Seeking a gentle teaching Dom

[Starlightblue]

I have been on here everyday, hopping from one message to the next in search of the ever so elusive partner I want and I am beginning to give up hope on ever finding him. I am seeking a dominant partner who is:

- mature enough for us to understand each other.

- Understands the difference between real life and role play/second life.

- Who respects me and my limits and my needs. Who is willing to build our characters relationship.

- Who can write descriptively (I am not demanding, two sentences and a line)

My limits include human toilet play, abandonment, denial of aftercare, and anything with furry or animals. Possessive and controlling partners are cool as long as it is in character, otherwise that is a huge trigger for my PTSD.

Please, for the love of god, don't demand I be your slave. That is unrealistic unless we are RPing in a different world or time period where slavery is a thing. If you want a slave in the bdsm sense of the word, earn it. You don't get to be someone's master in one day.

I'm 37 years, a mom of two young kids. Outside of lockdown I work full time. I'm from South Africa so the time difference shouldn't be a problem. I'm married but separated.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I have been on here everyday, hopping from one message to the next in search of the ever so elusive partner I want and I am beginning to give up hope on ever finding him. I am seeking a dominant partner who is:

- mature enough for us to understand each other.

- Understands the difference between real life and role play/second life.

- Who respects me and my limits and my needs. Who is willing to build our characters relationship.

- Who can write descriptively (I am not demanding, two sentences and a line)

My limits include human toilet play, abandonment, denial of aftercare, and anything with furry or animals. Possessive and controlling partners are cool as long as it is in character, otherwise that is a huge trigger for my PTSD.

Please, for the love of god, don't demand I be your slave. That is unrealistic unless we are RPing in a different world or time period where slavery is a thing. If you want a slave in the bdsm sense of the word, earn it. You don't get to be someone's master in one day.

I'm 37 years, a mom of two young kids. Outside of lockdown I work full time. I'm from South Africa so the time difference shouldn't be a problem. I'm married but separated.

I think that the real key to finding the gentle dom relationship that you seek is going to take time. For me, getting to know someone and developing a sense of mutual respect and trust has always been key. Once that has been obtained, I feel that each party’s natural inclinations will do the rest. Good luck.

 

[Haven_58]

Are you still looking? I'm a 61 year old Caucasian Dominant and the words most often ascribed to me are 'kind' and 'considerate' even after punishing poor behaviour. If you're at all interested, please feel free to contact me here or, if you prefer, I'll provide an email.

Be well