Seeking Advice

[snakebyte]

4 years ago I met this girl online. She had a bf or or fiance or something but we had a "relationship." Then I lost track of her. Well I ran into her at a local Wal-Mart where she works now. She got married and is now divorced. Our relationship was wrong for a lot of reasons but it was also the one of the most passionate relationships I ever had. I don't know if she ever had any real feelings for me or not, but I've always wanted to try again. What should I do? Should try to persue it or should I just forget about it? Any input is greatly appreciated.

 

[Rawhide_101]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained...

 

[NNJ LAZ]

Hey Snake

Lets face it buddy, your always going to wonder if you don't give it a second try. But I would ask yourself a few things. First, is there any chance of a reconsiliation between the lady and her ex? Secondly, do you think that part of the attraction was because what the two of you were doing was "naughty"? Maybe it won't be as exciting a second time around? And finally, can you live with the fact that you and her tried for something again and maybe came up short of your expectations? Lots to think about I know. But it could be the difference between a fond memory and a big mistake. In any event, good luck in whatever direction you choose.

Be well - Laz

 

[dwmkcmo]

I would say go for it.

 

[ickle_stace]

i would say are you expecting someone serious or just sex?

if passionate relationship means great sex but loads of problems in the rest of the relationship, then the sex is gonna be great but it might be likely most of the problems from before will still be there, unless the problem was that she was already with someone

 

[SxyTiger1116]

Go for it snake, you never know what could happen.

 

[Swtsxbx40]

I would ask myself those questions as well.

1. Are you wanting something serious?
2. Are you just lonely and wanting the sex?

I'm trying to be objective here for ya, but I too have experienced that really passionate attraction myself, not in the same way you two met, but that almost crazy chemistry that keeps you wondering. I'm marrying my passion though.

Be careful is all I can say. Good luck.

 

[kickboxqueen]

I think you should just come to florida and mack it w/ me!

 

[snakebyte]

I think you should just come to florida and mack it w/ me!

I would love to but I'm a poor college student. And almost 3 bux a gallon thats an expensive trip. LOL.

As far as what I'm looking for from her, it wasn't about sex with her cuz we only did it once. I guess I wanna know if I was just side action for her cuz she was pissed at the other guy or did she care. And if she still feels anything towards me. Which are questions I need to ask her. Problem is as much as I want the answers they also scare me.

 

[ickle_stace]

I would love to but I'm a poor college student. And almost 3 bux a gallon thats an expensive trip. LOL.

As far as what I'm looking for from her, it wasn't about sex with her cuz we only did it once. I guess I wanna know if I was just side action for her cuz she was pissed at the other guy or did she care. And if she still feels anything towards me. Which are questions I need to ask her. Problem is as much as I want the answers they also scare me.

the more time u spend not asking her, the more time u spend wondering what could be. for all you know she might like you, but is too shy to say because she don't know how u feel

 

[TooMuchTime]

Run..

Run.. dont do it... ESPECIALLY if you have feelings for her. What will happen is you will get close and she will not.

If you are in it for sex, then go for it.. eyes wide open for both of you. But dont get too close to start.

If she is interested in YOU, after the past and knowing you are available, then she may make the first contact or at least let you know that she is interested. Otherwise dont get emotionally close.

Just my .50 cents worth....