Ok, this might be kind of an unconventional post, but if the headline caught your eye, please read on. Here's my situation.
I've had a long time goal of getting into really good shape, and I finally joined a gym and have started going pretty regularly. Please note, I'm not a heavy guy looking to lose weight. I'm 5'11 and 179 lbs currently. I'm a regular looking guy looking to get really defined and lean (think P90X before and after photos).
But I fully admit that I sometimes suffer from motivational lapses. I'm simply too easily distracted. Also, I will also admit that I have a few exhibitionist feelings lurking deep down.
Then the thought occurred to me...could I somehow combine these two issues into a solution?
Here's what I'm hoping to find. I'd like to connect with a woman who is willing to serve as a kind of "erotic motivation." Ideally, I would send her at least weekly "update" photos to gauge my progress. She'd be encouraging, and also get on my case if I fail to update her regularly
. I'd like to get to know here a bit and chat or trade messages as well.
I think with this kind of support and encouragement, it will be a heck of a lot easier to reach my goals.
You might be asking why I don't simply start a thread in the pictures section. A couple of reasons:
1) I'd like to do this more intimately for somebody one-on-one whom I get to know a little on a personal level
2) the kind of attention mongering that goes on in that section just isn't for me -- I prefer to monger for attention in private
3) I'd like at least some modicum of control over how I end up sharing these pictures.
As for other details about me, I'm blond, somewhat skinny, fair, decent looking, active, and overly verbose at times.
If you're interested, please drop me a line. And hopefully this goes without saying, but women only please.
I've had a long time goal of getting into really good shape, and I finally joined a gym and have started going pretty regularly. Please note, I'm not a heavy guy looking to lose weight. I'm 5'11 and 179 lbs currently. I'm a regular looking guy looking to get really defined and lean (think P90X before and after photos).
But I fully admit that I sometimes suffer from motivational lapses. I'm simply too easily distracted. Also, I will also admit that I have a few exhibitionist feelings lurking deep down.
Then the thought occurred to me...could I somehow combine these two issues into a solution?
Here's what I'm hoping to find. I'd like to connect with a woman who is willing to serve as a kind of "erotic motivation." Ideally, I would send her at least weekly "update" photos to gauge my progress. She'd be encouraging, and also get on my case if I fail to update her regularly
. I'd like to get to know here a bit and chat or trade messages as well. I think with this kind of support and encouragement, it will be a heck of a lot easier to reach my goals.
You might be asking why I don't simply start a thread in the pictures section. A couple of reasons:
1) I'd like to do this more intimately for somebody one-on-one whom I get to know a little on a personal level
2) the kind of attention mongering that goes on in that section just isn't for me -- I prefer to monger for attention in private
3) I'd like at least some modicum of control over how I end up sharing these pictures.
As for other details about me, I'm blond, somewhat skinny, fair, decent looking, active, and overly verbose at times.
If you're interested, please drop me a line. And hopefully this goes without saying, but women only please.
