Seeking a submissive male

[SweetDommes]

**edited because apparently it's not just submissive males that can't/won't read ... pertinant area is now bolded and enlarged**

This is mostly copied and pasted from a profile on another site, so if I forget to edit out some of the info that is specific to that site, forgive me.


Read the whole profile ... and follow instructions, please.

**Update**
After discovering that the boy I was to marry was cheating on us with an minor (who, unfortunately, is still legal due to the age of consent laws in Indiana), I haven't had the heart to deal with a new search, or pretty much with anyone but rob and Holly. However, I think that we are preparing to look around a bit again. If you are interested, and can hold a conversation that doesn't revolve around your dick or your kinks, then perhaps we can chat. I am expecting that you be able to read and follow instructions though (see previous sentence).
And just so you know, we are not going to reply with anything other than "read the profile" to messages such as "can I be your slave" and "*kneeling before you to beg permission to communicate*" - and this includes versions with 'netspeak'.

Basic requirements:
*No smoking
*Must be US resident/citizen.
*Must be relocatable (realistically ... we aren't expecting this to happen tomorrow, but we don't want to wait 4 years) - this means, for those of you who don't take hints well, that we are not looking for online only. This is intended to become a permanent face-to-face relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage ... which is obviously not possible if it's online only.
*Must be able to get along with others - this includes people and animals. We are poly (two Dommes and a sub, looking for a second sub) and we own a small zoo which includes cats, dogs, rodents, and reptiles/amphibians - we definitely give preference to animal lovers
*Must not have any delusions about pitbulls being evil monsters
*Must not have any delusions about splitting up the already established group (Holly and I have been together for 7 years, and rob has been with us for 3 - we're pretty secure and stable ... don't try to destabalize the group)
*we only want males - we don't do forced fem, we aren't into crossdressing (nothing against it, just doesn't do anything for either of us) and if you are female, or list yourself as such (and that includes a 'male' listed profile with a female name) - we aren't going to be interested. When we want fem, we have each other.
*Must be able to interact on a "vanilla" level, as well as a D/s level (we want this to be a long-term thing, potentially including marriage - if we can't take you out in public comfortably, we aren't interested)
*We prefer Caucasians, for multiple reasons (including the fact that we can't control what psychotic relatives do when they aren't on our property)
*We are only looking for guys between the ages of about 25 and 35 - we have found that much younger or much older just don't have anything in common with us, exceptions may be made if you are close to the age range, but it's very unlikely
*Must be able to live out in the middle of B.F.E. and preferably will enjoy our corn/bean fields as much as we do
*Please put something in your message that lets us know that you really did read the profile - starting with: do not call us "Mistress(es)" as you are not owned by us yet, and do not call me "Ma'am" because I hate it. Telling us some of your non-BDSM interests would be good. If you use an obvious form letter, I will not reply. If you mention your sex life/experience (or lack there of), I will not reply. If you write us a well thought out, polite message that shows you really did read the profile, I will reply to you even if I feel that we are entirely incompatable.

Karen
Holly

 

[TNRkitect2b]

This is mostly copied and pasted from a profile on another site, so if I forget to edit out some of the info that is specific to that site, forgive me.


Read the whole profile ... and follow instructions, please.

**Update**
After discovering that the boy I was to marry was cheating on us with an minor (who, unfortunately, is still legal due to the age of consent laws in Indiana), I haven't had the heart to deal with a new search, or pretty much with anyone but rob and Holly. However, I think that we are preparing to look around a bit again. If you are interested, and can hold a conversation that doesn't revolve around your dick or your kinks, then perhaps we can chat. I am expecting that you be able to read and follow instructions though (see previous sentence).
And just so you know, we are not going to reply with anything other than "read the profile" to messages such as "can I be your slave" and "*kneeling before you to beg permission to communicate*" - and this includes versions with 'netspeak'.

Basic requirements:
*No smoking
*Must be US resident/citizen.
*Must be relocatable (realistically ... we aren't expecting this to happen tomorrow, but we don't want to wait 4 years)
*Must be able to get along with others - this includes people and animals. We are poly (two Dommes and a sub, looking for a second sub) and we own a small zoo which includes cats, dogs, rodents, and reptiles/amphibians - we definitely give preference to animal lovers
*Must not have any delusions about pitbulls being evil monsters
*Must not have any delusions about splitting up the already established group (Holly and I have been together for 7 years, and rob has been with us for 3 - we're pretty secure and stable ... don't try to destabalize the group)
*we only want males - we don't do forced fem, we aren't into crossdressing (nothing against it, just doesn't do anything for either of us) and if you are female, or list yourself as such (and that includes a 'male' listed profile with a female name) - we aren't going to be interested. When we want fem, we have each other.
*Must be able to interact on a "vanilla" level, as well as a D/s level (we want this to be a long-term thing, potentially including marriage - if we can't take you out in public comfortably, we aren't interested)
*We prefer Caucasians, for multiple reasons (including the fact that we can't control what psychotic relatives do when they aren't on our property)
*We are only looking for guys between the ages of about 25 and 35 - we have found that much younger or much older just don't have anything in common with us, exceptions may be made if you are close to the age range, but it's very unlikely
*Must be able to live out in the middle of B.F.E. and preferably will enjoy our corn/bean fields as much as we do
*Please put something in your message that lets us know that you really did read the profile - starting with: do not call us "Mistress(es)" as you are not owned by us yet, and do not call me "Ma'am" because I hate it. Telling us some of your non-BDSM interests would be good. If you use an obvious form letter, I will not reply. If you mention your sex life/experience (or lack there of), I will not reply. If you write us a well thought out, polite message that shows you really did read the profile, I will reply to you even if I feel that we are entirely incompatable.

Karen
Holly

Good luck Miss Karen.

 

[SweetDommes]

Thanks Brian

 

[SweetDommes]

Bumping

 

[Krayoneater]

Aye darlin.
Best wishes to ya in yer hunt.

 

[SweetDommes]

Thanks.

I am rather disappointed at the lack of response. So far, we've gotten one idiot from Europe who apparently can't read beyond the fact that a male is sought. One guy that at least read the profile and admitted that he didn't quite qualify but was hoping. And one guy who seems almost too good to be true ... and hasn't replied to my last message (2-3 days ago). Eh, such is life, I really didn't expect anything to turn up here, given our previous experience here, but I had to try.

 

[SweetDommes]

Wondering if anyone else is interested - preferably someone who can read.

 

[KinkyBoyUK]

Wondering if anyone else is interested - preferably someone who can read.

giving a european bump, hope you manage to find who you are searching for. im sure they must be out there

 

[SweetDommes]

Thanks

 

[man_u_nd]

wish luck in you search

 

[DarkSteven]

I'm not what you seek, but I want to thank you for writing such a good ad. You state exactly what it is you're looking for, and give a good idea of the environment that the sub will enter.

I wish all posts were as good.

 

[createashemale]

"Honesty, is such a lonely word..." - Billy Joel

I have found myself drawn to reading this post. Finding that special person to complete a void in your life becomes all-consuming, and reaches a point where it is all you think about. I am familiar with the heartbreak, the betrayals, the loss of sleep at night and the lack of concentration during the day. My heart goes out to you, and I wanted to let you know that perserverence, and honesty, are two traits that are obviously possessed by you. As for me, I can say that I found my perfect match, but it was by no means easy, and even realizing that we were meant to be together was something that we did not recognize at first. When we both accepted our common destiny, it opened the door to true happiness. Some things that I learned:

My perfect match was not as I expected, but far more than I ever imagined, and the way that we connected in person was the very first indicator of what was to eventually come.

A temporary setback happened when one of us prematurely thought that we were not a good match. An open heart and a willingness to try again has made all the difference in the world.

Accomodating imperfection allowed us to embrace our differences, and accept them as part of being honest with each other, and having a true love for each other.

As for myself, accepting the fact that She would eventually have relationships with others meant that I had to lose my jealousy, and embrace Her needs and desires as a positive thing for our own relationship. This, for me, was the most difficult obstacle to overcome.

If I were a submissive male, who truly needed to be owned and met your qualifications, I would be a fool if I did not contact you and see if I was worthy of serving you. For those subs out there who might be reading my words now, take a note: Do not let this chance pass you by!

Once again, my heart goes out to you, and please know that I do know that the person you seek is indeed out here, and simply has not read your post. In the spirit of cooperation, here is another bump to help your ad get additional exposure.

 

[SweetDommes]

bumping

 

[alexxxx]

Expressing interest

My name is Alex. I am a 36 year old man, currently living in Canada but originally from the NYC area. I read your post carefully, several times. Frankly, I do not think I am likely to be the man you seek. However, I wish I was.
You are very clear in expressing your rules and expectations. I wish I was a little younger, since my age is beyond your reasonably firm limits.
If you choose to reply, I can be reached by email at (E-mail address removed. Please read the site rules.)
Please note the ca, as in Canada.
Thank you for reading my note. If you do not reply, at least accept
My very best wishes,
Alex

 

[SweetDommes]

Bumping again

Alex, we appreciate your interest, but we are just not willing to deal with relocating from that far. We honestly aren't even looking for people outside of the MidWest - we've done long distance before while waiting for a boy to relocate to us, and it was a miserable experience. I don't wish to put myself through that again.

 

[SweetDommes]

Dang ... all these 'moved' threads are bumping ours down to the bottom of the page ... can't have that ...

 

[aledon]

but if you are not looking for male submissives because you already have two, then, what's the point?

 

[SweetDommes]

And where, in this thread, does it say that we have two???

In fact, it specifically states that the second boy that we did have temporarily turned out to be a cheating, lying bastard ... so why come on here and attack me for posting a seeking thread (which, come on ... why in the hell would I post a seeking thread if we weren't seeking?)

Have we offended you somehow, in the past or something? I don't recognise your name, but the fact that you felt the need to come in here and post a mild attack when you obviously didn't read the OP makes me think that you have a problem with me and/or Holly ....

 

[secrets_within]

And where, in this thread, does it say that we have two???

In fact, it specifically states that the second boy that we did have temporarily turned out to be a cheating, lying bastard ... so why come on here and attack me for posting a seeking thread (which, come on ... why in the hell would I post a seeking thread if we weren't seeking?)

Have we offended you somehow, in the past or something? I don't recognise your name, but the fact that you felt the need to come in here and post a mild attack when you obviously didn't read the OP makes me think that you have a problem with me and/or Holly ....

After reading through various posts this morning and checking some profiles I'd have to come to aledon's defense.

Though it's not written in the opening post or elsewhere on the thread concerning the fact you have two submissives. Your profile clearly states the following:

Biography:
We are a f/f Dominant couple with two male submissives. We are enjoying having our family complete. We are not looking for anyone else (that would be the meaning of "our family is complete"). If you are looking for a Domme, look elsewhere - don't waste your time or ours.

Thus I believe where the confusion may have occurred. Many of us searching (for our own various interests), read profiles and previous posts on other threads to help gain a sense of the other person, a little insight perse.

I wish you all the best in your search.

secrets

 

[SweetDommes]

oh, and no one else has ever forgotten to change their profile??

However, pointing that out (as you did) would have been a better method - then I would have remembered to go change it ... which I will go do now.

See, pleasantness and politeness works far better than attacks.

 

[SweetDommes]

wow, got dropped off of the first page entirely ...


Anyone else out there?

 

[Neo Alias]

Seems very interesting and nice. I hope you find the right person.

 

[trojan_man_co]

Bump

good luck in your search...

 

[Horus_rules]

Ah, if I were younger, lived back in BFE north of Indy, and were not a Switch: temptation! Good luck ladies.

 

[wickedlady31]

Thanks.

I am rather disappointed at the lack of response. So far, we've gotten one idiot from Europe who apparently can't read beyond the fact that a male is sought. One guy that at least read the profile and admitted that he didn't quite qualify but was hoping. And one guy who seems almost too good to be true ... and hasn't replied to my last message (2-3 days ago). Eh, such is life, I really didn't expect anything to turn up here, given our previous experience here, but I had to try.

Men are reluctant to be our bitches!