Seeking advice

[IndigoDarling]

Okay, this might not be the right place for this, but I don't want to make a new thread.

Basically, I'm 23 and I'm thinking of asking a 19 yrd old if he wants to be a fuck buddy with me. But I have no idea how to do it. Any thoughts on how to seduce a younger man than just shoving my nice DD's in his face?

 

[gregy70]

there is no wrong way

Okay, this might not be the right place for this, but I don't want to make a new thread.

Basically, I'm 23 and I'm thinking of asking a 19 yrd old if he wants to be a fuck buddy with me. But I have no idea how to do it. Any thoughts on how to seduce a younger man than just shoving my nice DD's in his face?

If I was still 19 there would be no wrong way a woman could approach me with a fuck buddy proposition .The DD's in the face would work for me. He's a guy...anyway would work.
Where were ladies like you when I was 19.
Cheers Greg

 

[BoredMale]

Okay, this might not be the right place for this, but I don't want to make a new thread.

Basically, I'm 23 and I'm thinking of asking a 19 yrd old if he wants to be a fuck buddy with me. But I have no idea how to do it. Any thoughts on how to seduce a younger man than just shoving my nice DD's in his face?

Invite him over to your place and sit him on a couch. Then, after a bit of talk to break the ice, talk to him about fuck buddies and how he feels about it. I'm sure he'll get the hint if he's halfway thinking straight.

Of course, if it involves getting a nice pair of DD's in the face, I'll gladly help you practice!

 

[IndigoDarling]

But I don't want to just shove my breasts in his face! I want something to say that leaves no question to the imagination but can still be friends!!!

Arrrghhhh!!! Can't someone help me with what words to say!!!!! BoredMale, that's better thinking- but I want words to say or I will fuck it up!

 

[BoredMale]

But I don't want to just shove my breasts in his face! I want something to say that leaves no question to the imagination but can still be friends!!!

Arrrghhhh!!! Can't someone help me with what words to say!!!!! BoredMale, that's better thinking- but I want words to say or I will fuck it up!

It's something that you'd just have to lead into. Have you ever gotten into one of those long winded talks that seem to last forever, then it somehow, some way ends up leading to sex?

After a moment of thinking, I realized that you'd also have to be very careful about this. I know that, at 19, I had a tendancy to get emotionally attached to whatever girl was kneeling in front of me. Talk to him about whatever it is you two talk about when you bring him over. Maybe dine in. Relax and enjoy each others company for awhile, then drop something casual about sex.

Maybe outright ask him about his sex life. At 19, he'll either be embarrassed or waiting to brag and tell you all about how he's great.

Or even better: talk to him about one of your previous fuck buddies (I'm guessing you had one once?). Maybe then ask him how he feels about it, or listen to him talk about his experiences.

In the end, opening like that would make it pretty easy to broach the subject. That's how I more or less fell into my FWB. But I was the one offering in that case.

 

[IndigoDarling]

It's something that you'd just have to lead into. Have you ever gotten into one of those long winded talks that seem to last forever, then it somehow, some way ends up leading to sex?

After a moment of thinking, I realized that you'd also have to be very careful about this. I know that, at 19, I had a tendancy to get emotionally attached to whatever girl was kneeling in front of me. Talk to him about whatever it is you two talk about when you bring him over. Maybe dine in. Relax and enjoy each others company for awhile, then drop something casual about sex.

Maybe outright ask him about his sex life. At 19, he'll either be embarrassed or waiting to brag and tell you all about how he's great.

Or even better: talk to him about one of your previous fuck buddies (I'm guessing you had one once?). Maybe then ask him how he feels about it, or listen to him talk about his experiences.

In the end, opening like that would make it pretty easy to broach the subject. That's how I more or less fell into my FWB. But I was the one offering in that case.

That's what I'm thinking too- I did have a fuck buddy at 19- and I got attached. I gues that I will have to figure it out as well. But thats a good idea.

Maybe 19 isn't a good age for it- but I guess I need to ask first.

 

[IndigoDarling]

Damn it I didn't want this to be a thread by itself!

 

[only4funladies]

Indigo, 19 is not too young for a fuck buddy. Really, Bored is right. If your concerned about that, then just bring it up casually one day and you could throw in there "hey, we could try it". If he seems uncomfortable, play it off as a joke. If he's game, then get the hell out of where ever you are and find a bedroom!

 

[IndigoDarling]

Indigo, 19 is not too young for a fuck buddy. Really, Bored is right. If your concerned about that, then just bring it up casually one day and you could throw in there "hey, we could try it". If he seems uncomfortable, play it off as a joke. If he's game, then get the hell out of where ever you are and find a bedroom!

I don't think 19 is too young, as I was a fuck buddy at 19. But the emotional attactment is what i am worried about.

 

[gregy70]

maybe this

Hi ..Just maybe bring up in conversation what a emotional rollercoaster relationships are..then jokingly add..it would be just so much easier if youy could ring up someone & ask wether they felt like a shag. See his response ..If he agrees ..say Yeah imagine trying that with some guy..say he'd think I was a slut..If he says NOT at all your home ..If he says yeah she would be just agree.
Cheers Greg

 

[rthnck]

This shouldn't be that difficult. If I was 19 again I can't think of a conversation that would not make a fuck buddy relationship work for me. Of course we probably need to know a lot more about the guy you are considering. What kind of friendship you already have, that kind of thing. I think that the dialog from the Seinfeld episode "The Deal" should work for you:

Elaine: Oh, right. I hope you have a good oral surgeon because that can be very serious. (Changes channel) Hey, look at naked people.

Jerry: No, I don't wanna see the naked people.
Elaine: Been a while?

Jerry: I have a vague recollection of doing something with someone, but it was a long, long time ago.

Elaine: I think my last time was in Rochester. My hair was a lot shorter.

Jerry: I remember that it's a good thing. Someday, I hope to do it again. (Jerry looks at Elaine)

Elaine: What?
Jerry: What?
Elaine: What was that look?
Jerry: What look?
Elaine: The look you just gave me.
Jerry: I gave a look?
Elaine: Yes.
Jerry: What kind of look?
Elaine: I know that look.
Jerry: Then what was it?
Elaine: Why should I tell you?
Jerry: Well, you're the big look expert. I wanna see how smart you are.
Elaine: Trust me. I know the look. (Pause) So...
Jerry: What?
Elaine: What about the look?
Jerry: I don't know.
Elaine: You got something on your mind?
Jerry: No. Things pop into your head. You?
Elaine: Things occur to me from time to time.
Jerry: Yeah, me too. Well, you can't expect to just forget the past completely.
Elaine: No, of course not.
Jerry: I mean, it was something we did. Probably about, what? Twenty-five times?
Elaine: Thirty-seven.
Jerry: Yeah, we pretty much know what we're doin' in there. (Points to bedroom)
Elaine: We know the terrain.
Jerry: No big surprises.
Elaine: Nope.
Jerry: What do you think?
Elaine: I don't know. What do you think?
Jerry: Well, it's something to consider.
Elaine: Yeah.
Jerry: I mean, let's say we did.
Elaine: What if.
Jerry: Is that like the end of the world or something?
Elaine: Certainly not.
Jerry: Why shouldn't we be able to do that once in a while if we want to?
Elaine: I know.

Jerry: I mean, really, what is the big deal? We go in there. (Points to the bedroom) We're in there for a while. We come right back out here. It's not complicated.

Elaine: It's almost stupid if we didn't.
Jerry: It's moronic.
Elaine: Absurd!
Jerry: Of course, I guess, maybe, some little problems could arise.
Elaine: We, there are always a few.

Jerry: I mean, if anything happened, and we couldn't be friends the way we are now, that would be really bad.

Elaine: Devastating.

Jerry: Because this is very good. (Points back and forth between them to indicate friendship)

Elaine: And that would be good. (Points to bedroom)

Jerry: That would be good too. The idea is combine the this and the that. But this cannot be disturbed.

Elaine: Yeah, we just wanna take this and add that.

Jerry: But of course, we'd have to figure out a way to avoid the things that cause the little problems. Maybe some rules or something.

Elaine: Huh.
Jerry: For example, now, I call you whenever I'm inclined and vice versa.
Elaine: Right.
Jerry: But if we did that, we might feel a certain obligation to call.

Elaine: Well why should that be? Oh, I have an idea. I have an idea. No call the day after that.

Jerry: Beautiful. Let's make it a rule.
Elaine: All right, sir.

Jerry: Now here's another little rule. When we see each other now, we retire to our separate quarters. But sometimes, when people get involved with that, they feel pressure to sleep over. When that is not really sleep. Sleep is separate from that. And I don't see why sleep got all tied up and connected with that.

Elaine: Okay, okay. Spending the night is optional!
Jerry: Well now we're gettin' somewhere.
Elaine: What about the kiss goodnight?
Jerry: Tough one. You're call.
Elaine: It's brug-wa (?).
Jerry: Fine. Well.
Elaine: Well.
Jerry: You ready?
Elaine: Ready.
Jerry: So think you can handle this?
Elaine: Definitely. (Runs into bookshelf)

The entire script is here: http://www.seinfeldscripts.com/TheDeal.htm

 

[TallGentleman27]

Okay, this might not be the right place for this, but I don't want to make a new thread.

Basically, I'm 23 and I'm thinking of asking a 19 yrd old if he wants to be a fuck buddy with me. But I have no idea how to do it. Any thoughts on how to seduce a younger man than just shoving my nice DD's in his face?

If you are concerned about emotional attachment, I would talk to him about having a girl friend, what he wants, etc. There needs to be a reason that you would not be his type and that he would not want a relationship with you. Or not want a girl friend period.

 

[IndigoDarling]

If you are concerned about emotional attachment, I would talk to him about having a girl friend, what he wants, etc. There needs to be a reason that you would not be his type and that he would not want a relationship with you. Or not want a girl friend period.

Well he already told me he is happily single- so that is a good sign. But what to say is the things that is wigging me out.

 

[human_male]

This is going to happen to me one day. *crosses fingers*

 

[IndigoDarling]

This is going to happen to me one day. *crosses fingers*

What is going to happen? Because you are no 19 sir. But even though I am contemplating it- I hope that we are both mature enough to let it end when it ends. Because that's when it becomes a problem. Hell, even at 23, I might have a problem with it as well, depending on how often we see one another. I have two other FB's but I rarely ever see them- so I am not attached to them at all. I'm hoping if we do work out that we will see eachother more than that.

 

[TallGentleman27]

Well he already told me he is happily single- so that is a good sign. But what to say is the things that is wigging me out.

that's pretty easy actually, you can just have a casual conversation with him and just start to mention that it's been a long time since you were with someone, you can ask him about how long it's been for him. ask if he misses it, just keep going in that direction. you will sense if he does not want to go there and you can back off, or if he does, then you can keep talking about more and more sexual things and eventually, well you know. I would be happy to roleplay this with you if you like

 

[subwannabe]

What's wrong with DD's in the face? Seriously, this guy is 19 and you really aren't much older. Just invite him over, wear something sexy showing those precious DD's, explain the situation, and lay it out on the line. If he refuses, make the call to have him taken away to the place with the rubber rooms. I do agree to take whatever precautiouns are necessary to avoid emotional attachments, if that's what you want.

 

[shyrebel]

Get him alone and rape him, I think that would work with me!

 

[IndigoDarling]

Okay, so I decided to get over being a pussy and just ask the question. So he said as long as there was not an emotional attachment (Great!) that it would be awesome.

So yes. I'll keep you updated.

 

[yourheroINfla]

I am 19yrs old and would LOVE a fwb situation.

 

[Xepter]

He sounds like one lucky dude. Nice job!

 

[gregy70]

great job

great job

 

[yourheroINfla]

He sounds like one lucky dude. Nice job!

I envy that guy

 

[subwannabe]

Give us the details! Nothing better on Literotica than to read a true story.

 

[IndigoDarling]

Unfortunately, there is nothing to update.

And he is currently not returning my texts...... c'est la vie.