Secretly bi guy

[njteenbi]

Im 18 years old and have been seducing my friends at sleepovers and secretly messed around since i was 14. I like guys but only young ones around my age. Does that mean im bisexual or bicurious? me and a couples of my friends mess around when we're drunk but pretend like none of it ever happens. we're all secret about it. I dont like anal but i love to do everything else. i like to find other guys my age who feel the same way as me to mess around with, but i dont know how to go about doing it. Am i strange or does anyone else feel this way?

If anyone wants to know my secret method to seducing straight guys let me know, it never fails.

 

[Alexandra1979]

My situation is different. I want to get back with my ex-fiance and I suspect that he might be bi, though he insists that he is pure hetero. This is one of several issues that he and I have been struggling with quietly (I think that our lack of communication and honesty is what killed our engagement, far more than compatibility issues).

 

[Etoile]

If you're having sex with guys and enjoying it, I'd say you're past the curious stage.

But do you feel this is a problem? Why are you keeping it a secret? I would say there are thousands of men who feel the way you do and do the things you do.

If you have a girlfriend and she doesn't know you have sex with men, you need to tell her. Otherwise it's just cheating. But whether you tell her or not, at least use condoms with her and with guys...it's not fair to gamble with her life by risking contracting an STD.

 

[akade]

yep

good eye, etoile

 

[Alexandra1979]

If you're having sex with guys and enjoying it, I'd say you're past the curious stage.

But do you feel this is a problem? Why are you keeping it a secret? I would say there are thousands of men who feel the way you do and do the things you do.

If you have a girlfriend and she doesn't know you have sex with men, you need to tell her. Otherwise it's just cheating. But whether you tell her or not, at least use condoms with her and with guys...it's not fair to gamble with her life by risking contracting an STD.

Absolutely. I've learned from my own experience, though to a lesser extent, that being dishonest with a partner is death for a relationship. And neither of us even cheated (at least to my knowledge, and that's kind of the point with that- how can you tell). And certainly use protection with the others, at least, whether you tell her or not.

 

[midwestscribe]

Does that mean im bisexual or bicurious?

You mentioned nothing about whether you have sex with girls.

If you do, then, by definition, you are bisexual.

The "bi" part means two sexes. So, you've got to be doing girls and guys to be bi. Really pretty simple.

But, if you're not doing girls, that's cool too. Some guys want to be with a girl but aren't ready to be with a girl until they have the right amount of confidence. Even if you're never ready, that's fine, as well. Having sex with another guy can serve two purposes: it provides you with release and you can learn that caring about a partner's pleasure is key to being a good lover, whether your partner is a guy or girl - an important talent to develop.

Everyone has to choose the sex life that's best for them. Nobody else should dictate how you live it.

 

[bifocal]

So how do I seduce a straight guy? I want to get with one of my friends so bad!

If anyone wants to know my secret method to seducing straight guys let me know, it never fails.