BoyNextDoor
I hate liars
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It can be lonely in Las Vegas — so lonely, a single 23-year-old woman is looking for a new bestie on Craigslist.
"There are guys all over the place to have fun with," she laments in an anonymous post, "but I wish I had a friend to go shopping and to concerts with me or to get our nails done ... someone I can talk to about my boy problems, maybe hear about hers."
Oh, and one more thing! After rocking out at Britney's live show, she's also hoping she and her new BFF will get in bed and go down on each other.
The post continues: "I left out the part about not being able to keep our hands off each other when we're alone, giving each other hot and steamy kisses, and seeing what we taste like."
Wait, what?
She's one of thousands of women across the country, judging by Craigslist and other sites, who identify as straight — explicitly mentioning boyfriends, husbands, or dating dudes in personal ads — but are also looking online for casual, lesbian sex. It's more than experimenting with your college suitemate, and it's not about turning on bros at the bar. These hetero flexible women say they want long-term romantic relationships with men but are consistently drawn to women purely for sex, whether a girlfriends-with-benefits scenario or a Sapphic sidepiece hidden from their boyfriend or husband.
"It's a huge phenomenon," says Chelsea Reynolds, who researches gender and sexuality in mass media as a doctoral student at the University of Minnesota School of Journalism and Communication.
Nothing wrong with that - makes me wish I were a little younger
"There are guys all over the place to have fun with," she laments in an anonymous post, "but I wish I had a friend to go shopping and to concerts with me or to get our nails done ... someone I can talk to about my boy problems, maybe hear about hers."
Oh, and one more thing! After rocking out at Britney's live show, she's also hoping she and her new BFF will get in bed and go down on each other.
The post continues: "I left out the part about not being able to keep our hands off each other when we're alone, giving each other hot and steamy kisses, and seeing what we taste like."
Wait, what?
She's one of thousands of women across the country, judging by Craigslist and other sites, who identify as straight — explicitly mentioning boyfriends, husbands, or dating dudes in personal ads — but are also looking online for casual, lesbian sex. It's more than experimenting with your college suitemate, and it's not about turning on bros at the bar. These hetero flexible women say they want long-term romantic relationships with men but are consistently drawn to women purely for sex, whether a girlfriends-with-benefits scenario or a Sapphic sidepiece hidden from their boyfriend or husband.
"It's a huge phenomenon," says Chelsea Reynolds, who researches gender and sexuality in mass media as a doctoral student at the University of Minnesota School of Journalism and Communication.
Nothing wrong with that - makes me wish I were a little younger
