I am a 41 y.o single male. I tend to think true compatibility is a rare thing, so while I am not ultimately against the idea of something in R/L, for the moment I'm just looking for a good conversation partner. Ideally I'd like to find someone who is willing to talk about more than just bdsm (although I don't mind that, obviously, or I wouldn't be posting here 
- more below).
A few of my mundane interests include:
I place a high value on intelligence. Bonus points if you are a nerdette of some type or another. Doesn't matter too much about what: Know everything there is to know about the early history of cinema? Cool! Play with discrete cosine transforms for fun? Well... that's a little weird, but hey, I can go with it. It does help if it's something I also know something about, so we can kinda get into it in more than a one sided way. But please have some interest that isn't just talking on the cell phone or the latest reality TV show or celebrity gossip. If you dig wikipedia, we might hit it off somehow or another.
If your thoughts are all expressed in 3 words or less, we're not going to be compatible. If you're looking for a cybersex partner, please look elsewhere. I'm very willing to talk about bdsm, but I'm not after "nasty chat". I'm not going to call you b*ch. I'm not after anything in R/L - although I'm also not completely opposed, if I really found the right one. It's a smallish chance though. If you're a "shiny-happy" sort, we might not hit it off very well.
Drop me a line. I don't bite.
- more below).A few of my mundane interests include:
- Music, from classical to rock to metal to hip hop
- Movies - I'm particularly fond of older or unusual ones
- Books
- Cars, everything from serious high performance sports cars to all electric environmentally friendly vehicles.
- Bicycles and hiking with a bias towards exploring cool new places
- Computers
- Politics (although maybe a good one to stay away from initially )
- Covert public play - the sort that does not involve anyone else, but which has a "forbidden" aspect to it. Embarrassment is a bonus. (Yours. Not mine. ) I have a devious imagination. If you like this sort of thing, do let me know.
- Orgasm control
- Discussing more psychological aspects of bdsm - what's behind the surface.
I place a high value on intelligence. Bonus points if you are a nerdette of some type or another. Doesn't matter too much about what: Know everything there is to know about the early history of cinema? Cool! Play with discrete cosine transforms for fun? Well... that's a little weird, but hey, I can go with it. It does help if it's something I also know something about, so we can kinda get into it in more than a one sided way. But please have some interest that isn't just talking on the cell phone or the latest reality TV show or celebrity gossip. If you dig wikipedia, we might hit it off somehow or another.
If your thoughts are all expressed in 3 words or less, we're not going to be compatible. If you're looking for a cybersex partner, please look elsewhere. I'm very willing to talk about bdsm, but I'm not after "nasty chat". I'm not going to call you b*ch. I'm not after anything in R/L - although I'm also not completely opposed, if I really found the right one. It's a smallish chance though. If you're a "shiny-happy" sort, we might not hit it off very well.
Drop me a line. I don't bite.
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