Seeking advice

[snakebyte]

4 years ago I met this girl online. She had a bf or or fiance or something but we had a "relationship." Then I lost track of her. Well I ran into her at a local Wal-Mart where she works now. She got married and is now divorced. Our relationship was wrong for a lot of reasons but it was also the one of the most passionate relationships I ever had. I don't know if she ever had any real feelings for me or not, but I've always wanted to try again. What should I do? Should try to persue it or should I just forget about it? Any input is greatly appreciated.

 

[mrtnmoon]

does she want to try again? especially if she is free now, I see no harm in trying to pursue something. the important thing is to take it slow.... try not to let your emotions run away with you. it would be easy to get caught up in the passion again.

 

[snakebyte]

Idk if she does or not. I havnt gone back to Walmart since I saw her there. I guees I'm trying to figure if should tell her this and see if she wants to try again.

 

[Nightbird]

Why not try and be friends first. Ask her out for coffee or something.

A lot has happened since you were with her and she maybe a totally different person now.

 

[BadBombshellBabe]

is there any harm in testing the water?

if you went back and initiated a casual conversation that led to a comfortable invitation to get together...the rest would fall into place all by itself, wouldn't it?