I am female in my mid-forties. I am reasonably sure that I am not a true submissive. But oh my goodness do I respond to it! 
I say I am not a true submissive because of my limits and resistance when I have attempted to enter a true submissive relationship.
Instead, what I am seeking is a man who perhaps is similar to me and explores these fantasies often and in great detail. Perhaps even writing stories as I do. Wishes to be dominant but perhaps does not wish to embrace the full lifestyle. What I propose, would I feel still be rewarding for us both. Still exploring each other deeply and becoming very intimate friends. I would hold nothing back once we had established trust. Unlike in a true Sub/Dom relationship, I would want the sexual aspect of the relationship to be about our mutual pleasure. That does not mean I would not submit during those sessions. I would want to, very much so. But I would also want you to be aware of exactly what it took to arouse me so that I could achieve orgasm (multiples I hope ). And of course, I would want to know how to please you, that is very important to me. When talking with a number of Doms on websites that was not always their goal. Nor did they seem interested in learning specifically what aroused me. They simply were using the techniques that they used on their other subs (all women are different, we just don't always admit it). Perhaps I was unfortunate in who I had contact with. But I know it was not the right connection for me. And I believe this could be a powerful and thrilling one for both parties. What I would propose would be online, emails, but most importantly voice. I think the voice is the most powerful thing to connect each other at a moment of intimacy. I am looking for someone in the US. That is only because I know only too well the difficulty of juggling time zones. And this site seems to be popular around the globe (and rightly so!!) so I assume it is possible anyone could see what I write here. For anyone who has read this far. Thank you for your interest
I say I am not a true submissive because of my limits and resistance when I have attempted to enter a true submissive relationship. Instead, what I am seeking is a man who perhaps is similar to me and explores these fantasies often and in great detail. Perhaps even writing stories as I do. Wishes to be dominant but perhaps does not wish to embrace the full lifestyle. What I propose, would I feel still be rewarding for us both. Still exploring each other deeply and becoming very intimate friends. I would hold nothing back once we had established trust. Unlike in a true Sub/Dom relationship, I would want the sexual aspect of the relationship to be about our mutual pleasure. That does not mean I would not submit during those sessions. I would want to, very much so. But I would also want you to be aware of exactly what it took to arouse me so that I could achieve orgasm (multiples I hope
). And of course, I would want to know how to please you, that is very important to me. When talking with a number of Doms on websites that was not always their goal. Nor did they seem interested in learning specifically what aroused me. They simply were using the techniques that they used on their other subs (all women are different, we just don't always admit it). Perhaps I was unfortunate in who I had contact with. But I know it was not the right connection for me. And I believe this could be a powerful and thrilling one for both parties. What I would propose would be online, emails, but most importantly voice. I think the voice is the most powerful thing to connect each other at a moment of intimacy. I am looking for someone in the US. That is only because I know only too well the difficulty of juggling time zones. And this site seems to be popular around the globe (and rightly so!!) so I assume it is possible anyone could see what I write here. For anyone who has read this far. Thank you for your interest 
