I'm reluctant to call myself a dom; though I do have a dominant streak that I love to let out at times. That's only part of what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a long-term online relationship, based around being open and honest with one another inside this dynamic that we create. I feel like I'm at my best when I've got a certain dirty little secret occupying my mind. Sharing our sexuality is part of it, but I also value and enjoy knowing more about you and your life than just your sexuality. I prefer a cross-media correspondence; email for sharing complex and in-depth thoughts and ideas, messaging for some casual chat, some photo-exchanges when we're ready for that, phone or voice sex when our schedules allow. I also have a keen interest in sharing audio-recordings... recording something for you that you can keep and listen to whenever the mood suits you; and you doing the same for me. I would say that voice is more of a turn-on and more important to me than visuals.
I'm not interested in making you conform to my expectations. I want to explore both our minds and find that equilibrium that excites both of us. I have no limits in what I'm willing to discuss, I'm genuinely interested in everything you've got going on in your mind (which doesn't mean I'm comfortable with everything, but I'll be honest and say if something makes me uncomfortable). My kinks are always changing, but right now involve inappropriate relationships, incestuous themes (mostly as a daddy, but not always), impregnation. I like writing and chatting about sexual ideas, as well as roleplaying them. I tend to get most excited by the combination of dirty and intimate. I'm interested in exploring real (or at least realistic) emotions. Usually. Sometimes its fun to just jump into a completely ridiculous scenario and see where it goes. Sometimes my fantasies are rough and aggressive; sometimes slow, dominant and controlling; sometimes tender and gentle and intimate. Like I said, I have a dominant streak, but I also need a relationship in which it's okay to tuck that away and just think about laying my head in your lap and looking up into your eyes, while sucking gently on your breasts.
These are the dull particulars: married, late 30s, average build, prairie-canadian. I use proper grammar and spelling, except perhaps in moments of near ecstasy when Strunk & White can go fuck themselves. I'm not going to put any hard requirements on the woman I'm looking for, except that she's read this ad and it sparks something in her. I have been attracted to a wide range of physiques, ages, and personal styles, though it usually starts with an attraction to a mind. I do have an appreciation for creative, bookish, or geeky women, as all three adjectives describe me as well.
She probably leans toward the submissive, but isn't content to be simply ordered around and made to fit her dom's every fantasy. I'd like her to feel that she has something she's bringing to the proverbial table (even if it's a desire to get bent over and tied to said proverbial table), not just looking to be entertained by someone else.
So, here's your call to action: send me a message that gives me a sense of who you are and why this appeals to you. Maybe tell me something naughty that's on your mind today.
I'm not interested in making you conform to my expectations. I want to explore both our minds and find that equilibrium that excites both of us. I have no limits in what I'm willing to discuss, I'm genuinely interested in everything you've got going on in your mind (which doesn't mean I'm comfortable with everything, but I'll be honest and say if something makes me uncomfortable). My kinks are always changing, but right now involve inappropriate relationships, incestuous themes (mostly as a daddy, but not always), impregnation. I like writing and chatting about sexual ideas, as well as roleplaying them. I tend to get most excited by the combination of dirty and intimate. I'm interested in exploring real (or at least realistic) emotions. Usually. Sometimes its fun to just jump into a completely ridiculous scenario and see where it goes. Sometimes my fantasies are rough and aggressive; sometimes slow, dominant and controlling; sometimes tender and gentle and intimate. Like I said, I have a dominant streak, but I also need a relationship in which it's okay to tuck that away and just think about laying my head in your lap and looking up into your eyes, while sucking gently on your breasts.
These are the dull particulars: married, late 30s, average build, prairie-canadian. I use proper grammar and spelling, except perhaps in moments of near ecstasy when Strunk & White can go fuck themselves. I'm not going to put any hard requirements on the woman I'm looking for, except that she's read this ad and it sparks something in her. I have been attracted to a wide range of physiques, ages, and personal styles, though it usually starts with an attraction to a mind. I do have an appreciation for creative, bookish, or geeky women, as all three adjectives describe me as well.
She probably leans toward the submissive, but isn't content to be simply ordered around and made to fit her dom's every fantasy. I'd like her to feel that she has something she's bringing to the proverbial table (even if it's a desire to get bent over and tied to said proverbial table), not just looking to be entertained by someone else.
So, here's your call to action: send me a message that gives me a sense of who you are and why this appeals to you. Maybe tell me something naughty that's on your mind today.
may some lovely ladies PM you....
