Secretly Watch Your Spouse???

[Rashashea]

I keep fantasizing about watching my hubby have sex with another women without her knowing it, it that wrong. We have had threesomes and I have watched him with the other women knowing but it really turns me on to think about her not knowing it. There is a woman that he has done some work for that knows he is married but I think he could seduce her with her thinking that I don't know about it....OK gotta refocus...getting to turned on.
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[SweetErika]

No, there's absolutely nothing wrong with the fantasy.

The reality, however, is a different story. How would YOU feel if someone watched or taped you having sex without your knowledge and consent? Even if you'd be fine with it, I think it's safe to say that most women wouldn't. It's unethical to spy on someone like that, and in some places, it's illegal.

What you might be able to do is find a woman who will consent to the possibility of you spying. Tell her it's your fantasy and you may or may not be watching anytime she and your husband are intimate. Make it clear that you would never use any audio or visual recording devices. Who knows, the possibility of being watched may really excite the right woman, so you don't have much to lose by being up front about it.

 

[mrtomthumb]

I think its a hot fantasy....

that may be hard to deal with in reality unless you are a very strong and self confident person. You sound like you might be. It may be worth discussing...best of luck finding out.