Seeing your wife's past lovers at your wedding

[XirixSeven]

I suppose this may come off as sort of weird, but since this was part of my psychology, I thought it might be something others ended up thinking about.

I do have a thing for thinking about other men with my wife, and am turned on by knowing she has had more than a certain number of men who have fucked her.

We were married nearly 5 years ago, and at our wedding, one of her girlfriends asked me if I wanted to know who at the wedding had been to bed with her. I said yes, and she pointed out to me the three who she knew had been her past lovers. I found myself getting hard as a rock on our honeymoon making love to her thinking about those men who were with her, and their banging her like crazy. The thought of them French kissing her, touching her intimately and knowing what it's like to be inside her was, during the honeymoon, something my mind occasionally went to.

Has anyone else had these thoughts around the time of their wedding, seeing (from afar or whatever) their wife's ex-lovers and thinking about them close to their wedding night or nights of their honeymoon?

 

[gtnlynn]

Several guys were at our wedding who had dated her in college, and I knew all of them. It wasn't until several years after our wedding that she told me that some of them had sex with her. My view was the same both times: they had their fun, but I won the prize.

 

[screwher]

My sitch...

My wife had only one boyfriend before me. He was the first guy that fucked her. At our wedding her was so far out of the picture that, good or bad, he wasn't even thought of being put on the guest list.

Its our current situation where it gets interesting. We plan on renewing our wedding vows someday. We've opened up our marriage to where she can have sex with other men. I love the idea of a lover of hers being there. Especially if the night before he gave my wife his own personal bachelorette party lol. Or, better yet, we've made arrangements for him to fuck her on our second wedding night.

 

[mikendel]

I do enjoy being at a party, wedding or any gathering where one or more of the men there has fucked Del. She enjoys it as much as I do. Knowing they were between her legs, she sucked there cock, they have filled her with cum gets me hard. We talk about them and she rates them against each other. I like when her phone rings with a text asking if she is busy after the get together. If they are married it turns her on even more.

 

[screwher]

Bumped. I'm sure there's plenty of good stories yet to tell.

 

[Charles36]

When we were first going together my current wife introduced me to past boyfriends. I always had in mind them looking at her and remembering what she looked like naked and what sex with her was like.

One boyfriend took her to a bar that potential swingers used as a meeting place. She took me there once. The second time we went it was shuttered.

She claimed to not be that interested in sex but when she was divorced she immediately had her tubes tied. Once a month she would go to a dance with the express purpose of being picked for sex. She was single for well over ten years. You do the math.

 

[soccermomnympho]

I invited 5 ex lovers to my wedding. There was something exciting about them being there.

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

I've been at ex lover's weddings. Male and female. Being in that situation is a bit awkward.

Of course its awkward after an ex lover's wedding when they contact you because they saw you came... And their honeymoon wasn't good.

 

[Justfantasies]

None at our wedding as far as I know. But I have met several of her ex lovers.

I found myself imagining them fucking Cindy, how big they were and how often Cindy came. I have usually asked Cindy all these questions later

 

[davenjenn]

There were a few of my ex lovers at our wedding. Not sure that my husband realized how many

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

There were a few of my ex lovers at our wedding. Not sure that my husband realized how many

You're naughty. Did you find yourself taking trips down memory lane at your own wedding?

 

[davenjenn]

You're naughty. Did you find yourself taking trips down memory lane at your own wedding?

One of the guys I still slept with. But my fantasy at the time was that they all gang banged me after the wedding

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

One of the guys I still slept with. But my fantasy at the time was that they all gang banged me after the wedding

That's what I'd want if I ever got married. Heck that's what I'd want even without getting married.

 

[davenjenn]

You're naughty. Did you find yourself taking trips down memory lane at your own wedding?

That's what I'd want if I ever got married. Heck that's what I'd want even without getting married.

Didn't actually happen, but I did tell my husband eventually.

 

[XirixSeven]

Didn't actually happen, but I did tell my husband eventually.

Did your telling your husband about wanting to be f***ed by specific guys who were there turn him on? Did he ever ask you to discuss this during foreplay or similar?

 

[davenjenn]

Did your telling your husband about wanting to be f***ed by specific guys who were there turn him on? Did he ever ask you to discuss this during foreplay or similar?

Yes we talked about it in great detail and went through the whole scenario. He knows one of the guys quite well and we talked about him most

 

[jakelc]

Just over a year ago we were talking about renewing our vows and who would we want to come. We started taking about the guests at our wedding and my wife told me one of her bridesmaids was an ex girlfriend. It’s the first I’d heard and was so intrigued, I wanted to hear all about it. Another guest was an ex boyfriend who was a friend of mine as well. If I had my way both these guests would be at the ceremony and in the bedroom at the nighttime. After all these years she can still surprise me.

 

[XirixSeven]

Just over a year ago we were talking about renewing our vows and who would we want to come. We started taking about the guests at our wedding and my wife told me one of her bridesmaids was an ex girlfriend. It’s the first I’d heard and was so intrigued, I wanted to hear all about it. Another guest was an ex boyfriend who was a friend of mine as well. If I had my way both these guests would be at the ceremony and in the bedroom at the nighttime. After all these years she can still surprise me.

WOW. Why is this not leading to a discussion of a group activity?

Also, what numbered anniversary are you going to celebrate?

 

[lucky_guy_49]

Not lovers, but

My brother recently married somebody I dated over 40 years ago. At the wedding I could not stop thinking about her French kissing me on her front porch when I took her home. I’m sure that as hard as she hugged me it was evident I liked it. She still looks terrific, and I have lots of good memories of the time we were together. I wonder how well she remembers the details and if she ever told him?