely thing...try it you'll like it I promise.

 

[Guest]

HELP!!

My husband recently posted on this site looking - at my request- looking for advice on how I could/should dominate him. One of the Lit members was kind enough to suggest that we search the site for ideas. I have done this and over the last day or so have come to better understand what I think he is looking for and more importantly what I am looking for.

The first thing I have done is to forbid him to use the computer. I do not want him looking at this site - for the following reason. I am hoping that I can get Lit members to help me in the domination of my husband.

All I have demanded so far is that he shave off all of his body hair and write a set of rules that he has to live by. This is what he has come up with so far:

- he has to be clean shaven
- he has to be naked when we are alone
- he cannont speak unless asked
- he has to service me whenever I demand
- he has to do anything else I ask, except things that involve pain or other people.

I am thinking about his rules as a starting point but want to add to them to include other things, like he may have to wear panties to work, he will have to jerk his cock for my amusement for hours at a time without coming, etc.

I sent him to a sex shop to purchase the following items - several dildos, a cock cage, gates of hell, a butt plug, handcuffs, a ball gag and a strap-on. (I don't think I could use this last item but I know it is a big turn on for him.)

But I am hoping that other women from Lit my have some ideas that I should enforce. If so I will start to do them and report back to you how they go.

 

[Titania1616]

lilfrk, i love your AV!

 

[lilfrk]

Titania1626
thank you...I got a thing for celtic knots and crosses. I have no real idea why I just do.


To unreg...to make your life here a lot easier register and get a name. It makes all of us oldtimers around here a lot less uneasy.

Go slowly and do another search for threads with links. There is a ton of info. Read, learn, and most of all Enjoy.

oh yeah...read the stickies at the top. They are helpful too.

 

[Kirabeth]

and ask questions on top of questions even if you think they are insinificat (spelling error) because the wonderful people here have lots of wonderful advice and insites, and you can weed through what you want to keep and use and just ignore the rest of it. so that you can work out things you can live with.

and not that you have to listen to it but its just my opinion that you both can learn from this site.

My husband who is also my Master, and I both use this site. Ususlly i am the one who post the questions and respond back to ones we feel we may be able to help in some way with, but he reads them either before or after I post, and that way we are learning here together.

I thought if you di dnot mind I owuld post of few of th erules we use in our home here for you and maybe it will help in some in some way.

I did not sit and make my rules for me to live by on my own he and I sit down and made our rules together being that what good is it fo rme to have rules i made up if they are all just for me, they had to suit both him and my needs.

1. I always walk on his left side when we are out in public or even if we are just walking around our yard or well just anywhere.
2. I always ask permission his to leave a room he is in and tell him why I wish to do so.
3. I always ask permission to go to the bathroom
4.house hold chores are my responisibliy our bedroom must be clean each morning and the bed made, the rest of the house is also my respoibity bus as we do have children they also have chors and hlep with the rest of the house depending on how I set the chor list for them each week, if they do there chors they get an alloance (they in no part or in anyway are made aware of our lifestyle)
5.I call him Sir at all times (because that is just what he prefers and its not out of the ordinary if others happen to hear me call him that it doesn't make them stand up and take notice and our parents and out children just look at it good manners and it has actually been the starting point of teaching our children manners)
I hope that made since
6.as he likes to cook and is better at then I am, I cook and have supper ready for him when he gets home only on the days he tells me to do so.
7.I wear some mark of his owwnership at all times 24/7 weather is a collar a slave braclet or a silver chain with his intial on it
8.one rule we added to recently was that I have to get some type of form of excercise evryday because we have becomemore heath concise lately.



These are by no means the only rules we use in our home, they are but a sample. and by no means are they a set stanard becaause I ma sure others use a differnt set of rules.

this lifestyle is so diverse and so many wonderful people who life it have their own interpataion of what it means to them.
I just feel that if you do what is right for you and your husband you can't go wrong as long as its what you both want (SSC)

Good Luck to both you and your husband.
kira

 

[Sandia]

While

insinificat
is not a word
it'd be wonderful
if it was.

--Sandia.

 

[the_bragis]

DOMestic

You could try DOMestic@MsChristine.com. It's full of interesting information, questions and answers submitted by others interested in female domination.

I'm sure you would find it helpful.

Have a good day,

Alex(fem)

 

[Sandia]

Alex

I like the signature line:

Where they love they do not desire, and where they desire they do not love.

Have you heard this one:

"Do you think sex is dirty?"

"Only when it's good." (Woody Allen)

--Sandia.

 

[Guest]

Thanks, and no I haven't see that one, but I do like it!

How about these ones? (I know this getting sidetracked.)

"When ever I'm caught between two evils, I always take the one I haven't tried" ~ Mae West

And isn't this one so true: "Never force sex to do the work of love, or love to do the work of sex." ('can't remember who said this, but I'm sure it was a woman!)

Have a good day,

Alex(fem)

 

[Couture]

From the things you've listed, I would suggest you look at Fictionmania for stories.

You may also like to read some of the early Nessus stories dealing with chastity devices.